Katha Ankahee -- #8 daily episode DT - Page 54

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Omg what is this Ehsan doing now?! 😱 😭😂😂 I just don’t have the energy to deal with him anymore 😂 ✋

Originally posted by: sumaishu

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Look at Sony's caption - Ehsan ka jeena bhi katha ke liye hi hai aisa lag raha hai! 😍

Hayye

kaviaan who?

Love is a strong affection that you feel with another person. It can be of many forms, between different people, like that of parents, siblings, friends, teachers, kids, family etc. etc.

You may have romantic feelings attached to love, like love between a couple, or kind of affection without romantic feelings that you share in other relations.

Then we have the purest form of love like love to God or nature.

As M said, some people like to be in love, so they want to declare their love to someone.

What I feel is that the basis of every love is love for yourself, because you find happiness when you are in love.

So A Very Happy Valentine Day to all the lovely friends here. Keep loving, be loved and be happy. Don't forget to love and pamper yourself❤️❤️

Originally posted by: amrapali2

You write so well as usual, Mango! I definitely agree with you on your notions of love.

Not just it being Valentine’s Day today, but there are literally soo many weddings happening recently. Like literally everyone seems to be getting married. 😂 So of course, many people out there can easily feel lonely, and might seek the wrong the ideas of love as a result. I think it is quite important for us to get clear in our heads and introspect, so that we seek more healthy and genuine ideas of love.

wedding season can be brutal. love unfortunately has become another target in the rat race. especially in the indian context, it can look like this:

by xx age, you graduate, get job

by xx age, you are in a relationship

by xx age, you start the shaadi rishta process if you are not seeing someone already

by xx age, you get married

by xx age, you have baccha

by xx age, you retire

by xx age, you get your kids married off and the cycle repeats

so if you haven't completed that goal, it can feel like you are fallling behind your peers. not only do you feel lonely but also rather stupid. it is why many agree to diastrous arranged marriages even though they have inkling that it is not going to go well. there used to be this indian blog (can't remember the name now) that had compiled blog posts of real life experiences (anonymous).

I stopped reading after a while even though it was well-written because it was really depressing -- all of these people basically felt the pressure to get married or they were in love with the idea of wedding day. they were so focused on the day, they never thought about who was the person beside them and what that family would be like and it turned out be horrendous horrible. basically drama times 100.

so even when we watch dramas, I think it is important for us to be clear about what we are watching and taking away from the experience. people always say that it is just entertainment but even mindless stuff should have some depth. instead a lot of it is fluff.

the ML and FL fall in love -- they sing a song that is shot in different places abroad and dance beautifully. how many can say why these two fell in love other than being wildly attracted to each other? are they in love because they are horny? or stuck with each other and bored? sometimes love in dramas and movies is rather infantile. 🤦‍♀️🤷

the notion of love is romanticized to such an absurd extent and yet, there is often no real discussion about what is love with all its facets and how that impacts relationships.

in this drama, the importance of self-healing really comes through. if we are not at ease with ourselves and have healed from our past trauma and family baggage, then it will impact how we appraoch relationships. viaan's one night stand offer stemmed from his twisted view because of the words of his mom and the actions of his father. he has not processed what happened as an adult and made peace with that chapter. so then it impacts all his future.

before viaan really starts on a journey with katha, I would like to see more of viaan finding out about his past and properly processing. basically having those tough conversations with nightie mama and not shying away. so yes, we definitely need to introspect and have the right notions and understanding about love. otherwise, it can negatively impact our present and future as well.

Originally posted by: amrapali2

Omg what is this Ehsan doing now?! 😱 😭😂😂 I just don’t have the energy to deal with him anymore 😂 ✋

Look at sonytv's caption😄... Kya hai yeh... I think this is samar though not ehsan(I hope not😁)

Waah! What an analysis

Loved it and agree to each and every part.

Well, tbh, I am that very person who loves the idea of being in love.😆 or atleast I was like that till my late 20s.

I am the target consumer to which companies are selling all things like roses, candies, greetings etc. in the name of love🤣

Only thing different is, I dont like diamonds. They don't sell good quality diamonds in India, doesn't even give proper certificate. So I like gold🤣proper hallmark 22 carat gold jewellery or 24 carat gold biscuits🤣

Jokes apart, I was really that easy target teenager who loved mills and boons, watched all rom coms, desparately waiting for prince charming. And I thought I got all that when I got married. But if love is blind then marriage is eye opener 🤣

After marriage only I slowly understood that love is not what they show in movies or write in novels. Its very difficult to fulfill the responsibility it bestows upon you. Its very difficult to love the very same person together with all his shortcomings till the end with same passion and manage to stay sane yourself during the whole journey.😆 And whoever succeeds is the true lover.

Congratulations guys🥳

We are at No 6 in Chaska Meter. 😲👏

Originally posted by: Twinklestar139

Does Katha even like Ehsan as a friend? Someone needs to decode what Katha thinks about everyone; Viaan, Ehsan, Dodo, PapaG etc. I still can't fathom the fact that she actually agreed for a yacht date with Ehsan regardless of if it happened or not.

I have some ideas about katha and her vibe with ehsaan but they are mostly theories. thats why I have avoided writing. so no idea if they are right or wrong but just ideas.

#1 katha takes things at face value. so when papaG said no, she thought it was final and didn't even think about talking to mamaG. the old man caved in a day after mamaG got to work. perhaps in same way, katha thinks that because she had the chat with ehsaan, he knows she is not interested and therefore he is not a threat. she just assumes he is friendly

#2 katha is lonely and vulnerable. despite being still in love with adi, she is also a living human being who needs support and love. so she may be unconsciously happy to receive some attention from ehsaan. 🤷

#3 katha may actually like ehsaan and therefore happy to do harmless flirting that goes nowhere (in her mind). basically a timepass.

who knows if any or all of these ideas are right. but so far, her friendship with ehsaan seems a bit forced.

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

Congratulations guys🥳

We are at No 6 in Chaska Meter. 😲👏

how did that happen? we were 10 last week. 🤷

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

Congratulations guys🥳

We are at No 6 in Chaska Meter. 😲👏

Iss baar 10 se seedha 6 😲.. I'm so confused about how this works..

But anyways, YAY!! 🥳