Whom would you marry? Only these two options - Page 3

Originally posted by: rolopolo

So you are willing to let go your feelings for the first one 🥺

None.

A lot of people think that the 2nd option is the right one (and they might be right) but for me the experience has been exhausting.

Returning someone's affections out of gratitude and not out of love, watching their disappointment when they sometimes realise that you are not as emotionally invested as them and then having to assure them of your 'feelings' coz you don't want to hurt them.

It just leads to long term resentment for both the parties.

#RantOver

Originally posted by: trouble_006

None.

A lot of people think that the 2nd option is the right one (and they might be right) but for me the experience has been exhausting.

Returning someone's affections out of gratitude and not out of love, watching their disappointment when they sometimes realise that you are not as emotionally invested as them and then having to them of your 'feelings' coz you don't want to hurt them.

It just leads to long term resentment for both the parties.

#RantOver

Perfect! Word to your post!

Originally posted by: trouble_006

None.

A lot of people think that the 2nd option is the right one (and they might be right) but for me the experience has been exhausting.

Returning someone's affections out of gratitude and not out of love, watching their disappointment when they sometimes realise that you are not as emotionally invested as them and then having to assure them of your 'feelings' coz you don't want to hurt them.

It just leads to long term resentment for both the parties.

#RantOver

So you don't want your husband singing "pyaaaar tune kya kiyaaa" 😭

Originally posted by: trouble_006

None.

A lot of people think that the 2nd option is the right one (and they might be right) but for me the experience has been exhausting.

Returning someone's affections out of gratitude and not out of love, watching their disappointment when they sometimes realise that you are not as emotionally invested as them and then having to them of your 'feelings' coz you don't want to hurt them.

It just leads to long term resentment for both the parties.

#RantOver

I agree with you, but these were the 2 options given🤷‍♀️

Ideally, it should be mutual.

But I would never want to be in a position of simply hoping the other person would love me back. There's an arrogant naivete in the belief you can make them return your feelings, and it's almost certain to end in heartbreak.

The 2nd one is at least something under my control because I am old enough to be in control of my own responses to situations.

Originally posted by: mintyblue

It's amazing how people are picking the second option

DO YOU GUYS NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OWN HEART

You can always win over the person who doesn't love you if you are smart

In the second option, you have to rely on someone else to win you over

Be logical

What's your plan of action to win over Hrithiku?

None. Both options are terrible and will lead to toxic relationships.

Why unecessarily complicate your life? 😔

Originally posted by: M.Wheeler

None. Both options are terrible and will lead to toxic relationships.

Why unecessarily complicate your life? 😔

They are mirror image situations. But the question was limited to these options.

Better to remain single than these above options.

Originally posted by: rolopolo

But he doesn't even love you. Are you okay with it?

And What about the other poor guy who loves you more than anything in this world?

I will try to make that person fall in love with me. I know it will be difficult but can't hurt my heart🙂🙂

Originally posted by: rolopolo

The one you love but doesn't love you

or

The one who loves you but you don't love

?

None. The one who doesn't love me won't make me happy. Same for the second option. I won't make the person happy if I don't love him.