Episode discussion # 19 - Page 99

Originally posted by: sns23

I don’t know if i would go as far as to say Vidhi doesn’t love dev - I think she does truly madly and deeply. Or atleast they’ve portrayed her to be that way so far. Which is why this track is sitting well with no one.

They wanted to do something with this track and just failed miserably. It would have made sense if vidhi stood by dev and everyone else was against him. But I have no idea why they dint go that way. What was all this drama meant to accomplish?

I didn't say she doesn't love him.. More like she loves the idea of falling in love with him. Since she is too naive or rather stupid so she doesn't understand. Dev is her idol a perfect man whom she worships.One she could only dream of..she used to say she never wanted to attain him but only love him from a distance. This is more like fans in love with their idol ( may be actor, sports man etc etc)

Not much time was given by makers to let their relationship grow organically. They were thrust into marriage sooner that what atleast Vidhi would have wanted. So naturally she doesn't feel comfortable when he initiates physical relationship.

Originally posted by: Chinie

Then what is point of making love story of them.they are giving wrong message to society instead should shut down the show.

I think they are showing that marry off at immature age always results in such things .Dev also never made vidhi understand such things. He just said yes to everything what vidhi said

Vidhi doesn't have any understanding of relation especially husband wife relation.

And for Amba she is also worse only ,just because he rejected her and that also decently said many times he doesn't love her but still he'll bent on revenge and also said cheap things abt his character.Instesd Dev could have remained alone

But Dev knew everything abt Vidhi still fell in love and married her even he is equally responsible for this.If he still agrees to stay with her then no one can do anything

I'm only sharing my feeling. May be my perspective

is wrong.

Actually age gap relationships may have multiple problems but not thr dramatic ones showed in show.

Atleast now the makers should not rush this vidhi's distrust track and switch to another track but focus on deepening the relationship between leads as most of us feel bad for Dev for having married Vidhi.

Originally posted by: Minami_koi

I didn't say she doesn't love him.. More like she loves the idea of falling in love with him. Since she is too naive or rather stupid so she doesn't understand. Dev is her idol a perfect man whom she worships.One she could only dream of..she used to say she never wanted to attain him but only love him from a distance. This is more like fans in love with their idol ( may be actor, sports man etc etc)

Not much time was given by makers to let their relationship grow organically. They were thrust into marriage sooner that what atleast Vidhi would have wanted. So naturally she doesn't feel comfortable when he initiates physical relationship.

Not at all, I dint imply that 😊 your perspective is extremely valid - what I am trying to say is that it doesn’t resonate with the vidhi they have shown for the last 9 months. Yes maybe she loved the idea of being with him, but she does love him too, madly so.
If this wasn’t ITV they would have definitely had a slower pace, but it’s not and not all audiences (esp. tRP audience) would be ok with having an extended dating track. I love how they had starting showing growth in their relationship post marriage. Physical intimacy takes time, it doesn’t come overnight and I think the way they were building up to it was also good.
This last week just doesn’t sit well with the Vidhi they have shown so far.

ultimately this is just a show, an ITV show nonetheless - today they’ll show something and a week down the line it’ll be something else. These guys have gotten us invested in it and are now taking us along for a ride 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Minami_koi

I'm only sharing my feeling. May be my perspective

is wrong.

Actually age gap relationships may have multiple problems but not thr dramatic ones showed in show.

Atleast now the makers should not rush this vidhi's distrust track and switch to another track but focus on deepening the relationship between leads as most of us feel bad for Dev for having married Vidhi.

Everyone can have their own opinion.i was just sharing mine😊.everyone's perspective can also be different

But i agree they show they depth of their relationship and it's growth with time overcoming all obstacles and eventually becoming so strong that no-one can break it

Originally posted by: Fanzzz

I have not seen the episodes yet... And reading all the crap that is happening in the show I don't think I will watch...

However this entire plot seems to be so pointless... They ruined Vidhi and also the relationship that she had with Dev... Dev remains intact but this has tinted the relationship that we have always rooted for....

Ab lagta hai Dev akela hi thik tha...

Balki he was better off with Amba, because Amba baki sab ke sath chahe Jo kare Dev ko kuch nahi hone deti... She would have been a rock for him... Duniya ki aankhein noch leti magar Dev ko kuch hone nahi deti...

I never thought I will ever support Dev- Amba relationship but now I feel Vidhi is not worth it yaar...

Such a waste...

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the last week is definitely not worth watching. save yourself some time and heartache.
In a week we can hopefully all forget that this ever happened!

