Originally posted by: -honeydew-
I think in the light of the new guys entry Virat’s mistakes have become more glaringly visible, not to compare but his mistakes now pose a threat that’s more tangible. We don’t know how Satya will turn out but for every wrong step that Virat takes there will be a risk of Sai more logically moving away from him to find a better option (not that she wants it either, but it will make the scenario more legit).
I always wondered even back in the day why he was always so harsh with Sai for the smallest of things and never made her feel secure, by always siding Pakhi indirectly sometimes and directly sometimes by being silent or not reacting at other times. Post his marriage with her from his nonchalant behaviour his behaviour started to get atrocious when he allowed Pakhi to simply get away with every crime and his silence only made him an accomplice by the way he reacted against Sai. I can understand the vibe and emotion they were trying to go for, that they wanted to show him to be a man who couldn’t give PL any love, atleast he tried to give her his loyalty but even that has been butchered post this Vinu revelation and kidnapping track. He wants the best of both worlds whether it comes to kids or his marital life so much so that even after calling his so called ex wife his wife in a drunken state he is unapologetic around her and has the audacity to silk when she corrects him and asks him to be in his limits. He is like a sulking child who wants his way and nothing else. He can’t show this side to the woman he is married to so he shows it to the woman who he thinks he owns which by itself is a disgusting thought- why am I back to comparing all this to the love story when your topic is about him being a father- it’s very simple ! It’s to show you a pattern, that he doesn’t know how to treat people he genuinely loves- he takes them grossly for granted and expects the world to forgive him because deep down in his heart he feels his love for them is pure. It’s warped but I think redemption is coming ! Ache din aane waale hai .. let’s wait and watch
agree with most of this except last lines. Based on everything you have explained itself, this guy is irredeemable. Regret , repentance ho sakta hai toh thik hai. But redeem karna is impossible. how do you redeem a guy who has left no stone unturned in terms of keeping any sanctity intact in love and marriage or maintain boundaries in his relationships.
even if he had married P but truly maintained it as namesake living in different rooms, and never allowing manipulation to do anything wife like- audience would have tried to understand his pov. but how do you redeem a man who has only made bade choices voluntarily over and over. he has allowed P every allowance of a wife in public and private voluntarily except sex- which also almost happened. Cuddling, hugging on bed happened. maybe even kissing. but not sex. they blurred it so we dunno what he did/didnt do in honeymoon. he gave P the place of his wife in every way. Every Sai V scene was recreated on VP.
and what the heck is his current behaviour?! he was guilty that he was feeling for Sai despite promise made to P- but he is disrespecting P anyhow with his ridiculousness and the person paying the price is not him but Sai. P deserves this treatment as karmic payback but it is V who should tolerate the consequences. Why sai? Why Savi. Why are these two bearing the brunt of Vs BS?! and what does he expect from Sai in return for his crap. Is she supposed to smile and invite him to lunchdate because he decided to do some nautanki about caring for Sai's food etc etc. What nonsense. He buys saree, he takes lunch, he offers to drop her, he decides to do bad chowkidaari but the person getting insulted is Sai.
Why should Sai tolerate disrespect from piece of scum like P?
Did Sai ask for attention. NO.
What Sai asked of him- talking to Vinu to help him get over irrational fears- that he didnt do.
Instead he is doing everything Sai is refusing and asking him not to do.