About Niels death - Page 7

Originally posted by: apra

Ok knowing akshu what should have niel done.... Knowing abhi and aaru what should he have done he could have told akshu no bhabhi your health is important and we will go back home... Akshu kept her pov niel was the decision maker here and he screwed it up royally but voh toh mar chuka hai toh usse kuch nahi bolte...

Akshu is mad then let her be she is having a peaceful life with abhinav and abhir why disturb her... But still why can't we focus on abhi moving on it would be good na... Woh toh bahut acha hai aaru suffering let them be happy together

But nahi ab problem yeh hai sabko ki akshu kyun peaceful hai

This has been pointed out many times by many people here that Akshara didn't just gave her opinion in front of neil she did emotionally trigger neil with all the emotional bs and she indeed insisted on going to the venue but I can't repeat it again you can refer it in the previous posts.

Now about having a peaceful life, nobody is saying she shouldn't have a peaceful life but you don't get to hide your children identity from his father because you dont get along with him or got divorced.

It's Abhimanyu decision if he wanna get involve with his child if he gets to know about it or wanna move on with someone else. But because he made a blunder of divorcing his wife at such time where she needed him the most, it's indeed a f up thing he did but still that doesn't change the fact that he does have the right to be with his child.

From what I perceived from the story, Abhira is a toxic couple I mean if you have more time in separation then being together after marriage obviously it's not working anymore but when you involve kid in such situation, you are just supposed to be a parent not God deciding to hide even the most fundamental information about their life , hiding him from his own father because you can't get it together.

Originally posted by: Bhoomi8900648

But still what Goenka were supposed to do didn't they do everything according to Akshara

Last time with one year separation whole family gave her total and absolute support without asking any question

Yep Dr Abhimanyu Birld divorced her and throw her out of home but why she didn't went back to her home. Ok she was not in her mind while riding the bus but after that when she knew about the pregnancy and still a complicated one why she didn't go back.

And it was Abhimanyu Birla who throw her out, did Goenka cut her off ?

Bade papa went again to bring her back and now she even knew about pregnancy why she didn't thought that she should go back with her bade papa or even if she doesn't wanna go back then ask her to provide some other accommodation in any other place?

How is Goenka family at any fault here?

And honestly this family supports Akshara with everything they have like she told on call i married some guy and she wasn't cut off becaz last time when another grand daughter gave them information about her marriage she was declared dead to them.

But I feel Goenka family have done every single thing they could do to provide their daughter still people are making them villian like they supported Abhimanyu for the decision of divorce.

Guess it was clearly shown akshara hearing manish telling something like akshara was responsible for Neil's death , that's why she didn't go bk to the goenkas.

Goenkas not cutting ties with abhimanyu and birlas is the reason akshara maintained a distance.... I stand by this decision ..this was the best way to keep away from abhimanyu..when none were interested to know she is dead or alive , why would she continue to care for them ? Living with goenkas would mean giving access to abhimanyu to her life again. Giving him access to her son for whom he said "nai parwah uski ya uske bache ki".

Tired of reading complicated pregnancy and why didnt she go bk? Her complicated pregnancy came through when abir was born , without goenkas or birlas. What could have happened is irrelevant .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Guess it was clearly shown akshara hearing manish telling something like akshara was responsible for Neil's death , that's why she didn't go bk to the goenkas.

Goenkas not cutting ties with abhimanyu and birlas is the reason akshara maintained a distance.... I stand by this decision ..this was the best way to keep away from abhimanyu..when none were interested to know she is dead or alive , why would she continue to care for them ? Living with goenkas would mean giving access to abhimanyu to her life again. Giving him access to her son for whom he said "nai parwah uski ya uske bache ki".

Tired of reading complicated pregnancy and why didnt she go bk? Her complicated pregnancy came through when abir was born , without goenkas or birlas. What could have happened is irrelevant .

1. Complicated pregnancy is written several times here in posts because while talking about Akshara liability and maturity in handling situation it was an important aspect to understand how grossly negligent she has been.

And it is important to point out that delivery dramatic episode also proved how Akshara had put her child in severe danger because of not having access to proper location and medical help.

2. I have written it previous post too that spouse get divorce but not children so no Abhir is not just her child he is their child on whom Abhimanyu have right as a father just because you don't wanna be with your ex doesn't mean you can hid his son's identity.

Yes if Abhimanyu was a person who abused her physically emotionally financially sexually in any manner or proved to be endanger to the child then she have the right to separate the child from her ex husband but not because you got your feelings hurt.

