Why should akshu tell the truth

I fail to understand why is akshu obliged to tell abirs truth to abhimanyu?

As abhira fans we want this bec we want abhira to br together and abir to be that binding force since abhimanyu himself burnt all the bridges . But is it really fair to akshara ? She just wants to preserve her peaceful world and she is totally justified In thinking that way.

If abir must know the truth, he must know the "complete " truth ..why his parents are not together. Why his mother is living with a stranger/ second husband in Kasali. How she was kicked out on the streets , divorced , when she suffered miscarriage. Let abir decide then he wants his biological father or not.

Sorry , but one sorry doesn't cover up what abhimanyu did. Karma is a bitch and it will bite him hard.

Akshu was never right ..she was careless , she did a mistake which cost her dearly ..she herself would never come out of that guilt , not forgive herself....whatever happened she was also in trauma..but she didn't do anything intentionally , it was a spur of a moment decision which went terribly wrong.

do they really need to "punish" her ? It's like , a child who is not as good in the class but his parents keep pushing him to get good marks , parents and teachers punish him for his limitations. No point in moulding akshu into something that she is not.

Every human is different , everyone has limitations . Abhimanyu and akshu also do..him getting angry was also justified but not signing the divorce papers , blame her for sirats death and 9 murders. Then throw her out , not care if she reached goenkas safely , not bother to take her calls..for a doctor whose profession is to care for strangers , to help them in distress keeping aside his personal trauma, here was a woman who was calling him desperately , who knows she was in grave danger , dying or anything , and what he said to her ? 🤢 that day he lost any right on his unborn .

He may be a great father but that doesn't do it really. Manjari also thinks she is the greatest mother 🤢Aroo thinks she is the best doctor.

I completely agree with you. I have been reading people say that Akshara should be guilty, but why? Her feeling guilty on her other child dying and Neil dying is still OK, though it's not like she did anything deliberately, if shefali had said the truth, so much won't have happened, but why should akshu feel guilty about hiding Abhir's truth?

Her not wanting Abhir to know is also correct, what would she explain to the boy? Forget Abhinav, she has told him about his birthday thing, but Abhi prove himself as a horrible person that day, what should she tell Abhir? Your dad is an amazing doctor, amazing son, but a horrible husband and father who kicked his wife, who was in psychical and mental trauma, out on the roads and when she went missing and called him, he told her she is nobody to him and didn't listen? She tried everything for Abhi to know the truth, he refused.

Naira was wrong because she never tried to tell Kartik, whatever he did, she could have tried at least or gone to her home, she wasn't traumatized by her family. Akshu is constantly the not preferred child by everyone in her family who ask her to bend for arohi always, including her dear brother. What I hate about this show is the whole Ganda khoon narrative they have shown as an actual truth.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I completely agree with you. I have been reading people say that Akshara should be guilty, but why? Her feeling guilty on her other child dying and Neil dying is still OK, though it's not like she did anything deliberately, if shefali had said the truth, so much won't have happened, but why should akshu feel guilty about hiding Abhir's truth?

Her not wanting Abhir to know is also correct, what would she explain to the boy? Forget Abhinav, she has told him about his birthday thing, but Abhi prove himself as a horrible person that day, what should she tell Abhir? Your dad is an amazing doctor, amazing son, but a horrible husband and father who kicked his wife, who was in psychical and mental trauma, out on the roads and when she went missing and called him, he told her she is nobody to him and didn't listen? She tried everything for Abhi to know the truth, he refused.

Naira was wrong because she never tried to tell Kartik, whatever he did, she could have tried at least or gone to her home, she wasn't traumatized by her family. Akshu is constantly the not preferred child by everyone in her family who ask her to bend for arohi always, including her dear brother. What I hate about this show is the whole Ganda khoon narrative they have shown as an actual truth.

@bold: I guess he knows about Akshara's cramps??During confrontation he mentioned it seems.

I read it somewhere. Correct me if I am wrong.

