They are making Akshara look stupid by the day...
Like you said that Akshu is high on emotions currently, that could have been used for this.. she could have gotten impulsive and blabbered when the baby discussion was on while selecting the wool, but she scolded arohi after going to her room..that doesn't feel like a pregnancy overdrive reaction..
Writers have the ingredients to make things make sense but they cut to 2 steps ahead and thus make their leads look silly.
I would have been fine if Akshu was shown trying to keep her temper in check after the yarn scene and thus reminding herself not to get involved. Then the next day something else happens that triggers her anger again and she tries to calm down. And then we have Abhi trying to talk to Neil but gets pulled into an emergency surgery. But then later the same day Akshu sees one more thing of Arohi lying and then confrontation. It at least shows the character had some control.
But truth be told if we were dealing with Abhi 1.0 he would have blasted like Akshu today without second thought 🤔 We have seens a bit of a role reversal in Abhi and Akshu in the second phase. Akshu has less tolerance and will open her mouth. Abhi is learning and trying to balance the family now.
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