3. Although I don't agree with your opinion but I can understand why you feel that Akshara should stay away from everyone and can hide her child identity from father anyway obviously we can watch exact same script and have totally opposite opinions about the situation. Because I definitely have a strong bias against stupid person because they just don't f up their life but also make the life of there near and dear one's a literal hell and it's shown again and again with 1st separation when Abhimanyu got such damage that he had to go through anxiety pills or when she literally made all the arrangements to get kairav in jail for life sentence with losing pendrive or when she instigate neil to his literal death then almost losing her child becaz of her stubbornness.

3. But ya i rest my argument here becaz there is vast difference of perspective we have of the same situation and there cannot be a middle ground of it. So agree to disagree. Peace ✌️

This discussion!!!

This so entertaining.. as well as frustrating..

It is almost making me watch the episodes of neil's death and the forest episodes.. But I am really good at controlling my curiosity sometimes.. so I am no watching those episodes.

But I just want to ask some questions to both the teams.

The 'Ak is stupid and somewhat the reason behind Neil's death' team.

1. Sure, she emotionally manipulated Neil to go to a dangerous situation and die. But wasn't she served with a punishment then and there.. A person, her friend, her BIL and her support system in the birla family died in front of her.. because of her impulsiveness.. She then lost her kids.. wasn't she punished enough for her impulsiveness already. Was the divorce necessary? Even though Ak is stupid there is no denying that she loved Niel right? Niel's death must have a great impact on her too.

2. Even if they were divorced, was it necessary to show that Abhi did not care about her... Ak is notorious for falling into dangerous situations.. so a emotionally, physically, strained ex-wife is desperately trying to contact you and say something.. wouldn't you listen to her.. at least once?

The 'Ak is deeply hurt and wanted to raise the child away from such toxicity' team.

1. Isn't her main problem that she does not communicate well? When she fount out she was pregnant with her and Abhi's child, even though she could not reach Abhi, couldn't she communicate her problems with her family. When she heard that even her Bade Papa also felt that Ak is indirectly responsible for all the mess.. why did she leave? Should tell Bade papa.. that she was hurt... that she was now lonely.. she was sorry for what ever happened.. and that she was pregnant.. She was worried that her child will grow up in an environment where his mother is looked as a criminal... She could just easily say this to her Bade Papa. and her family.. But she just cocoons herself again at the first sight of confrontation?

2. I agree that Abhir growing in Kasauli under the loving and nurturing environment provided by both Abhinav and Akshara is great instead of the mess of a family called Birlas but again Ak can not communicate.. Ak should have shown some sort of trust in Nav by opening up if not fully but partially. The current arrangement just puts ak in bad light as there is still no trust from Ak side. I don't really care if she have a relationship with Nav as of now though..

Yes, also Akshara was having contractions and she had to go to the hospital, she wasn't going singing - Manjiri and gang assumed that she took Neil because she wanted to sing and broke Abhi's request. Not True. Neil took her to the hospital

Originally posted by: noodle2808

Yes, also Akshara was having contractions and she had to go to the hospital, she wasn't going singing - Manjiri and gang assumed that she took Neil because she wanted to sing and broke Abhi's request. Not True. Neil took her to the hospital

Nahi.. Aaru and manjari blamed her that she went to the concert venue... Abhi was like contraction hi toh the... She never understood the girls were being kidnapped...

Once roohi gets kidnapped they will be like akshu kyun nahi aayi bachaane yeh karo toh galat na karo toh bhi galat in short akshu galat hai

Originally posted by: noodle2808

Yes, also Akshara was having contractions and she had to go to the hospital, she wasn't going singing - Manjiri and gang assumed that she took Neil because she wanted to sing and broke Abhi's request. Not True. Neil took her to the hospital

You are wrong! Kisi ne kuch assume nahi kiya hai.

Yeh dikhaya gaya hai ki jab manjari and Aarohi temple se wapas aye tab Shefali ne clearly unko bataya tha ki Akshara ko cramps aane start hue hai so Neil Akshara ko kisi Gynaec ke paas le kar gaya hai and birla hospital ke paas rally nikli hai toh Akshara ko kisi tisri hospital le kar jaana pada.

After listening this lines from Shefali, manjari immediately prayed god ki Akshara and babies thik ho cramps ke baad.

Fir Shefali ne bhi inform kiya ki she is trying to connect with them but call nahi lag raha hai. Uske baad Neil ka death hua.

Jab Abhimanyu ne Akshara ko just before divorce confront kiya tab yeh clear question pucha tha ki cramps aye the isiliye hospital ja kar bilkul sahi kiya lekin iss condition mai concert place par kyun gayi Neil ke sath? Clinic se direct wapas ghar kyun nahi ayi ? And Akshara had no answer for this question.

Nobody has assumed anything. Sabko cramps ka pata hai and chain of events ka bhi pata hai isiliye Abhimanyu ne Akshara ko confront kar ke sidha logical question puch liya tha taki koi confusion/misunderstanding na ho.