Akshara's decision to give Abhinav rights to be fatherji - Page 6

Then where did all the protectiveness fly off when she lost the kids? And if she hadn't miscarried her babies then he wouldn't have divorced her right? So he would have let her stay in his life only if she was able to give birth to those kids. So according to him, she does not hold any value in his life without those kids. Amd all you guys going off on her for being so casreless and stupid as you put it, did her not behave carelessly when he treated her that way? Not just carelessly, but with absolute cruelty, he cast off a woman who had miscarried her complicated pregnancy, a patient whk was in mental shock after the torture he inflicted upon her, like a piece of trash, without even bothering to make arrangements to drop her safely tk her maternal home. People with even the least but of humanity and decency do that even for their worst enemies, let alone the woman he claimed to love so much. Like I said earlier, anything could have happened to her. So he is no different than her. And that coward has the audacity to mislead her family into believing that she just left him for no major reason. Absolutely pathetic!

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yeah very much protective he was. That's why he divorced akshu when he found out she lost her babies..by chance if doc didn't give a false diagnose , he wouldn't divorce her , only not talk to her for some days..so called gussa for Neil woh bhi thanda ho jaata......manju mata bhi kehti jao beta , akshu ko le aao , mera waris Haye Haye.... Hence proved akshu was useful for him only to have babies..babies gone akshu gone..enter abhir enter akshu.

I think Abhi was more upset about Akshara risking her and her children's life by doing something he specifically warned her not to. Neil's death was the icing on top. It wasn't because she no longer carried his babies because if Abhi was truly of that mindset then there was no reason why he would not make her pregnant again (she lost her baby, not her ability to carry a child). Moreover, he has remained unmarried all these years so if he was so obessed with babies then he would have remarried any old person and had babies with them.

Most importantly, a person would never think of aborting a child for the safety of their partner, if they really just wanted their partner to be a baby machine.

In that case, one can argue that Akshara treated Abhi like a sperm donor who is only good for giving sperm and that is equally as bad as someone treating a woman as a baby machine. I don't think Akshara thinks this way, just giving an example.

I think Akshara's decision is right and Birlas should not even get to meet Abhir but I wish she and Nav were a real deal.

I'm sorry but this whole facade they have created is not sitting well with me because its absolutely unhealthy and problematic.

There are so many arguments for Akshara and agaisnt Akshara but why is noone thinking about Abhir?

A child can have a very good upbringing even when the mother is single.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

The fact that Abhi deserted his pregnant wife because she had a miscarriage and made her responsible for his step brother's accidental death is a point good enough for Abhi to be deprived off any rights over the unborn child.

How can AK or for that matter any woman trust her life partner who doesn't want to have a relationship with his wife only because she has done a few mistakes and how can she live in a place where she's being blamed accused and never supported for for few unpleasant happenings.

The fact that Abhi deserted his wife when she needed the most medical, emotional and physical support shows what kind of a husband he is.

Relations can be made with blood connection, but relationship bonding happens only with the embrace of hearts.

Birlas not only had narrow hearts but also are constricted with their own problems. Manjari always continued her toxic relationship with PB ignoring its effect on her child Abhi also she hid the real father of Neel and made Neel live like an orphan and being shamed by his own father.

When we compare that with whatever AK has done, I think is insignificant and incomparable. Still AB never questioned his mathasree but never hesitated to blame or disown AK while she was in a traumatic shock. All of this despite Birlas being a family of doctors only proves better to stay away from them.

I strongly feel CVs need to bring in the balance and decrease the toxicity otherwise this convoluted plot can spell the end of the serial.

The fact that Abhi deserted his wife when she needed the most medical, emotional and physical support shows what kind of a husband he is.

Reasons badal gaye lekin yeh same to same action Akshara ne bhi kiya tha na Abhimanyu ke sath !!

