AAP akele parent nahi ho .. - Page 25

Originally posted by: Sab07

Just disagree with @bold part.

That was the worst he ever did to Sai! That was Sai’s only chance at motherhood and him snatching Vinayak from her and giving to PL.

Plus he let her suffer - he saw it but did nothing about it, did not even assure her that its temporary n he will fix it. In morning we saw him happily wave goodby to Vinu going to work n his assigned aai while Sai watched on. If they showed him assuring Sai like he is to PL now he gotten have gotten some benefit of doubt.

For a woman who was diagnosed infertile nothing can be more traumatic than this. Her only chance at motherhood being taken away. Add to this her being orphan and this was her only chance of blood relation. He took that away.

The reason no one ever feels intenselyfor Sai is because her pain is never shown, like they do for Virat n PL who cries buckets claiming how they r wronged.

As I mentioned in my previous post the things they are showing they have no way to rectify n hence they r only highlighting Virat and his side ignoring Sai’s. If she got emotional outburst after that Vinu snatching scene with proper dialogues showing her emotional state no one would ever forget that.

This is crappy writing with even worst execution.

Agree agree agree. That was the most triggering moment of the show when he was snatching away the infant from Sai disregarding her pleas totally. I wasn't even a mother then, and my heart just skipped a beat. I found it inhumane. It felt wrong even more than Pakhi's bail.

And now after leap, the moment where Virat was taking away Savi forcefully, i was reminded of Virat snatching away Vinu. Heart wrenching.

I don't know why some here don't see any wrong in this. I feel Sai is 100 percent reasonable in hiding the truth from Virat and Savi. No way in hell that man deserves to be a father. No way.

Originally posted by: Saisavi

Exactly even virat considered it as last chance to became father i know there is misconduct on the part sai by family but i am talking about virat point of view many people called him buccha chor for taking his own child

Well Virat had choice. He could have waited for Geeta/Sai to come. Embryos can be frozen n they are only thawed once procedure start n patient is confirmed.

Sai had no choice- Embryo was inside PL when she came back.

That is why Viray is wrong. He could have halted procedure.

He is called bachcha chor for snatching Vinayak from Sai’s hand and handing him over to PL. not for letting PL be surrogate.

Originally posted by: Sab07

Well Virat had choice. He could have waited for Geeta/Sai to come. Embryos can be frozen n they are only thawed once procedure start n patient is confirmed.

Sai had no choice- Embryo was inside PL when she came back.

That is why Viray is wrong. He could have halted procedure.

He is called bachcha chor for snatching Vinayak from Sai’s hand and handing him over to PL. not for letting PL be surrogate.

Preleap if complaint was not there, makers would have made Virat go and see P feeding Vinu also in pretext of spending time with him.

Sadly so true.. 💔

The way he is behaving now even surrogacy wala V is looking better in bits and pieces.

Just like Sai said... jab bhi lagta hai ki isse niche gir nahi sakte... usse bhi bura karte ho 😭

Originally posted by: Saisavi

I agree he doesn't interfere between surrogacy but again you can call him selfish as after sai is also giving in it due to her selfish mother instinct but until she feared loosing vinu hence she also involved in that again about now Sai's arrested he is feared as sai both have trust issues it is he just in capacity that he can use it if sai at capacity then she would did it

But she didn't. So I don't agree with this point. In shruti track, despite thinking he cheated her, she tried to save his job, saved his reputation by hailing him infront of media.

She has many scenarios where she could have easily put him in jail with solid proof. But she never did even when she was angry with him. Where as virat didn't think twice before making her get arrested that too by putting false charges.

So I completely disagree with ur last point.

There should be sense of right and wrong. Which virat don't have. That shouldn't be justified by using father card on him. A father would have first wanted to get his child legal custody not concentrate on making his child mother suffer by putting false charges.

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Preleap if complaint was not there, makers would have made Virat go and see P feeding Vinu also in pretext of spending time with him.

Not surprised with that.

But I feel if thay did not showed PL expose it would have been better now. Right now Virat looks disgusting because he married PL despite knowing truth. It would have been better if they showed it was hidden n PL plan exposed now.

Abi to not sure how they will salvage him. They can show her wrong but what can be more wrong than her attacking Sai n sabotaging their only chance at parenthood?

He forgive her just cause ahe carried child by that logic Now it feels no matter what she does he will forgive her as she has been adarsh bahu wife n moder.

Originally posted by: MsFaj

Personally I feel the reason audience hate V with such passion is the lack of writing/screenplay to show that he is wrong and faces the repercussions of his mistakes.

Sai's mistakes always get called out and she gets 'punished' whether sometimes exponentially. Sai walking out with Vinu was not totally wrong but she is face's instant punishment so quickly.

