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Posted: 3 years ago

I had been wondering why there was no promo around the them coming face to face. So here we have it.

Before getting into the details.

We only see them walking towards each other. It is not shown that they have seen each other. While someone has to see the other. So it could either be Sai seeing V first and hiding, or V seeing but Sai misses for some reason. I don’t think that possible, but it could also be only P seeing Sai and distracting V. The only reason I don’t believe in the last one is because P has to continue here charade for now. While I did have theory around yesterday's precap, that P sees Sai's picture but acts as if she hasn't (fooling the audience as well) and she starts her attack. She will be the one to indirectly take V to Kankavli for this face off. Unfortunately P knows Sai and V better than they know each other. So she knows Sai's reaction if she knows P and V are married.

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Things can escalate if either one sees the other. If it is only one, it has to be Sai. V will otherwise go after her. Quite possible that V only lands up when Sai and Savi are in danger and till then Sai will avoid him. The time in between will only make her resent him even more.

Where does Vinu stand here? If Sai sees Virakhi she will assume Vinu to be her baby. Will that MU be cleared immediately. Don't think so. There will be too much churning for this to come out right away. This will only come out later. For Sai to bond with Vinu. Or can this be possible. To let that relationship develop independently?

As far as V goes, his own agony and suffering will take over and will come out in the form of anger.

While Sai's anger will have betrayal added to it, V's longing will take the form of anger. Explosive!!


Savi's parentage may not be questioned. Her name and the fact that she doesn't have a father is something V already knows. Those are enough. In fact for V this question will not even arise. But this will be for the family.

However, once V's anger subsides and he thinks over it (if he does), the name "Savi" will clear any doubts about Sai's feelings for him. It SHOULD. The name is there for a reason despite Sai's anger. She could have named her Bianca otherwise.


Coming to the highlight. "Tum bhi aao". Has he, hasn’t he? @Moor, we are back to the "under the belt". While the character has been reduced to just that, will he be taken to the edge in the name of "different & creative"?

What we have seen is V has accepted P as his wife and he gives her that place outside his bedroom. So that is exactly what he is doing. Giving her "Bits & Pieces" of him that he is willing to share. This is just one of that.

Also, if Sai misses them. she will have to see the pic later to know the truth.


But knowing how we are disappointed, could possibly be that V has said that he will try to give this relationship a chance. But he needs sometime. However, he will make efforts. P is happy with that. "Tun bhi aao" could a extension of this.


The two more problematic cases. And it is not around him getting physical with P. It is wrong for more reasons than that.


Though I have my doubts on this, but you can never underestimate Vankar. He may just bring in consummation to complicate and bring in more toxicity. With this even if Virakhi's marriage is nullified, V will be tied to her forever. There is no looking back here.

The worst is if he decides to move ahead and is stopped by "Bappa or Bappa's namesake". Moor like you wrote that V has been reduced to only this aspect wrt loyalty in love and marriage. But what is happening here is they are taking him over to the verge of crossing that line too. It is like he was half way on the last step. And technically the same as the above. Justifying that he eventually did not do the deed does not hold any good. Because he had consented to it.

In either of the last two scenarios, he is keeping someone in his memory and is merely sharing a physical relationship. How much more wrong can that be, to both the living and the presumed dead! Let's give him that credit. He has that much integrity in him to not proceed on such base.


If he decided on any of it with the slightest of affection towards P, then he has moved on from Sai in a way. And then there is no "Only Love". He has shared it with someone. This itself will end the story. How much ever we may criticise V for what he is, and how he is a lost cause as a "Husband", his integrity as a "Lover" will not be touched. It is in the transition between these two roles that he is lost. Because as a relationship formalises, there is more to it than feelings. And it takes a lot more to make it work.


We still have 3 episodes to go before this. And we can only hope to see more of Virakhi here. And I'm dreading every single one, for the worst of V that it can give.

