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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

The thing is , aroo never called abhinanyu as "jeth" , "jija" or "bhaiya" . Plus she is Neil's widow , Neil is not even blood related to abhimanyu . Kehne mei ya Maan lene mei, aroo never saw abhi as a brother


There is no incest whatsoever .

Neil is abhimanyus half brother..they have the same father..so they have a blood relationship. And Arohi is abhimanyus sister in law.. she is not his sister..there is no blood relation and it’s not incest. If he ŵants to marry his dead brothers widow and take care of his father less niece..it’s actually a good thing. Hope abhimanyu fulfills this relationship and doesn’t mess up again.. he’s played around with the two sisters lives enough already.hope he doesn’t hurt Ruhi this time.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

Neil is abhimanyus half brother..they have the same father..so they have a blood relationship. And Arohi is abhimanyus sister in law.. she is not his sister..there is no blood relation and it’s not incest. If he ŵants to marry his dead brothers widow and take care of his father less niece..it’s actually a good thing. Hope abhimanyu fulfills this relationship and doesn’t mess up again.. he’s played around with the two sisters lives enough already.hope he doesn’t hurt Ruhi this time.

agree! I have noticed in North India people call jija as bhaiya, sasuma as ma...but from a South Indian perspective we call jija as jija and saas,sasur are saas,sasur......in Ipkknd they showed Shyam,kushi relationship...In South India they both become bro, sis by relationship.Your wife's brother's wife is your sister.

Posted: 3 years ago
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Don't know about others but in our tradition and family, we consider elder brother-in-law as father&brother and the younger one as son.

It's ok if Abhi would've got Ar married to someone and he himself would have married someone just like Ak. But now it's not at all making sense.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veesam

agree! I have noticed in North India people call jija as bhaiya, sasuma as ma...but from a South Indian perspective we call jija as jija and saas,sasur are saas,sasur......in Ipkknd they showed Shyam,kushi relationship...In South India they both become bro, sis by relationship.Your wife's brother's wife is your sister.

yes In real life relationships are like that…our sisters husbands are like our brothers, brothers wives are like sisters…but in. This ITV show and Bollywood land..it’s nothing like that..so many shows and movies have two,sisters in love with the same man, and also two brothers in love with the same woman.. this itv and Bollywood has really destroyed family relationships on screen ☹️
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree to the fact that elder brother in law is equivalent to father in law and ultimately equivalent to father . But in some special conditions which definitely include younger brother's death ...and only if bil is single . Elder bil do marry there younger brother's widow so that her life may not get ruined and she stay in a same household becoz in older tyms ppl were not very welcoming towards widows and widow remarriages were rare n difficult .

If a child is involved .. no family will like to loose a child to another family in which there widow daughter In law will remarry so to keep the child in family and to assure the genuine love for the child ( considering that another family may not treat the child well) .

As a matter of fact remarriages of widow Sil to a younger bil is more common ( high chances of younger bil to be single ) inspite of devar bhabhi bond being equivalent to mother son.

Talking about sali jija angle . It is even more common !! in case of death of an older sister , younger sister is married to widower jijaa . Involvement of child plays a role in this case too . Refer Nadiya k paar , hum apk h kon and bewafa for better details .


All these things were very common in older tyms or present rural areas maybe becoz most of the marriage ka decisions are taken by elders which rarely includes the willingness of a person involved .

We find such examples in itv , bollywood as well as real life .

In arohi abhimanyu case jija sali angle got cancelled coz abhira is divorced . It's only elder bil - sil bond . As long as they both are compatible and ok with the marriage I don't think there is anything wrong in it .

Abhi arohi never considered each other as bro sis ( unlike abhir - kuhu in yrhpk) so it's not really unethical.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes In real life relationships are like that…our sisters husbands are like our brothers, brothers wives are like sisters…but in. This ITV show and Bollywood land..it’s nothing like that..so many shows and movies have two,sisters in love with the same man, and also two brothers in love with the same woman.. this itv and Bollywood has really destroyed family relationships on screen ☹️

You understood in reverse.. I said wife’s brother’s wife is sister… ( like Shyam , kushi) .. sisters husbands are not brothers.. they are jija ( brother in law).
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

Neil is abhimanyus half brother..they have the same father..so they have a blood relationship. And Arohi is abhimanyus sister in law.. she is not his sister..there is no blood relation and it’s not incest. If he ŵants to marry his dead brothers widow and take care of his father less niece..it’s actually a good thing. Hope abhimanyu fulfills this relationship and doesn’t mess up again.. he’s played around with the two sisters lives enough already.hope he doesn’t hurt Ruhi this time.

@bold..completely agree..


Aroo "was" his step Sali and he was aroo's step jeth. If such relations exist 🤣 Suddenly I feel we're talking about dynasty and not yrkkh s3.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veesam

You understood in reverse.. I said wife’s brother’s wife is sister… ( like Shyam , kushi) .. sisters husbands are not brothers.. they are jija ( brother in law).
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I know sisters husbands are brother in laws but in real life we regard brother in laws as brothers…I meant the significance of the relationship..not the actual relationship..or rather brother in laws are treated as brothers,,..fact of the matter is that people are only brothers and sisters if they have the same parents or at least one parent..if there’s no blood relationship then they are not sisters and brothers in actual fact and there’s no incestuous relationship if marriage occurs..🤷🏻‍♀️.’so it’s actually perfectly fine for abhimanyu to marry Arohi as she is not related to him by blood..she’s his sister in law not sister..so the law allows this ..it’s not incest 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

@bold..completely agree..


Aroo "was" his step Sali and he was aroo's step jeth. If such relations exist 🤣 Suddenly I feel we're talking about dynasty and not yrkkh s3.

yrkkh has become like bold and the beautiful now…so many relationships between the 2 families 😂
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Really this talk of incest is so ridiculous! Do people who talk like this have any idea of life? Everywhere in the world, since ancient times and especially in our culture these kind of marriages do occur.. Widowed man marries his dead wife's sister/ a widow is wed to dead husband's brother.. Both these scenarios are very very common.. Incest kahan se aaya? You can object to the marriage bcz you don't like it but logistically or ethically there's nothing wrong with it.

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