well explained Hari. Mata and Ar are our boosters. We can kick them any time. But reason you said for mata staying away is right. Mata is scared of Ar that she will dip her in washing powder and total dhaaab dhaab and put a clip on wire along with her to dry. On top of it everyone knows her sautela card she uses on Ak especially Goenkas how she shouted without respect. And knowing Neil's illegitimate thing they are scared of that card now . So mata running for Neil is right she has to save mera bacha now .Her karnon ka phal will kick her through shani.mimis words of someone in family has bad timing š¤£. Parth shefali kept their burnt baingan faces and ran away. Mahima has that energy level to balance or bash so she can invite that panauti into home.Mata is same since day 1.
If we see her graph first is tilak 1 mata didn't talk fully about the bride or abhi love fixed in head half half went with wrong bride. The center of tilak 1 should have been how did the bride change but it turned into how ak rejected abhi and was mute.
Next Mata send her ladla to get his love of the life but pushed her husband to baarat. Bechaara harsh got bezati that day. Mata could have told abhi won't come But she pushed her husband in front and all went on his head and made birlas mockery in public second time after tilak 1 and made a bride roll off temple.
She fixed in head ar is bagvan during tilak 2 and manipulated abhi for ar but when things went ulta she tried to put blame on ar and her actions for steal credits of ar goodness their. But the girl in front of her wasn't ak to do maa maa mew mew aarohi kicked Mata instead. Seems Mata didn't forget that event that is why staying away from aarohi.
Next is abhira wedding tilak 3 she made all preparations and at end told his son can go but she is going to stay with her husband. Mata didn't even take harsh permission to fix abhira tilak that day she just informed him. Put blame on son for his behavior towards father and made him guilty as charged. š„³š„³š„³
Next is adoption time. Mata knows wat she did was wrong and unjust to neil. The moment her truth came out instead Mata ka wrong she diverted it as ak mistake who got the papers out.
When ak was away what didn't Mata do to abhi. Everyday riled him how wrong ak is and how angry she is on him. Burning his already burnt soul instead of being a mom and healing him. Mera beta uska mooh behi dekaga hei. šššš
Now neirohi shadi she totally took a back seat as she know one mistake this time she can't put her kaands on anyone head. Top it this is aarohi who doesn't take her shit as I said Mata didn't forget how ar told on her for being delusional and assuming things during ar tilak 2.š„³š„³š„³
Compared to her harsh is a puski villan. Man in frsutration who never got a biwi, beta, step wife or step son. All became aadha adhura for him and the man was shouting in that frustration all these years. š„³š„³š„³
P. S : if anything I left then pls understand my small brain can't hold too much of Mata kaands. These are her major kaands.