Edited by Sherry24 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Upset and worried... It is implied she is looking towards Sai... kya honge? Negative hi 🤣

Or now she changed preference! N wants Sai. They said show will be progressive after leap, so Sakhi is new ship loading 🤣

Edited by Sab04 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

While I agree with you Moor, I have my days. But I did discover this about myself with Ghum...I have far more patience than I would give myself credit for 🤣


Guess I have found my coping mechanism, since I'm addicted to this place. But the biggest take away so far has been, that constant negativity for the show will affect my sanity. It is just a show. Why let that take a toll on me. Not worth it. So while I do get upset and irritated at times, I prefer to steer clear on most. There are many episodes I skipped all together and never went back to watching. The best approach is to skip episodes, read updates, sometimes restrict to selected comments when you know it could be triggering. And I trust you on that Moor ;-).

But, if there is anything that I feel is misleading and wrong for consumption, I will raise it. Whether it is heard or not. Like I have said before. I have my conscience to answer.


Coming to this debate, while we have not been completely aligned on this one, I do see Sairat together. Even if it is just one scene towards the end of the show. But it will only be them. So I have to kind of accept that even if I don’t find him worthy. Like Sadhika mentioned once, Personally we would not want someone like V in our life, but it is the show. And so we have to make sense out of what is being served to us. "Take it in full, partial or none" Choice is ours.


Something I have mentioned in an earlier comment today. Love as a feeling is not that complex. It becomes complicated when it gets attached to desire...desire for anything. from having that person in any space ..as a lover, partner...or just staking claims..anything. And in ITV, "Love" as a feeling will never be tarnished. How they define the integrity is subjective. Any extension love in form of affair, marriage etc, may lead to failure.

Here the crux is love. V has failed miserably as a husband. He has let down Sai, failed to understand her, failed to offer that support when she needed but never said it (because he could not see beyond her physical pain), prioritising others, not really honouring her strong individuality (something he fell for). Relationship failed because there were expectations/needs and he fell short on delivering it. The nourishing was missed. It was not because there was no love. But then love alone is not enough to make relationships work. There is a lot of understanding, patience, compromises etc that is needed. Love can be the driving force for these, but alone it cannot make the relationship survive. But not all marriages work on love.

What they are focussing on through all that they are showing is love... "Eternal Love" that transcends any relationship. But we are confusing marriage with love. The line does get murky and blurry, but it is what it is.

It is not about sanctity of marriage. Here it is about the love and not about marriage. Ironically they married (a compromise in itself) first before falling in love. But the love became the protector and the destructor


It is going to get more cringy and negative from here. There will be more drama, fights and arguments. With romance scarce than, oasis in the desert. So while I beat my head of what they are showing and get pissed with the amount of toxicity and drama they show in the name of entertainment, I sometimes for my own sanity step back and try to visualise things from outer sphere. And it helps....Not always though (It does dark...really dark)

But let's have that sun pop out even for its tiniest ray.

Thanks Moor for that tiny ray ❤️

Edited by Sherry24 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Opening disclaimer slide is still the same. There's a new one that runs below after episode starts. Been there since last 2-3 episodes. Indeed looks like something channel asked them to run.


Last line of that is child actors are treated with care and concern.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Opening disclaimer slide is still the same. There's a new one that runs below after episode starts. Been there since last 2-3 episodes. Indeed looks like something channel asked them to run.


Last line of that is child actors are treated with care and concern.

Vinu scenes - bus scene/bullying scenes they had given some kind of disclaimer

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Opening disclaimer slide is still the same. There's a new one that runs below after episode starts. Been there since last 2-3 episodes. Indeed looks like something channel asked them to run.


Last line of that is child actors are treated with care and concern.



I have a distinct feeling they have definitely been hauled up by either IBF or MIB.

I pity those kids working in such a toxic environment.
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Posted: 3 years ago

When kids come into the picture, there is no way they can show too much muck which this show specialises in. Children are protected very much under laws.

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Posted: 3 years ago

They better be. We all know how matlabi & toxic both the set & the story are.

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Posted: 3 years ago

I am sure a lot of toxicity is planned for viewers. They love their own audience so much.

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