AbhiM and Ak’s friendly chat: Epi Air Date: Jan 29 2023 - Page 27

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Red If this comes true then I will praise him for a week

But unfortunately I don’t think he said all that for Akshu’s benefit, , even if most of it is true, many people defend him by saying whatever he said to akshu that day was true except Sirat death, but I feel there’s a time and place for everything, where would Akshu have gone that day, in the state she was in, miscarriage, weak ,no money, I don’t think Abhimanyu could think beyond his and his mother’s hurt and anger that day 😔

Coming back to the present, he has changed he seems calmer now, so is happy for akshu ( which u also pointed out) and her new life and will let go of her memories,

Agree with you Nitya, there is a place and time for everything. To me even if it was said in another place and much later, everything he said was still wrong because that showed he never really let go of her mistakes or had accepted her for who she was, that too without knowing the full truth about Neel's death. I found no difference between MM and him that day.

Role reversal, I am 100% sure Ak would never have done the same.

Sri, love to agree with you on the "red" part. Same as you, I found it difficult to comprehend Abhi could say those things, I so wanted to find excuses for him, but reality is he meant everything he said. Makers🤬🤬🤬😡😡

Yes I love Abhi with his flaws but I can never fully forgive him for what he said and did that day. Yes I still root for Abhira and am happy with how Abhi has handled himself since meeting Ak. My heart bleeds for him for everything he has had to endure over the last couple of weeks (even though it was self inflicted), and I am melting(thanks to HC)

Ak isnt faultless either. Fake marriage, giving Abhir's rights away and hiding him from Abhi even after seeing how broken he is, I find it hard to accept. This is my personal view only. I do like how she is no longer the selfless person, I so hope she remains this way not do full 180 degree turn around the minute she sees MM or Ar.

All said and done I want my Abhira back(yes they will never be the old Abhira), they are the only ones who can make each other and me happy.💕🤪

Precisely, she just exaggerates everything, over-dramatizes everything. The dialogues are pathetic, but her expressions and panic attacks don't help. I read someone say she has a theater background. I believe that somewhat influences her role, though I could be totally wrong.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

well said I blame the creatives for this, they never gave us any good family bonding scenes, the scenes between Ak and Maate rushed quick but no real depth except maybe during the divorce and a couple of times more, so giving MM such heavy dialogues about how much she loved Ak her rooh was kampgaya tha, something like that MM said, whenever anything happened to Akshu, sounded fake and fell flat unfortunately it doesn’t work for long time viewers who have watched almost all episodes,

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Dude (I hope you don't mind me calling you that), that would have been super wholesome, not to mention progressive and a total TRP magnet. And for a while I thought they were gonna go that route, but Birla family's toxicity is never ending. It's good that Akshara got out, otherwise she and Abhir would have turned toxic eventually. Even if they reunite Abhira now, I want them to live separately and only meet the extended fam on every festival. Also, once every week or month kinda arrangement especially for Abhir (and any future kids) even if the parent are not able to make it.

Originally posted by: sunshining

great posts Nitya and Neenzz. Agree with everything you have said. I felt she was genuine in her love and care for Ak atleast for sometime. Couple of examples

- wedding reception when PB and Mahima tried to insult Ak

- when Ak got the music therapist job

I feel sorry for ourselves, what we wanted and what we got😩. The things we wanted to see with MM and Ak

- MM filling the void of Ak not having a mother

- Both ganging up against Abhi

- Going to concerts together

- Ak helping MM with further her singing

- Together proving to birlas, music was more than just tun tun bajaana

They say when a women sets her mind on achieving something, there is no stopping her, in MM's case, the only thing she set her mind on(since the start) was to bring a Dr bahu for her son and she is making great progress towards achieving her goal.

Such a shame even this day and age, itv shows are only interested in portraying mothers as selfish and possessive.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Dude (I hope you don't mind me calling you that), that would have been super wholesome, not to mention progressive and a total TRP magnet. And for a while I thought they were gonna go that route, but Birla family's toxicity is never ending. It's good that Akshara got out, otherwise she and Abhir would have turnedt toxic eventually. Even if they reunite Abhira now, I want them to live separately and only meet the extended fam on every festival. Also, once every week or month kinda arrangement especially for Abhir (and any future kids) even if the parent are not able to make it.

absolutely, no issues with dude, buddy, even guys. I live in Oz and work in IT. For a long time I was actually the only female in my team, so used to being all kinds of blokey words🤣🤣🤣.

100% with you there, I want Abhi to divorce his mum(if there is such a thing) and move to Kasauli permanently. I want him to be like Ak, completely cutoff from every gorilla, except for Shefali and Shivu Rest of the gorillas with their fav beti/bahu can go to hell or ghoomar around Udaipur for all care

Well, mothers have the most rights, so I wouldn't go as far as demanding the divorce lol. I would, however, like for him to maintain a certain distance and assert boundaries. Mother have rights, not mothers-in-law. Akshara owes her nothing except for kindness and respect whenever they do see each other. She doesn't even owe her regular visits, only her son does. But it's a two way street. She also owes Akshara equal kindness and respect. I just want them to be cordial and tolerant of each other. It's not easy for men being sandwiched between mothers and wives. I feel bad for them too, but then I remember they can do something about it. They just choose not to. And that just upsets me further that they bring this fate upon themselves.

Originally posted by: sunshining

absolutely, no issues with dude, buddy, even guys. I live in Oz and work in IT. For a long time I was actually the only female in my team, so used to being all kinds of blokey words🤣🤣🤣.

100% with you there, I want Abhi to divorce his mum(if there is such a thing) and move to Kasauli permanently. I want him to be like Ak, completely cutoff from every gorilla, except for Shefali and Shivu Rest of the gorillas with their fav beti/bahu can go to hell or ghoomar around Udaipur for all care