For Akshu... Goenkas never thought that sirat was a mother to her, they agreed with aarohi because they thought sirat was birth mother to her so when aarohi accused that akshu was responsible for sirats death they kept quiet not once they understood her grief. Thus she was never considered a part of Goenkas. They allowed her to be manipulated by aarohi. For everyone in Goenkas Akshu was just an extra piece who till the time listed to them is good but if she disobey they throw her like trash.

When she came to the Birlas she took them as a family she never had but they never welcomed her. Much before abhi happened Niel was a friend and brother to her he was the only one who supported her, Abhi loved her no doubt but when she actually needed the support he never supported her but Niel was always supportive that is the relationship she shared with Niel. Manjari who hid Niel origin truth very conveniently blamed Akshu for breaking her family, mahima blamed her for anisha inspite of both manjari and mahima knowing they had faulted not Akshu but since she is the soft target then why not blame her.

During abhis operation akshu sacrificed a year for her life her identity for the person she loves which not many can do but she had been fed with the crap of sacrificing for the person she loves since childhood be it aarohi Or abhimanyu. During kairavs truth she trusted abhi with proofs but mahima knowing hid the truth along with parth. Akshu was naive and just wanted to be loved and accepted but never got it. Niel was just like her just wanting to be accepted and loved and he also like akshu got manipulated by aarohi.

When Niel died akshu lost a brother and a friend but no one considered that, she accepted had it not been her concerns regarding the kids probably he would have been safe.. Manjari lost her son and grandkids, abhi lost brother and kids, aarohi lost husband and her kid is father less but they considered their loss as greatest and never considered akshu also lost a brother and kids.

Today when Akshara said that she accepted all the blames that were put on her because they were in grief but beyond that when she tried to contact Abhi he ignored her calls rendered her a divorce and literally left her on streets when she had a miscarriage was the worst way you could treat anybody, when she says she can not forgive she is right

I understand where you're coming from. And I too believe Abhimanyu has no right over Akshara and she is better off without him. Where our opinions don't align is Abhir's lineage. No matter how dead beat of a father someone is or whether or not he deserves to be one, doesn't change the fact that he is the biological father. For better or for worse, that's the name the child carries for life. Changing parentage on paper has no impact on the biology. If it were real life, Akshara shouldn't have changed his parentage. Should have let him know from the get go that his father is someone else and Abhinav is his adoptive super papa. He should have known why his father is no longer a part of their life and why they are better off without him. Of course, the nitty gritty can only be told once the child is old enough to understand, but he should aware of the key elements.

Also, however toxic he may be, Abhimanyu has a right to know about his son. Then it would be his decision what he does after the fact and how good or bad of a father he chooses to be.

All those years ago, he chose not to listen, but Akshara did try to tell him, so I wouldn't say she was at fault then. The only thing she did that I cannot condone is giving Abhir Abhinav's name. That's it.

Precisely. He mentioned it before signing the divorce papers.

Originally posted by: Srivalli1212

@bold: I guess he knows about Akshara's cramps??During confrontation he mentioned it seems.

I read it somewhere. Correct me if I am wrong.

Yes he is well aware about cramps and Shefali had informed everyone at the home about cramps. During their last confrontation, Abhimanyu said that cramps aa rahe the isliye doctor ke pass ja kar bilkul sahi kiya lekin uske baad hospital se sidha ghar kyun nahi ayi?Comcert place par Neil ke sath kyun gayi? Akshara had no answer for this.

Originally posted by: neenzz

I understand where you're coming from. And I too believe Abhimanyu has no right over Akshara and she is better off without him. Where our opinions don't align is Abhir's lineage. No matter how dead beat of a father someone is or whether or not he deserves to be one, doesn't change the fact that he is the biological father. For better or for worse, that's the name the child carries for life. Changing parentage on paper has no impact on the biology. If it were real life, Akshara shouldn't have changed his parentage. Should have let him know from the get go that his father is someone else and Abhinav is his adoptive super papa. He should have known why his father is no longer a part of their life and why they are better off without him. Of course, the nitty gritty can only be told once the child is old enough to understand, but he should aware of the key elements.

