You are completely missing the point of Abhi (and Manjiri's) anger towards Akshara. Barring the sudden signing of divorce papers, which was just reckless IMO, every point that Abhi made was valid. It was never about whether Akshu is still preggo or not. It was always about Akshu doing her own manmaani. Neil's death could have been easily avoided had Akshu just come home and taken rest and let the police do their job, just like Abhi said. But NO! Akshara- mahaan mata has to go poke her nose where it doesnt belong and look what happened.
Abhi was wrong about recklessly signing those divorce papers. No matter how big the fight, his responsibility is to stand by his wife, which he absolutely failed in doing. And as far as Akshu is concerned, she, as usual thought of noone but herself and fled to Pathankot. Forget about Abhi and his fam for a minute, but what about her OWN goenka family? Why didnt she think about them even for ONE instance?? how selfish and honestly, cowardly of her. She has this habit though- see a problem and run away from it. And yet, she is mahaan in everyone's eyes??! thats just plain unfair and wrong.
I am now of the opinion that Aru is the way she is because Akshu fled in the first place. Had Akshu stayed back and dealt with it like a mature adult, Aru wouldnt have been so bitter.
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