What is more important? Love or respect?

What do you think is more important in a marriage/relationship, love or respect? Obviously, both together is the best combination but what if one had to choose just one?

With Abhimanyu, Akshara got true love but no respect (at least none at the end of their relationship)

With Abhinav, she got respect but obviously there is no romantic love in their relationship.

Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

What do you think is more important in a marriage/relationship, love or respect? Obviously, both together is the best combination but what if one had to choose just one?

With Abhimanyu, Akshara got true love but no respect (at least none at the end of their relationship)

With Abhinav, she got respect but obviously there is no romantic love in their relationship.

More than respect trust is the base of any good marriage.... Love should be there but trust and respect are the base for marriage

Akshu now has both trust and respect love can eventually happen

Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

What do you think is more important in a marriage/relationship, love or respect? Obviously, both together is the best combination but what if one had to choose just one?

With Abhimanyu, Akshara got true love but no respect (at least none at the end of their relationship)

With Abhinav, she got respect but obviously there is no romantic love in their relationship.

Mutual respect and trust over love any day. If only women understand and reject the love which has no trust and respect from day 1 in a relationship, half of the problems they face will be over. Red flags as we say should be noticed and called out. With abhimanyu the red flag was visible the day he agreed to marry arohi so that akshu confesses her love for him outof jealousy.

Respect and trust are most important. I have zero experience in this but love fades away at one point but respect and trust remains.

If respect and trust are there, friendship and eventually love can happen. If there is no respect and trust, love becomes toxic at one point.

I don't agree abhira had true love. Love is all about sticking to each other in bad times and accepting the other person as they are. Akshu fought with abhinanyu for abhimanyu , abhimanyu fought with akshu for himself ..why should she leave him bec he needs her , why shouldn't she say yes to marry him bec he loves her n all that. They just have a toxic fragile relationship with no room for error.. ..when the stakes r low abhimanyu will not let 0.000001 % harm on akshu , when it comes to his mom, he can also divorce her

My answer would be the same as everyone ..where there is no respect and trust , there cNt be any love.

On that note why is abhimanyu stalking akshara at her home. Why is he there, was he invited, is he there to say hello and ask how her journey was, or to drop off his wedding invitations. I was reading the comments no one seems to think this behaviour is just not cool anymore, maybe when you are in the dating phase showing up to a girl friends place uninvited late night for gol gape is romantic but not when you are divorced and was strictly told to not cross the line. Harshad chopra what is he 40 now like yaar these scenes acting a love sick teenager, it just doesn’t work for me. His character is a doctor can’t he atleast stalk age and profession appropriate.

The worst bit is akshara looking forlorn, this gets my goat when female characters are written to normalize this behaviour, she should look disgusted, he is there without her consent invading her personal space how is this romantic. If akshara wants to get back to abhimanyu fine, then actually give her dialogues where it shows her intentions, everything she says tells the audience she loathes abhimanyu but then her body language says otherwise. She is so confused and we are confused on WHAT DOES SHE WANT.

What I hate about characters is the lack of integrity, even toxic characters have it. Give arohi credit her whole life motto is I hate akshara atleast she sticks to it thumbs up arohi. Who are abhimanyu and akshara loyal to, not even their kids. This guy made a promise to an innocent child and he can’t even stick to it for 24 hours. Akshara unless said otherwise I assume you are legally married to abhinav, even if there is no sex it is still a marriage, you owe him an explanation before you jump ship, and it is vile when he has given you everything you can’t even be honest with him. Sexless Marriage on paper is still commitment that needs to be respected.

I feel sorry for all characters that are part of akshara and abhimanyu world. Even manjari she is gone mad first husband abuse, now son who would want to mother a son this emotionally stupid, she is stupid or is he stupid because of her only writers know. My sympathies with manjari. Arohi just wants security but akshara can’t let go and blows her life apart all the time. Abhir Ruhi sorry kids you all should be adopted by abhinav who is the only sensible parent in this story. You watch a love story despite all the stupid scheming, ultimately you want to cheer for a couple coming together, you should go awwwwwwwwww that is how it should be, but anytime Akshara abhimanyu in a single frame I feel doom gloom.

Sorry to answer this topic if what akshara and abhimanyu have is true love, then what America feels for trump is true love. Just because the man became president doesn’t mean that is the right decision. Look at all the collateral damage. Somethings happen because we gravitate towards chaos, stability is boring. Akshara and abhimanyu are like that they gravitate towards misery, it might be how this story ends but that does not make it right.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

The worst bit is akshara looking forlorn, this gets my goat when female characters are written to normalize this behaviour, she should look disgusted, he is there without her consent invading her personal space how is this romantic. If akshara wants to get back to abhimanyu fine, then actually give her dialogues where it shows her intentions, everything she says tells the audience she loathes abhimanyu but then her body language says otherwise. She is so confused and we are confused on WHAT DOES SHE WANT.

What I hate about characters is the lack of integrity, even toxic characters have it. Give arohi credit her whole life motto is I hate akshara atleast she sticks to it thumbs up arohi. Who are abhimanyu and akshara loyal to, not even their kids. This guy made a promise to an innocent child and he can’t even stick to it for 24 hours. Akshara unless said otherwise I assume you are legally married to abhinav, even if there is no sex it is still a marriage, you owe him an explanation before you jump ship, and it is vile when he has given you everything you can’t even be honest with him. Sexless Marriage on paper is still commitment that needs to be respected.

Exactly this..the classic fl who "loves" the hero no matter what...ab no matter what mei pl don't include this kind of a situation 🤢But they will..she will run towards him, fall on him, trip in front of him, found alone with him, locked up alone with him, drink with him, may even marry him accidentally and everyone will go aaawwe on the chemistry. 🤢I've started to hate the concept ofnlove on itv..going bk to my English and Korean shows.

M sorry pranali is too bad in these scenes..last time she was overacting in pregnant scenes too...like she wants to go to the loo or something , aise hi "pyar aaya hai" , like "royi aa rahi hai" abhimanyu ki🤣

Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

What do you think is more important in a marriage/relationship, love or respect? Obviously, both together is the best combination but what if one had to choose just one?

With Abhimanyu, Akshara got true love but no respect (at least none at the end of their relationship)

With Abhinav, she got respect but obviously there is no romantic love in their relationship.

Love with respect.. best example aarohi , Neil in the show.. however they are, they supported each other whether it’s good or bad, respected each other.. aarohi is loyal to him till now…

Love , respect, trust , friendship and physical intimacy is something which is important for a marriage .

Currently akshara have everything which a girl can expect in a wedding or in a life . Abhinav loves her , respect n trust is there , friendship ni best friends h dono . They have a household , they are co parenting a child , Easy n positive atmosphere , peace , a stable career . Physical intimacy is the only thing this marriage is lacking . And sadly physical intimacy was the only thing abhira had in there marriage 🙂

If this marriage is said to be fake ... Is physical intimacy is the only thing which is important in a marriage to be called a real. If you look around .. in real life there are many marriages which lacks it for various reasons.

Abhinav' love is one sided , but Akshu is scared of love coz she has a failed love marriage . They can potentially fall in love . Abhinav akshara have a potential to stand beside naitik akshara as a couple .

between love and respect, respect is more important