Pizza party was nice - Page 46

ha ab telescope nazar aaya. Kya aap judge, lawyer ya police ale ho jiski nazar itni tez hai?

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Are behen log pehle batao goda masala kis me dalte hai

I have freshly grounded Goda masala

Thats maharashtrain masala which use in different vaegtables or daal whcich we call aamti

Originally posted by: Moor278

Try masale bhaat... it's a nice version... that too uses Goda masala.

I use this blog for reference... it has tried and tested authentic maharashtrian recipes ... if done correctly... always comes out well.

https://chakali.blogspot.com/?m=0

You use Chakli blospot? Thats my favorite go to site for marathi recipes. Its great. You are right if you follow it always come out well.

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

Yes I saw the telescope too… it was the start of the scene for the night.

Saw it at the beginning of the scene when pizza is kept on table. Nice star gazing by family of 4 will be nice. If P interupts while Vinu is enjoying the session with his family & him getting upset about mumma spoiling it will be great.

See blurb of Virats dream. Wonder if Virat sees it again & feels threatened of loosing it. When he is going to realize problem & only solution.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

wow i thought people forgot that promo. that is a very telling promo. Sai knows Virat will feel bad thats why that shock when he says manjoor. It always looked like he will break if the guy comes, and sai knows this. :)

True. With the holi scene of Virats behavior, talk while under influence told Sai what he really thinks, feels. She still loves him but the way she is she won't act upon it & encourage him. But she still has feeling for him & will be hard for her to move on with another guy.

In the promo she is just saying to tease Virat & when he accidenty agreed to her moving on, not just him but she too was shocked. She isn't falling for anyone yet.

I really hope Satya becomes her true friend. He will fall for her but understand that she won't. May be his back story is for him to fall for her & get why she won't. Then she will have someone who is her equal whom she can open up. Who can guide her instead of talking to her aaba, someone who can confront Virat & stand up when P tries to get to her. Someone like Samrat but not as her dada or brother.

You are an amazing writer.You should write more.You must be a writer.

If you write a book, I will buy it.

Originally posted by: The_aliciaa

Also why I said that the statement about keeping kids wishes forefront is wrong because this is not about materialistic wishes, it about going back to marriage which was never successful, reliving that trauma again,no mother deserves that, and even kids will feel guilty when grow up,as Savi was born and brought up by Sai, making her understand must not be wrong.

Not every sacrifice is worth sometimes and here even baba is not that worth unfortunately.

TW... self harm.

There's a difference in this.... a woman doesn't deserve it but a mother sacrifices for her kids.

I have a real life example of this.. one of my friends was stuck in a marriage like this. I am not sure if he was abusive towards her and to what degree... but he was good to kids. That's what she told us.

She was a very warm happy go lucky person who never revealed what was happening behind the doors.

We only got to know that she was depressed and in pain when we heard the news of her suicide. Till then except one friend who only knew bits but didn't knew the magnitude of it believed that it was just a regular husband wife quarrel.

Not justifying any of this or V or Sai.

I would be happy if Sai gets the kids and she leaves.... I would be happy if V redeems himself and then gets kids and Sai... but I won't judge a Sai who sacrifices her wishes for the sake of kids.

Originally posted by: Sherry24

They are recreating SaiRat scenes with Sai and Sathya. The catch and drop reminded me of Mirchi Modak track when V drops her on the bed. They have already started the nickname game already. V has only got a whiff of how certain things personal to them is being shared by Sai with Sathya.

Again not sure if this is the intent. But sharing something that just came to me.

A few of us have discussed this before. Sai-V relationship was built on compromises, Even after they confessed and started their marriage on basis of love they carried a lot of baggage from the deal phase. There was so much love coupled with insecurities and fears. The fear of losing the other. The trust that the love will be reciprocated in same measure and if the other will not abandon always occupied their subconscious mind. Hence, whenever a situation arose, they resolved it on the surface without delving or addressing the deeper issue. If they had communicated and eliminated the root cause, their relationship would have been strong enough to withstand any obstacle. Hence the relationship was doomed. So it had to break. But the love existed. So it was like rise from the ashes after breaking free all the shackles and uniting in true sense and starting afresh.