I think its both. She loves him and the idea of falling in love with him. Because i always felt more than anything, Vidhi respects Dev a lot as a person! which grew into love(keeping the Divya track aside). It was Vidhi who initiated this relationship followed by Satya who gave her support she needed and both of them helped Dev come out of the shell to seek happiness for himself instead of putting others first

She does feel over burdened by everything because comfort level has completely changed as she lives in a bigger house with some people who are always putting her down and being trusted with many so responsibilities.

i think she was ready to move to the next part of the relationship had Seema not interrupted because the entire jewellery scene she does not look uncomfortable, but overwhelmed by the love in Dev's eyes. But the scenarios that came in their lives one after the other is not giving them a chance to be themselves. I have actually liked how they have built the relationship after marriage slowly in the moments.

I think Dev and Vidhi's romance is more heartfelt which is why i find it so refreshing. They have moments of passion as well but its the caring actions and that's how one can sustain a relationship.

And in ITV, there are certain benchmarks which are crossed in intervals rather than all at once like attraction, then confession, then marriage and finally consummation warna story khatam lol so we'll have to be patient for that 😉

Originally posted by: sns23

I don’t know if i would go as far as to say Vidhi doesn’t love dev - I think she does truly madly and deeply. Or atleast they’ve portrayed her to be that way so far. Which is why this track is sitting well with no one.

They wanted to do something with this track and just failed miserably. It would have made sense if vidhi stood by dev and everyone else was against him. But I have no idea why they dint go that way. What was all this drama meant to accomplish?

@bold - this is where the writers and makers screwed up and the price was Vidhi's charaterization. It was not in line with the Vidhi we know. Hence the entire Divya plot fell flat. Its basically going to be a phase of the story none of us want to remember lol

Originally posted by: sns23

Not at all, I dint imply that 😊 your perspective is extremely valid - what I am trying to say is that it doesn’t resonate with the vidhi they have shown for the last 9 months. Yes maybe she loved the idea of being with him, but she does love him too, madly so.
If this wasn’t ITV they would have definitely had a slower pace, but it’s not and not all audiences (esp. tRP audience) would be ok with having an extended dating track. I love how they had starting showing growth in their relationship post marriage. Physical intimacy takes time, it doesn’t come overnight and I think the way they were building up to it was also good.
This last week just doesn’t sit well with the Vidhi they have shown so far.

ultimately this is just a show, an ITV show nonetheless - today they’ll show something and a week down the line it’ll be something else. These guys have gotten us invested in it and are now taking us along for a ride 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes true.. From the beginning makers have been juggling too many balls... But with this track thru have definitely messed up big time..

You are right.. We are too invested in this show to call it quits. So guess we need yo keep enduring it.

Originally posted by: hmhss

And in ITV, there are certain benchmarks which are crossed in intervals rather than all at once like attraction, then confession, then marriage and finally consummation warna story khatam lol so we'll have to be patient for that 😉

For sure 🤣🤣 I am not too worried about the benchmarks - it’s the nonsense tracks that causes character assassinations!

Originally posted by: sns23

I don’t know if i would go as far as to say Vidhi doesn’t love dev - I think she does truly madly and deeply. Or atleast they’ve portrayed her to be that way so far.

Sorry yaar SNS, tujhse koi jhagada nahi. But no, I will not agree that Vidhi truly madly deeply loves him.

The meaning of true love is taught by Radha, so unconditional that Krishna moving on with his life purpose, leaving her behind, doesn't change her love for him. He marries, has children....... But nothing changes or affects her love. That's why she is the music on his lips, in his heart.

What they have portrayed is kind of conflicting....... She claims she is in love........ Like an abhisarika she went in his search.... But uska Maan apmaan Vidhi ko jyada impact nahi karata........ There's not sufficient reaction portrayed for humiliation of Satya, slapping Dev from Hariya...... She's just papa ki beti in those moments....... And then she is insolent to say I will marry only Dev sir

Does Vidhi understand what marriage vows mean? It's through thick and thin.... Till death sets us apart....... Jara sa thinning hua nahi yeh toh patali gali se nikal gayee.

As Karthika mentioned, had Amba been married to Dev, voh kha jaati sab ko Jo bhi Dev ke khilaaf ek shabd bhi bolata.

Which is why this track is sitting well with no one.

They wanted to do something with this track and just failed miserably. It would have made sense if vidhi stood by dev and everyone else was against him. But I have no idea why they dint go that way. What was all this drama meant to accomplish?

In line commented.