Compare that to Virat, his lack of humanity to Sai, his harsh expectations of her, failure to show compassion to her, even his lack of integrity as a policeman to call out his family crimes are never punished. It is always shown that Chavans and their crimes, including Virat's will always be forgotten and whitewashed.

This is what triggers audience and has led to the extreme hate for him. Those saying he lost a child too.. I might be wrong but he made a choice. Between Patralekha and the child, he decided that having Patralekha in CN was more important than stopping Sai from leaving. He had choices. He could have pacified Sai but he refused and him hitting below the belt started from that episode where he accused Sai of causing Samrat's death. Again conveniently forgetting his own family members' crimes. Even now, whenever Sai brings up his mistakes with Vinu, he brushes them aside and claims that he has never done any wrong.

It is this lack of repentance and acknowledgement of his share of sins that has made audience hate him to this extent. N if the issue involved merely marital integrity, audience might turn a blind eye. Involving children and taking children away from rightful mothers is extremely triggering.

When a person always gets away again and again by doing crimes and gets whitewashed and hailed by the same victim whom he abused.

It's triggering to the core. The more makers try to whitewash him, the more hate he will get.

But that's thing na...

Neither we as audience or the makers can keep Sai and V separately... they are bound to each other. Anything one person does affects the other.

So how to watch just one/former without looking/analysing the latter when both their actions are impacting each other?

Jab tak Naya ML nahi hai... Sai and V are to be together. In good or in bad. 😭

The actual problem is there is no new ML and audience doesn't want PL to get any happiness after destroying Sai's life...so everyone wants S and V together....the day new ML comes everyone will treat virat like a trash

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I already mentioned many times how pakhi also wronged by virat. He used her for his own selfish purpose. He didn't let her move on from him. So my opinion on it won't change just because pakhi is negative. Many people don't mind it because pakhi herself said she will be puppet to virat with the dialogue keep me however u like. Despite that I personally feel she is wronged by virat.

One more thing virat's treatment to pakhi and sai can't be compared.

Virat always stood by pakhi, hide her mistakes, saved her many times, never let anyone disrespect her, gave her wife respect publicly while with sai we all know what he did and doing now.

I am sure if virat put false charges on pakhi or pushes her many will definitely voice out it.

What virat gave to sai was mental and physical abuse which he never gave to pakhi. So why would pakhi get sympathy for it? When virat was always praising her to the sky and protecting her.

Jagtap is reformed still most of the people don't want him with sai romantically (including myself).

He can be her protector but can't have relationship romantically.

And jagtap and pakhi doing crimes when their sole intention is to possess sai , hurt sai is different from virat doing crimes and abuse while claiming to love sai.

I hope u get the difference.

@bold how can it stop when he is doing wrong in each episode. It's not like we are talking about his past mistakes. His crimes just getting bigger and bigger. How can we ignore it just because he is ml and thinking one day he will get redemption (which has 5% chance going by ghum history).

@italic that is if condition. How can it stop one from reacting to his current actions.

It's not about ml, fl. Sai virat are just characters for me.

As of now, the character virat is crossing the limits of sanity.

Why it is a problem when one talk about virat abuse which he is doing it now.

I understand ur sentiments. Nothing wrong in hoping for his redemption. But we can't just give excuses to his crimes by keeping in mind of his imaginary redemption and his ml status.

He has extreme feelings for sai that's why manhandled her, put her in jail, he is thinking as father, he is hurt, angry. All these are excuses for me.

If we think, every criminal and abusers has excuses just like virat has.

Makers themselves don't mind to give excuses for his actions, but we are giving him making makers whitewash job very easy.

How will they know he needs to redeemed when people do their work of understanding his reasons behind his crimes which they don't show in episodes itself.

I am sorry again if it offends. My intention is not to hurt anyone choice. All I expect is no excuses for virat's crimes just like we don't give excuses for pakhi's crimes.

Completely concur with you..Agreed all these have been wrong but what's not acceptable is the brutal way Sai has been treated by Virat and yet that's being considered as a form of his love. Why? If this is the form of his love, how come PL has been so easily forgiven by Virat? Why is there not even an ounce of contempt that Virat feels for PL, why is his trust & friendship with PL has been over and above the so called spousal love he has for Sai - and it's not post leap, it has been always that ways? Hence while stories get inspired by real life, the story telling on a mass media needs to be inspiring & attempt to instil good value system & moral fabric in the society, not stand by abuse, trauma & misuse of power, position & system, especially since this story is being told at 8 pm which is a prime family time watched by children too along with their parents in most of the tier 2, tier 3 cities, towns & rural area. The moral responsibility of prime time entertainment channels cannot be compromised as is in OTT channels..let the dark slice of life be told on OTT and late night streaming hours when you know it's adults watching it on their choice with a developed sense of discretion, morality & ethics