Now what did we see post leap. P occupied every physical space that belonged to Sai. The room that belonged to Sai-V now is tainted by P taking over as V's wife and living in that room. Every aspect of Sai-V's married life except V himself has been touched and contaminated by P.

Sai has no physical space when it comes to V that can be invaded by someone like P did. So what is left of Sai-V relationship that can be compromised and needs to be rebuilt. Incidents, habits, conversations....things that were personal to them outside the purview of their room or any physical space.

That is what they are doing with the recreation of these scenes. Sathya will become Sai's friend. A friend that V was once to Sai. But that V had feelings for Sai. So V will only see a mirror of the friendship here.

The way Sai feels about P taking over her place in V's life, V will feel Sathya taking over his place in Sais' life. The moments and gestures he shared only with Sai, she will share with Sathya. Maybe not romantic. But V will see it from that lens because he had those feelings when he was with Sai. Being the more insecure and jealous of the two, V will express his emotions more strongly.

Moor you often talk about memories and spaces. Memories are there, but the physical spaces will invoke negative feelings now because of P. So what happens to those memories? Just replace them with new ones.

Was there not a discussion about the "Guest Room" as the new haven for Sai-V devoid of P? Similarly if it has rise from the ashes the memories also need purification that is devoid of P.

While a new personal space needs to be build, new memories will also need to take form without any of the evil stains. It has to be a new journey, a new story with the old love!

PS - Aaj actually V ki woh signature mundi hilane pe gussa nahi aaya. That strong urge to whack his head was missing. Because he is getting his dues shortly. While he sits and thinks that “one fine day” things will be be good and Sai will apologise for her words, his world will tilt upside down. He will be busy catering to zaroori, while the actual Sai and Zaroori will be slipping away. So much for his arrogance, confidence and Sahi waqt!

Beautiful post 😍😍😍

@bold... yup... that's what I meant and I liked about the set burning.. (apologies in advance).

Indirectly... The set burning eliminated further 'contamination' of the physical space/SaiRat room and now when they recreate those memories there are 2 beautiful additions to it... Saavi and Vinu.

Also with this new storyline Sai has a temp physical space in the house.

The other aspect is like you said the intangible.

We can go on and on about how V favours P... that's an essay in itself. But even many agree that his feelings for Sai occupy a specific space in his life. He is not going to ever eliminate them. Whether in anger, frustration, ego or love... Sai is to stay one way or another.

With kids Sai V are tied forever even if they don't remain a couple a material terms.

Originally posted by: LadyD

You use Chakli blospot? Thats my favorite go to site for marathi recipes. Its great. You are right if you follow it always come out well.

Specially faral banvayla use karte ❤️ Ani authentic ones..

I like the tips section best 👌

Husband introduced me to this site... 😉

He used to follow it when he was out of India and craved for traditional recipes.

Originally posted by: Moor278

TW... self harm.

There's a difference in this.... a woman doesn't deserve it but a mother sacrifices for her kids.

I have a real life example of this.. one of my friends was stuck in a marriage like this. I am not sure if he was abusive towards her and to what degree... but he was good to kids. That's what she told us.

She was a very warm happy go lucky person who never revealed what was happening behind the doors.

We only got to know that she was depressed and in pain when we heard the news of her suicide. Till then except one friend who only knew bits but didn't knew the magnitude of it believed that it was just a regular husband wife quarrel.

Not justifying any of this or V or Sai.

I would be happy if Sai gets the kids and she leaves.... I would be happy if V redeems himself and then gets kids and Sai... but I won't judge a Sai who sacrifices her wishes for the sake of kids.

I didn't care about SaiRat reunion only if they hadn't brought in a new guy when I've got option why I'd be okay with Sai ending up with a tainted guy even for kids sake I'd not be okay with the compromise.