All the time he's thinking of her , he's unable to move on for real,she hasn't forgiven him,and she told him to stay away from her , all this is disturbing him, that's why he is trying to convince himself, I won't let u control me, all pyaar ke diwane people always talk like this, I will forget about you ,I won't let your presence affect me, blab blah, my opinion he's not thinking about his family or how her presence will hurt them. He's behaving like a scorned lover
I don't agree with the prioritizing part,I don't remember him giving her priority, when did he give her priority, except maybe when he opened the music ward for her, job issues and during the singing competition he encouraged her a lot it's always been about Anisha,Neil,MM , mahima Anand birla hospital.

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