Neil as a husband deserves applause! (HYPOTHETICAL of 26 Nov EP) - Page 2

Better to keep the topic restricted to Neil because he doesn’t deserve to be compared with Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu was nothing less than a father figure to Neil when Harshvardhan didn’t know the truth and kept insulting and harassing Neil. Standing for your wifes respect is one thing - but disrespecting your father figure who gave u nothing but pure unadulterated love is another. So he’s nowhere close to an ideal husband to Arohi.

Let me make it clear Abhimanyu love Akshara even more than Neil could ever love Aarohi and what Neilrohi have isn't even love at the moment but never he disrespected his mother who was always there for him since childhood even when he disagrees with her, he respectfully disagrees but Neil he is rude and disrespecting all his elders who always been there for him since childhood.

It's not only about standing for respect it's making it look like it's OK to frame innocent people for no fault of there's to support your wife. If anything Abhimanyu can also file a report for false claims she made.

Seriously abhimanyu never disrespect his elders wow the tamasha at goenka house by taking media over there and also no enemy deserves to be ditched at marriage altar that too u propose to her sister that u love her on the day of the marriage wow I meant he neither respects women nor elders plz don't overhype him as a perfect person

Even Abhi has done some blunder mistakes in his relationships with everyone except his mother

As far as adoption is concerned all know it was just to put carpet on the sins of her husband by manjari

He was brought up in such an environment where he was not valued at all

Really even I thought the same till his adoption truth came out but the way abhimanyu handled the situation was far more immature coz he didn't even let anyone ask his mother that y she has kept it as a secret whole life

If Aarohi wouldn't have indirectly bought out the truth then the secret wouldn't have been exposed at all

Thanks to Aarohi she indirectly spilled the beans otherwise neil would have been treated as a third grade citizen in his family

That entire blame of hiding Neil’s identity is Manjiri’s. She is responsible for that mess. As far as Abhimanyu is concerned - yes I agree he defended Manjiri that time. But can u totally blame him for standing up for her as he has seen her being abused and harassed all his life. It’s very easy to say we should do the right thing - but as u yourself said leads are flawed too. They’re also humans. He goes in auto pilot mode when anything wrong is spoken to Manjiri because since childhood all he has done is see Manjiri being abused and stood strong and defended her like a rock.

Abhi became a father figure to an orphan. He raised him and supported him against his father. He didn’t neil is d illegitimate kid of his father and even after knowing he didn’t kept any grudges against neil.

In normal world definitely people will not like these people and holds grudges and I won’t justify them. Loving and hating is their choice

And regarding Manjiri she did a mistake to hide Neil’s identity. She rather choosed bringing him as an orphan rather than leaving him there itself

Manjiri is abused by harsh for many years and abhi had seen this and obviously he will have care and concern for his mother. Well real intentions will come out as her insecurities grow and then he will come out of mata’s Clutches

Like akshu is abused mentally and sometimes physically by arohi and akshu learnt her abuser’s reality and finally akshu is out of jharu’s clutches and one day abhi will also come out

Originally posted by: Midnightsorrow

Let me make it clear Abhimanyu love Akshara even more than Neil could ever love Aarohi and what Neilrohi have isn't even love at the moment but never he disrespected his mother who was always there for him since childhood even when he disagrees with her, he respectfully disagrees but Neil he is rude and disrespecting all his elders who always been there for him since childhood.

Agreed, what neirohi have isn't even love, but more like a 2-person pity party. They both latch on to one another merely for validation of their feelings of victimhood and because both of them egg on each other's notions that they are unloved. Neil is the only one of the two who is justified in having these feelings. Arohi is just an attention seeker and brat who likes to convince herself her own family are out to get her and are the enemies of her happiness because it allows her to escape confronting her own flaws and mistakes.

Exactly in process of being a good son he was not an ideal husband atleast before leap if not now

As I said before here the discussion is on ideal husband material where one shall stand with your partner through thick and thin no matter what abhi failed in that coz there are many times he kept akshara on pedestal for sake of his mom