Originally posted by: nehaahmad
I totally agree with you on everything you have said. You and I are 100% aligned on this.
I posted this a while back. Here are my thoughts on this which echo yours completely.
A miscarriage is a tragedy. No 2 ways about it. FOR both the parents! No 2 ways about that either. A mother is more involved emotionally and physically hence a more emotional reaction but that should not undermine Aryan’s loss.The should have, could have, would have, can’t change cheeku’s loss. The ‘accident’ could have easily happened during Aryans rescue when Imlie impersonated Keri to save Aryan from Jo and Aryan was in denial that cheeku was his.
In that scenario Imlie went in off her own choice endangering her child to rescue her husband so who would she have blamed and Aryan, can you even imagine the guilt he would have carried if the MC was to happen there.
The anger, hurt, pain, devastation is justified. The blame and shame is natural and they are both wrong in blaming the other. Neither has shown the maturity needed to get through this trauma together. no 2 ways about that either! It was an ‘accident’ that could have happened anywhere (the jhoola, at work, walking down the hallway, on a rescue mission) Aryan’s outburst will require significant redemption though in my humble opinion.