Originally posted by: sadiltl
I know Virat has gone over the top crazy...is it fair on Sai? Definitely NO in the case of regular scenario. I was saying this from the time he confessed his feelings and Sai was back at CN. He cannot delay in clarifying his feelings for Sai, because people will perceive Sai as the other woman. Also he cannot make Sai feel that she is the other woman, without her fault. He cannot let her get humiliated. However today, after all this kaand, still Sai will not be humiliated, IMO. The one who is utterly humiliated is Pakhi. Jaise Karni waise barni. Followed by Virat, owing to his stature.
Why did Pakhi have to make Sai Talli and cause humiliation to her, if she has spite with BK? Why is Sai always a target to her, when it is Virat who is running behind Sai? This is exactly the doormat mentality of women like Pakhi. You live in a marriage where the spouse is so disrespectful towards you, and you still live with it by blaming the other woman, not yourself or the man!!. Pakhi cannot even blame Virat here, because the woman in the picture is Sai, his wife who he loved dearly and almost died when she left him!! Pakhi cannot pretend to not understand this FACT. She cant keep denying the truth and then victimize herself. And make Sai the reason for this mess. It will backfire.
Truth cannot be hidden for long time. Virat CONSCIOUSLY was trying to hide his emotions for a long time. Not for his sake. He was protecting Pakhi's interests by killing his emotions. Now, under the influence of bhaang his consciousness took backseat and his feelings poured out. For him, Sai has remained his wife. In this world of subconscious, he was true to himself and his emotions. He became the Virat who was always playful with his wife. He is unable to understand why Sai is behaving angry with him. Pakhi being the other woman cant touch him.
. And when he plays Holi with his wife, he makes sure his kids are present. This is his world, without any conflict, without any duty.
It would have been humiliating to Sai....if some elder has spoken against it. But no one spoke. Even Pulkit who was in senses didnt speak. BK and Ashwini could not speak either. Ashwini could have spoken. But seeing Virat's state, may be she thought he will go overboard if interrupted. One more reason why Sai will not be under radar is because BK already introduced her as first wife who they all love. She took pictures with her.
. And for neighborhood people who have known the backstory will only guffaw how Virat is still so much in love with his ex-wife. Every family member of Virat's has a fond memory with her. OMI asking Sai for her chai is one such hearty moment.
In all this who is humiliated? Pakhi. The wife, who is not even being registered by her husband. The husband doesnt even consider her as his wife! If no one has known the nature of their relationship before, now they will know that Virat never forgot his ex-wife. Pakhi will become a bechari for some and a laughing stock for some. Virat will not get the blame for subjecting her to this because he is not conscious, he has a beautiful backstory with his first wife and NO one in the family objected to his act. Moreover, he might get pity from others on how he still loved his wife and fate has separated her from him
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So keeping all these things in mind, from top view, this drama is utterly demeaning to Pakhi. And then to Virat. Sai will be unscathed. And kids enjoyed this version of their baba. Vinu will know how happy his real baba is with his aai. Overall, it benefitted Virat and his family.
PS: Fate bezattified Pakhi. If Virat is unconscious and listens to heart, this will be her situation always. . She should leave with her head held high. Time is running out.