Akshara ka dukh with 0 guilt - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Akshara ki "galti " ki punishment toh usne accept kar liya. Ab saza katne ke baad kaisa guilt? Guilt toh Abhimanyu ko ab shuru hui hai ki usne Akshara ke saath kya kiya. Ek miscarriage patient ko itna physical aur mental stress dekhe usne uski jaan khatre mein nahi dali? Ek taxi tak arrange nahi kiya use apne mayke chodne. Uska accident ho sakta tha, kidnap ho sakta tha, r*pe ho sakta tha. In sab ke liye Abhimanyu ko itne saal kyun guilt nahi hua? Aur kya punishment bhugta usne Akshara ka diya hua? Akshara ne toh Abhimanyu ka diya hua punishment bhugat liya hai. Aur jab Pata chalega ki usne apni pregnant biwi ko usne itna torture karke, gharne Bahar pheka toh aur guilt Hona chahiye. Aur saza milni chahiye.

Doesn't Akshara know driving?

Originally posted by: Krinya

Pl don't mind..I can only read that much hindi written in English.

@bold. Guilt feel karke kya karegi ? A person HAS to move on , and forget their past mistakes otherwise they can't live in present .

Have you seen this Aamir khan movie ..talash? Aamir feels guilty for sleeping for 10 mins , which led to his son drowning in the lake...so much guilt , that he developed deep depression n started hallucinating. He held himself responsible for his sons death.. ..so where does the guilt lead ? Only in depression and personality disorders. One has to come out of it bec everything is not abt the wrong decisions ..some of it is destiny also some of it is bad luck..who can foresee the result of their decisions ?

In s1.akshara took a decision which led to daddajis death..n bhabhi ma kicked her out ..she said the same thing ..how can I know my decision will go wrong ?

Today abhimanyu has realised no? He is feeling guilty to divorce akshu...now what will he do with the guilt ? Cry everyday ? Blame his bad luck, destiny ko Koso bhagwan ko Koso...nothing will.help ..Guilt means living in past and it's never sensible to do so.

I have not watched those scenes so i will not comment i will only talk about things i know and i have seen. It might be incorrect to as i am not regular watcher i skip lot of unwanted scenes in order to protect my sanity 🤣

Akshu made abhi realize what wrong he did 6 years ago and he understood his mistakes too. Now he will live miserable life where he will think because of him akshu had to suffer 6 years without her family.

But who will tell him the truth that his child is alive whom he is considering as dead and now repenting on treating her bad. Somewhere he deserves to know he not only hurt her but his impulsive behaviour hurt his kid too.

I do not want abhir truth to revealed for abhira reunion but rather i want abhi to understand what will be the cost of his mistakes both are paying now. He will atleast not marry arohi. Now he only thinks he treated akshu badly and he don't want to push arohi for marriage. But in order to stay away from akshu he will be okay with marrying arohi if she agrees.

Ak has obviously been wrong many times. But that day, her choices were taken in the spur of the moment. I think she accepted that what happened was wrong; the only thing is, she was still wrapping her mind around what happened. Honestly, this is not on Ak. She had just miscarried, was obviously distraught, and was already being blamed by everyone else. If Abhi had given her the space and just told her to go to goenka's house and he would come to talk to her in a few days, then it would have worked out. At least he could have divorced her in a few days if he felt like there would be no reconciliation with manjari.

What makes you think Ak doesn't feel guilty? She has not once talked about the past in that way. She has no complaints about being treated unfairly by anyone except Abhi. And most importantly, she has changed. The biggest measure of guilt is how you learn from your mistake.

Finally, all she wanted was forgiveness and acceptance, and she was not given that. Especially by her husband, who constantly tried to change/control her. And the biggest part of it is Abhi treating her like a murderer. An accident is not equated to committing murder. That is insane. She was at fault, yes, but Abhi is more at fault for how he treated her, not just then, but even in previous instances of blaming when things didn't go right.

Whatever she did after Abhi rejected her, is a different topic honestly, and we will get to see more of that when Abhir's truth comes out.

Of course, an abortion patient who is in a state of mental shock will drive herself to her maternal home🌚

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Of course, an abortion patient who is in a state of mental shock will drive herself to her maternal home🌚

physically she's fine as she had natural one not dnc...emotionally I agree with you ..so is abhimanyu,manjari,aarohi. Everyone was equally hurt emotionally.

A) What??!🌚 A woman who miscarried a complicated twin pregnancy is physically fine? Are you are that even in cases of spontaneous abortions, medical procedures are done to completely clear out the conceptus? What about infection prevention?

B) How hard is it for a man who supposedly loved his wife soooo much to ask one of his drivers to drop her home. People do that for even their worst enemies.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

A) What??!🌚 A woman who miscarried a complicated twin pregnancy is physically fine? Are you are that even in cases of spontaneous abortions, medical procedures are done to completely clear out the conceptus? What about infection prevention?

B) How hard is it for a man who supposedly loved his wife soooo much to ask one of his drivers to drop her home. People do that for even their worst enemies.

That medical procedure is called d n c... which is not required in all the cases in earlier pregnancy...

I said physically fyn because she walked all the way from home to unknown bus stop..so she seems very fyn...but emotionally hurt

Originally posted by: Veesam

physically she's fine as she had natural one not dnc...emotionally I agree with you ..so is abhimanyu,manjari,aarohi. Everyone was equally hurt emotionally.

Sure they were hurt, but being hurt doesn't give one the right to hurt others. If they couldn't think clearly, they could have asked Akshara to leave calmly or asked one of the Goenkas to take her away if she was adamant on not leaving instead of pushing her (Manjari) or divorcing her (Abhimanyu) without ever giving her a chance to explain.

I'll ask you the same question Akshara asked Abhimanyu. Would they have treated Neil the same had Akshara died? Would Manjari have pushed Neil or stopped him from putting flowers near Akshara (IDK what that is or it's significance)? Would Abhimanyu have thrown him out of the house and broken all ties with him?

A) it is not D and C(curettage). For abortion the procedure done dilatation and Evacuation (d and e).

B)That is not the only procedure there is. Have you ever heard about other procedures like suction/vacuum aspiration?

C) I am a doctor myself. So, I am well aware of the protocols that need to be follwed in cases in hers. And Abhimanyu, being a "bloody good" doctor couldn't fulfill the basic responsibilities of a doctor? So not only is he a bad husband and a bad father, he is bad doctor as well.