Originally posted by: Nja91
i think its that he was never a good guy, but we as audience gave him umpteen -like a million benefit of doubt moments - trying to make him live up to the expectations of a good guy. But he is a loose immoral guy since day 1. A man who makes a promise of lifelong commitment in a romantic way to the woman his brother is marrying by lying to him was never gonna be decent. A man who thought that hiding something SO big from his own brother as he embarked on something as life changing and vital as marriage was clearly not a righteous person. The man who entertained phone calls from P on her and Sams wedding night and chose to call her to witness his marriage to Sai over his own mother/father was clearly a man who should not have been trusted. We gave him a chance for Sai's sake. We felt ok- he was too emotional but his heart was in the right place. but it NEVER was. he liked the challenge Sai posed, he wanted to conquer her. he liked the ego boost he got by being the only man , the only person in her life. but he couldnt let go of P even then. through out he kept acting like a pendulum and everytime he showed some sanity and tried to maintain some boundaries with P- we gave him a chance but we all saw how he flipped in no time. Basically he was just playing hard to get and trying to keep his image clean. One episode he'd tell P to stay away, next epi he'd give soft looks and go empathize with her. yet for Sai's sake we kept on giving him a chance. Sai was attached to him, Sai loved him, and Sai deserves the best , so there had to be something good about him....but we kept getting proved wrong. he'd pull some stunts like changing his name etc which would force you to reconsider but it was all a sham. naam change seh pyaar prove nahi hota hai when the same man could not stand for her reproductive rights, could not stand by her during infertility, and picked other over her ALWAYS. and now post leap its established that he was never gonna regret, redeem himself. Anyone who thought otherwise is living under a rock. And if anyone roots for Sai to be back with him even after everything he has done - then really theres nothing to say to them. maybe they should join Vankus creative team to make more crap and toxic content.
I feel bad for Sai as a character. She got trapped by this devil because she was young, naive, kind hearted and innocent. She kept going against her instinct to leave him and CN to keep returning because she trusted him and he kept breaking that trust
Pata nahi Sai kaunse janmon ke paapon ka prayaschit kar rahi hai to live like this :(
She is soft hearted and forgives people, sees good in people to avoid being bitter and pessimistic in her outlook and to give her children a good upbringing and people keep taking advantage of her. I want her to really lose her cool now and get down to vengeance mode. Kaash aisa ho sakta.
Virat was a selfish human true. Not a good one i agree. But then he was flawed and capable of probably understanding where he erred. There was a scope of growth..They never made him grow, rather took him down from where he started..They should have shown him grow first as a character nd then later on gone with the usual ITV butchering.
With Virat they started the butchering from the first episode itself...
He was someone capable of atleast giving a thought abt where he went wrong..He was a human back then. I have always maintained that he was very Insesnitive to Sai when he got married to her, to Pakhi when he told her he would be always in love with her, when she was ready to move on with the believe that this marriage is for keeps. He could have taken her disappointment & let her cope with it, instead of trying to come across the righteous one, to glorify his "love" for her, while he is capable of loving no one ..He was the usual normal real man, who move on with what comes in life and not a man who was capable of living with a love for someone all their life. He wanted to believe that abt himself though. He misled both Pakhi and Sai.
He ends up caling Pakhi family , so that he is not perceived has a bigamist and the whole family being pro Pakhi for Bo reason( blame the one dimensional writing here ) makes it easy to go with Pakhi being family BS.
In any case he was Insensitive but there was scope of him understanding and realising things..
The more close he got to Sai, the more Insensitive nd inhuman he became towards her..Given he was in love with her, makes it more inhuman, makes him look like a monster in her life..An abuser who took advantage of her vulnerability , her soft corner for him, of her having no family. But in all there was a scope of growth, some growth.
Now he is not even a human to Sai, to his children. He has no empathy towards his children.. but the good part probably abt him as a character is he is human to atleast one person, Atleast to Pakhi he is, at times. However his expectation that Pakhi should not seek any explanation after seeing him hugging his ex is something again that can be called inconsiderate, thick-headed.
Edited by asmi_ekaa - 3 years ago