Also, however toxic he may be, Abhimanyu has a right to know about his son. Then it would be his decision what he does after the fact and how good or bad of a father he chooses to be.

All those years ago, he chose not to listen, but Akshara did try to tell him, so I wouldn't say she was at fault then. The only thing she did that I cannot condone is giving Abhir Abhinav's name. That's it.

Agreed..he is the biological father . But thinking from akshus perspective , how complicated will it be when the truth is out.

Abhimanyu would want abir. Akshu can't live without him..they're divorced already, separate since 5 yrs. They're living in diff cities. Abir will have to choose between his mother and father..he will know the entire truth how his mother was treated ...for a 5 yr old it's too much to handle . Akshu is trying to protect him. She probably has no hopes no wish to return but for abir it will be too much.

IMO, whatever AK did could be called foolish(the max) rest is destiny, but I'm not convinced with AB reaction to it and the aftermath, the most important thing for me is for Abhi to know his sins, how far from reality were his assumptions and above all his abandonment cannot be forgiven. Trust alone can keep relations intact and he has proven how unstable and untrostworthy he is towards his wife. I don't care if Abhira is the end game or not but Abhi and his family members should be made aware of his child Abhir and how they abandoned their responsibility as a family to stand behind AK. Also I'm surprised how the legacy AK family has been ditched or dumped in favour of some random girl with no character Arohi. I'm not a person in favour of class or bloodline but the fact that the sanskaar from legacy has been next to being useless is painful. Would love to see someone from the legacy to give an entry now. Probably me craving for that nostalgia.

Originally posted by: Krinya

I fail to understand why is akshu obliged to tell abirs truth to abhimanyu?

As abhira fans we want this bec we want abhira to br together and abir to be that binding force since abhimanyu himself burnt all the bridges . But is it really fair to akshara ? She just wants to preserve her peaceful world and she is totally justified In thinking that way.

If abir must know the truth, he must know the "complete " truth ..why his parents are not together. Why his mother is living with a stranger/ second husband in Kasali. How she was kicked out on the streets , divorced , when she suffered miscarriage. Let abir decide then he wants his biological father or not.

Sorry , but one sorry doesn't cover up what abhimanyu did. Karma is a bitch and it will bite him hard.

Akshu was never right ..she was careless , she did a mistake which cost her dearly ..she herself would never come out of that guilt , not forgive herself....whatever happened she was also in trauma..but she didn't do anything intentionally , it was a spur of a moment decision which went terribly wrong.

do they really need to "punish" her ? It's like , a child who is not as good in the class but his parents keep pushing him to get good marks , parents and teachers punish him for his limitations. No point in moulding akshu into something that she is not.

Every human is different , everyone has limitations . Abhimanyu and akshu also do..him getting angry was also justified but not signing the divorce papers , blame her for sirats death and 9 murders. Then throw her out , not care if she reached goenkas safely , not bother to take her calls..for a doctor whose profession is to care for strangers , to help them in distress keeping aside his personal trauma, here was a woman who was calling him desperately , who knows she was in grave danger , dying or anything , and what he said to her ? 🤢 that day he lost any right on his unborn .

He may be a great father but that doesn't do it really. Manjari also thinks she is the greatest mother 🤢Aroo thinks she is the best doctor.

I concur. Things have become rather complicated now. It's not at all gonna be easy navigating the situation for anyone. What I believe would have been the right course of action is Akshara should have never hidden the truth, but she did and we are in this mess now. Now, whichever way it goes, there is gonna be some damage. Only thing is for her to figure out how she can minimize the damage to her son.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agreed..he is the biological father . But thinking from akshus perspective , how complicated will it be when the truth is out.

Abhimanyu would want abir. Akshu can't live without him..they're divorced already, separate since 5 yrs. They're living in diff cities. Abir will have to choose between his mother and father..he will know the entire truth how his mother was treated ...for a 5 yr old it's too much to handle . Akshu is trying to protect him. She probably has no hopes no wish to return but for abir it will be too much.