Originally posted by: Shinika
Pyar ke paane baad ham sab bahut ache jee rahe hai
Par vo struggle na har ek ka bahut alag hota hain.
Main aap logon ki struggle ko disrespect nahi kar raha hoon . Par mere khayal se aap thoda lucky hain. Jithna maine dekha our Saha iske baad yeh kaha raha hoon. Aaj episode me ek placard me dev raichand Tera moh kala karo likha hain . Par maine vo dekha khud.vo bhi mere dost ka (uthna kareeb nahi). Mere dost ka boyfriend ka. As usual ghar me barhane se dar kar bhag ke shadi ki our police station jakar protection manga unhone . Par mera papa ka dost vo ladki ka papa sickle/ reaping hook lekar police station pahuncha vah se donon ko kheenche ke lakar ladki ko ghar me band Kia our ladke ka naara, pita , tamasha banaya moh kala karke sab relatives ke saamne. Agar vo yaad aatha tho mujhe abhi bhi bahut dar lagta hai.
Sab ke saamne vo kaha ki meri beti ko dara dhamkakar mere ghar se leke gaye our jabar dasti usse shadi kiya hain yeh ladke ne.
Vo ladki ko ghar me khauf kiya hai taki sach na bata de. Kuch friends jhuthi gava di sab vohi sach mangaya.
USs din baad USs ladke ko maine kabhi nahi dekha our mere dot pandra din me usko ek us engineer ke saath dhoom dham se shadi karvaya our us bhej dia.
Uske baad sab friends ke saath mere friend ka rista khatam. Ab jab bhi yahi tho dekh ke bas muskurake chalthi hai. Uski saath kya hua kisi ko nahi pata.
USs pandra din bhi narak tha uska. Jab vo tayyar ho thi tho gali kiska intezar kar raha hai our kya kya karna baaki hai, kithne logon ke saath chakkar hain vo bhi uski ma papa ke moh se.
Our mera tho Maine ghar me aaram se papa ko khud apna kand ke bare me bataya. Vo chillaya , mara, tane dia ,insult Kia, sab kuch Kia par kahi na kahi ek soft corner hai ki maine isko bataya mera friend ki jaisa bhag ke shadi nahi kiya.
Pure do saal ka struggle tha par isme mera hubby ka jyada part tha. Vo ithni insult khayi ki kisi our hoti to ka ka mujhe chod Detha par mere vala tho deeth hai mere papa ko manake hi shadi karna hai mujhse. Ham dev ki ek thappad ki vajah se ithna gussa ho raha haina.
Par mera hubby tho do salon me das baar aaya papa ko manane par das baar thappad khake insult hote huye chala gaya. Uske baad 6 mahine tak kuch atah patha nahi hai . Papa ne socha vo dar ke bhag gaya. Par 6 mahine baad job ka offer leke aaya our papa Sw kaha ki jaisa aap thappad marne se nahi tired hote na vaise mai bhi aapko manane se tired nahi ho tha Hu. Aap uska papa ho. Aap ka who ka bhi maan rakhna hai mujhe. Bas papa phisal gaya thoda. Fir 2 saal wait Kia papa kahi vo jindagi me settle na huyi tho.. phir Jake Hamara shadi hua sab ki acceptance se khushi khushi. Mera vala na thoda financially stable nahi the USs vakt. Ab bhi vaisa hi hai par ab mera papa hi hamara support system hai. Jab bhi relatives mujhe neecha dikhane ki koshish ki tho vo mujhe sab kuch lake Detha hai mera pathi ka ijjat bachane ki.
Isiliye kuch log bahut alag tarike se hote hai. kuch fathers na bahut bhayanak hote hai ijjat keliye beti our damad ko marne tak tayyar hote hain iske saamne thappad kya cheej hai.
Aap logon ka struggle ko kam bolna mera irada nahi hain . Main usse bahut bada struggles dekha hain kya karu uske samne har ek cheej chota lagta hai
If I hurt anyone’s feelings I am sorry🙂