TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #20 "CAN I??" (updt on pg-125, 6th post) - Page 80

Originally posted by: mahiaana

So we can have TB discussion thread even after it end?

Yes ofcourse 👍.....there is no such restriction 🤗

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

His biggest obstacle is actually going to be himself, not traditions, not society. not his mother approval.

He has said so in words that he thinks she can conquer the world, but what does it mean in practice for him. He won't change his conservative opinions unless he is confident in her, if not love but she will never leave him. He wants importance in her life, if he lets her pursue a life outside his sphere of influence then that love he desires from her will get divided onto other things. But will it be like Humsafar or ZGH. I hope it is the latter feudal version. Ashar pretended to let Khairad have independence only to tighten the noose around her neck. But whatever can happen will only happen once Rohail is out of the picture, can't see her letting her go with that doofus sniffing around.

You picked up that feudal side of him very well.

So far, Murtasim is all words when you see him appreciating Meerab but when she acts upon those very qualities, he does not take it well.

Case in example, the nayla incident. He very well knew Meerab is not someone who can let injustice happen in front of her eyes, especially to women, he still chose to avoid her repeated questions on what was he going to do with the woman. Again there, he committed an error of mistaking her ideals and underestimating her impulse when it comes to seeking justice. Boom, she landed up and against him in front of the whole panchayat.

He says he loves her courage for standing up for the right but when she does, he gets miffed and crashes a car.

It's like I am giving you this golden cage, you can fly as much as you can, but inside it's vicinity.

Like I mentioned he is very vulnerable and insecure when it comes to her, because she has not even accepted him yet. If he lets her go out, seek the world, make new friends, that insecurity will go deeper and he will not be able to take it at all. Her undivided attention is what he seeks and that is not something Meerab can give him right now.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Most forum gets closed within 2-3 weeks when a show ends. We can make a chat thread after TB ends if we want to discuss.

I know we are dissapointed but making a new forum for a limited series show was always a huge ask. There needs to be a mod who will have to check each and every thing about the forum.

Yes forum gets closed after the show end.....but there is no restriction on DTs in a forum so its better choice havinga DT in PSF instead of having an individual forum if we want to continuethe discussions after the show ends...😍

Bold - exactly 👍

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

You picked up that feudal side of him very well.

So far, Murtasim is all words when you see him appreciating Meerab but when she acts upon those very qualities, he does not take it well.

Case in example, the nayla incident. He very well knew Meerab is not someone who can let injustice happen in front of her eyes, especially to women, he still chose to avoid her repeated questions on what was he going to do with the woman. Again there, he committed an error of mistaking her ideals and underestimating her impulse when it comes to seeking justice. Boom, she landed up and against him in front of the whole panchayat.

He says he loves her courage for standing up for the right but when she does, he gets miffed and crashes a car.

It's like I am giving you this golden cage, you can fly as much as you can, but inside it's vicinity.

Like I mentioned he is very vulnerable and insecure when it comes to her, because she has not even accepted him yet. If he lets her go out, seek the world, make new friends, that insecurity will go deeper and he will not be able to take it at all. Her undivided attention is what he seeks and that is not something Meerab can give him right now.

If he feels betrayed because of Rohail will he make the cage smaller or will he realize that give her some independence but still keep her on a leash (I don't mean he thinks of her as a dog just a metaphor) so that she is not tempted again to escape him. Because it doesn't seem like by separation they have made significant process on her career front or studies. This is the epilogue, once all the problems are done, haya and malik jr. hopefully dead, maryam settled, it is just you me and baby murtasim will set her free. And last shot I love you hahaaaaaa I am just going to haunt you with this scenario.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

You picked up that feudal side of him very well.

So far, Murtasim is all words when you see him appreciating Meerab but when she acts upon those very qualities, he does not take it well.

Case in example, the nayla incident. He very well knew Meerab is not someone who can let injustice happen in front of her eyes, especially to women, he still chose to avoid her repeated questions on what was he going to do with the woman. Again there, he committed an error of mistaking her ideals and underestimating her impulse when it comes to seeking justice. Boom, she landed up and against him in front of the whole panchayat.

He says he loves her courage for standing up for the right but when she does, he gets miffed and crashes a car.

It's like I am giving you this golden cage, you can fly as much as you can, but inside it's vicinity.

Like I mentioned he is very vulnerable and insecure when it comes to her, because she has not even accepted him yet. If he lets her go out, seek the world, make new friends, that insecurity will go deeper and he will not be able to take it at all. Her undivided attention is what he seeks and that is not something Meerab can give him right now.

This sums up murtasim

https://twitter.com/blakexspastry/status/1636257908626169856?t=yxXasjdlY6BMd6Tewd5-bQ&s=19

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https://twitter.com/_mstweeter_/status/1636167854918713344?t=qdDlCnzQGb80JZxAe-D4PA&s=19

Originally posted by: Nephy1

The way this show is written.

They are not compatible.

In real one has to suffer life long to maintain this kind a relationship...

We have examples of this in real life also...

I am feeling bad for of them now.

Murtasim deserved someone who would be strong,vocal,educated as well as have leadership qualitues but at the same time who would be ready to.pay the price of being Mrs.Murtasim Khan...that post demand sacrifice,he himself sacrificed,he is like king...who would have to be there for his people,who had to take the responsibility of hundreds of people,who had to rear them.That mkes him alone,restrained in his gestures,secretive as well as amongst security,he can't enjoy freedom or go anywhere as he want.These all sacrifices are required or needed for his wife also,So technically he required someone who could live this caged life with him despite being able to conquer the world like him.

While meerab,I feel bad for her also,she is someone who deserved a partner and life where she can be himself,she can fly,she can take breath,not be secretive,not be caged,having the time of her life where she didn't had to sacrifice for others.

She wanted a life like a girl.with millions of dreams and simple household with a loving husband who would have pampered her and she would have pursued her dream,its just them,their dreams their small family thats it.

Nothing more.

They both are wigh wrong partner,they would have to suffer this unwanted union.

I am feeling now bad for them and thinking when this happens in real life how much those people suffer.

I have a slightly different take here.

No couple in this world is compatible from get go, neither is compatibility consistent. It needs working, from both ends, equally. Any healthy relationship requires consistent, continuous efforts. Letting go of certain things, forgiveness, mutual respect, communication, spending enough time with each other all of it is needed for a healthy survival.

There is no set criteria for certain kind of people deserving another certain kind of people. It is just the boxes we put them into depending on experiences and tales.

Murtasim and Meerab do complete what's missing in the other. While she has all the qualities for being the lady of their house, once she willingly takes charge, he can be the ground to her skies. He has that level of sensitivity and sense of protection when it comes to her.

Now what the hell is this ham pagla jaengea speculation laga kar what if vo actually gajra dal kar pregnant ho

https://twitter.com/maanmarziyan_/status/1636289451143081987?t=PotuMVL8NIWN5gzbln0WrQ&s=19

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

I have a slightly different take here.

No couple in this world is compatible from get go, neither is compatibility consistent. It needs working, from both ends, equally. Any healthy relationship requires consistent, continuous efforts. Letting go of certain things, forgiveness, mutual respect, communication, spending enough time with each other all of it is needed for a healthy survival.

There is no set criteria for certain kind of people deserving another certain kind of people. It is just the boxes we put them into depending on experiences and tales.

Murtasim and Meerab do complete what's missing in the other. While she has all the qualities for being the lady of their house, once she willingly takes charge, he can be the ground to her skies. He has that level of sensitivity and sense of protection when it comes to her.

Yes👍 ..... exactly my thoughts 👍