Jab Abhimanyu ka hand operation hua tha tab operation ke baad usually husband/wife kisi ko bhi apne life partner ma medical, emotional and physical support ki zarurat hoti hai.

Lekin Abhimanyu toh jab operation theatre se bahar aya tab uska life partner achanak bina kuch bataye bina kuch samjaye usse chod kar ja chuka tha Itne sensitive time par.

Yeh toh hum audiences ko pata tha ki dusra partner aisa kyun kar raha hai but operation theatre se bahar aye hue life partner ko yeh sab nahi pata tha and reason bhi aisa dikhaya tha ki kaun imagine kar sakega ki biwi achanak gayab kyun hui!

Agar mere husband suddenly 1 din muje akele chod kar 1 saal ke liye gayab ho jaye , muje yeh tak na pata ho ki mere husband akhir kaha chale gaye muje chod kar toh muje kaise feel hoga that I can’t imagine !

1 saal baad mere husband muje wapas aa kar bole ki mai toh tumhare liye he 1 saal gayab hua tha ! Toh Meri halat kaisi hogi ! 1 saal ro ro kar nikala ki mere husband kahi gayab ho gaye.

Jitna chod kar gayab honewale wale partner ko taklif hota hai usse kai zyada taklif jiska life partner achanak kisi bhi xyz reason se gayab ho jata hai usko hoti hai .

Ek ne kurbani ke chakkar mai apne partner ko most sensitive stage par bina sensibly soche insensitive ho kar akele chod diya and dusre ne sirf apni maa ki taklif ka socha aur most sensitive stage par bina sensibly soche insensitive ho kar partner ko akele chod diya.

Reason chahe jo bhi ho, jab ap ek shaddi mai hote ho aur jab apke partner ko apki sabse zyada zarurat ho tab kisi tisre ki kisi bhi lubhavni baat mai aa kar apne partner ko akele nahi chod nahi jana chahiye. Ekdusre ko bata kar , ekdusre ka hath pakad kar mushkilo ke raaste dhundhne chahiye and ekdusre ke cost par agar koi solution mile toh usko reject karna chahiye kyunki agar jeevansathi jab sath ho tab naye raaste mil he jate hai. Jeevansathi ko sensitive stage mai akele chod dene se accha hai uski help ke liye naye raste dhundho aur raste na mile toh naye raste khulne tak ka wait karo but akela na chodo.

I agree to differ abhi hand operation situation cannot be compared to AK miscarriage. Because miscarriage has more trauma attached to it than a hand surgery, also still AB had his praan samaan mathasree and bacha Neil taking care of him. AK was deserted by all gorillas, everybody shouting and scaring her away as if she's done a murder with her own hands, one wrong decision of AK caused Neil mishap, but they portrayed as if AK killed Neil deliberately. So she has none to support her when she needed the most.

Also AK absence post ab surgery was a sacrifice she's done a difficult deal with AB welfare in mind. But AB decision to divorce, deject, reject and eject AK from his life has none of it other than his impulsive nature.

I agree foolishness of both the characters but sometimes I feel DKP ppl write stories under the influence of either sasta maal or their partners belan Ka thappad🤣. Ye nasha kya kehlata hai should be the revamped title for this serial.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

The fact that Abhi deserted his wife when she needed the most medical, emotional and physical support shows what kind of a husband he is.

Reasons badal gaye lekin yeh same to same action Akshara ne bhi kiya tha na Abhimanyu ke sath !!

Jab Abhimanyu ka hand operation hua tha tab operation ke baad usually husband/wife kisi ko bhi apne life partner ma medical, emotional and physical support ki zarurat hoti hai.

Lekin Abhimanyu toh jab operation theatre se bahar aya tab uska life partner achanak bina kuch bataye bina kuch samjaye usse chod kar ja chuka tha Itne sensitive time par.

Yeh toh hum audiences ko pata tha ki dusra partner aisa kyun kar raha hai but operation theatre se bahar aye hue life partner ko yeh sab nahi pata tha and reason bhi aisa dikhaya tha ki kaun imagine kar sakega ki biwi achanak gayab kyun hui!

Agar mere husband suddenly 1 din muje akele chod kar 1 saal ke liye gayab ho jaye , muje yeh tak na pata ho ki mere husband akhir kaha chale gaye muje chod kar toh muje kaise feel hoga that I can’t imagine !

1 saal baad mere husband muje wapas aa kar bole ki mai toh tumhare liye he 1 saal gayab hua tha ! Toh Meri halat kaisi hogi ! 1 saal ro ro kar nikala ki mere husband kahi gayab ho gaye.

Jitna chod kar gayab honewale wale partner ko taklif hota hai usse kai zyada taklif jiska life partner achanak kisi bhi xyz reason se gayab ho jata hai usko hoti hai .

Ek ne kurbani ke chakkar mai apne partner ko most sensitive stage par bina sensibly soche insensitive ho kar akele chod diya and dusre ne sirf apni maa ki taklif ka socha aur most sensitive stage par bina sensibly soche insensitive ho kar partner ko akele chod diya.

Reason chahe jo bhi ho, jab ap ek shaddi mai hote ho aur jab apke partner ko apki sabse zyada zarurat ho tab kisi tisre ki kisi bhi lubhavni baat mai aa kar apne partner ko akele nahi chod nahi jana chahiye. Ekdusre ko bata kar , ekdusre ka hath pakad kar mushkilo ke raaste dhundhne chahiye and ekdusre ke cost par agar koi solution mile toh usko reject karna chahiye kyunki agar jeevansathi jab sath ho tab naye raaste mil he jate hai. Jeevansathi ko sensitive stage mai akele chod dene se accha hai uski help ke liye naye raste dhundho aur raste na mile toh naye raste khulne tak ka wait karo but akela na chodo.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I think Abhi was more upset about Akshara risking her and her children's life by doing something he specifically warned her not to. Neil's death was the icing on top. It wasn't because she no longer carried his babies because if Abhi was truly of that mindset then there was no reason why he would not make her pregnant again (she lost her baby, not her ability to carry a child). Moreover, he has remained unmarried all these years so if he was so obessed with babies then he would have remarried any old person and had babies with them.

Most importantly, a person would never think of aborting a child for the safety of their partner, if they really just wanted their partner to be a baby machine.

In that case, one can argue that Akshara treated Abhi like a sperm donor who is only good for giving sperm and that is equally as bad as someone treating a woman as a baby machine. I don't think Akshara thinks this way, just giving an example.

Abt this incident , which he didn't witness in front of his eyes, he can only rely on what others told him and their judgement , he only reacted on how it all ended ....his mata till date probably thinks she went to the concert to teach those kids...

Akshu had to go out bec she had bad cramps and probably it was bec she miscarried one of the babies... At that point she can't think of keeping promises to not step out..Mata too shouldn't have gone to the temple , at least "that" could be avoided ...irrespective of that any mishappening can occur just while sitting at home also.

Abt baby making machine and sperm donor we both know its not true. But the way he treated her for her reckless decision makes me think that all of it would never happen if that day doctor didn't diagnose wrong and akshu told him "one of the babies survived" .. its not wrong to conclude that he wanted hisbachas badly..even today if he knows abhir is his son he will.probably turn the world upside down to be with him hence akshu...it's a fact that he has been very cruel to akshu while giving his family a lot of free passes...he never understood her sacrifice to go away from him ..it doesn't make sense ..its always abt what he wants and he only decides whether they will have this relationship or not.

Abt that thing ..he wanted her to abort the child to save akshu , it was an emotional decision ..its easier said than done ..like a lot of other promises . If that's true ke he didn't 0.0000001 % harm to come on akshu, he won't divorce her like this..he would probably be mad on her , leave her at goenkas for a few days , wait till his mother settles down n then decide .