Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #210 - Page 77

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I have a few thoughts about this SBS and Shiva's characterization which certainly would not be accepted by the general audience and definitely not accepted by the Twitter audience 😆, so I guess I'll keep it to myself...

Nahiii, ese suspense me daal diya ab

I want to know, share your thoughts please 😃

Originally posted by: Saakshi2k

Nahiii, ese suspense me daal diya ab

I want to know, share your thoughts please 😃

😆 It's going to be a long post, and I'm currently in the process of collecting my thoughts 😆

Don't worry, it'll come!

Originally posted by: Kween_Snowflake

🤣 🤣🤣 These fan girls defended him when he threw his wife, a living breathing person out on the street! Do you really think that they won't be able to defend him throwing food on the street?

Well guess what, they didn't even mention the food throwing part. All they cared about was Raavi calling Shiva jealous (it doesn't even matter that she called Shiva jealous from that guy and not jealous from her success). The comments on tland were along the line that Shiva is the most supportive husband, he lied to his mother still se called him jealous! How can she? She is officially the new villian of PS. The worst person ever!. And this one particular person said that she won't be surprised if Raavi is having an affair, also Shiva deserves truee lubb from Dishuu.

These fangirls comments just make me sick to the core.

I have been wanting Raavi to walk out for a long time, this is yet again the best chance for her to do so. And best time for Shiva to find Disha and marry her. He totally deserves her and doesn’t deserve Raavi at all.

Really, they are going to defend Shiva throwing food out on the street? Really? When there are millions going hungry in this world, This is plain sick, real sick, defending throwing out food when it is equated to Goddess Annapurna in the Hindu religion. This is total disrespect and disgusting too.

Also life takes a big turn by the time you are around 25. You have to make big decisions at that time, be it education, career, job, sometimes even marriage. You cannot be preaching on SM and calling out on others when the world will move fast around you and leave you behind. I really pity those who are defending Shiva’s every action because they are fangirls of the actor. It is just sad.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I have a few thoughts about this SBS and Shiva's characterization which certainly would not be accepted by the general audience and definitely not accepted by the Twitter audience 😆, so I guess I'll keep it to myself...

You don’t have to keep it to yourself, you know atleast have one supporter in me and have been for a verryyyyyy long time now. So I would like to know your thoughts like always❤️

Some basics: all should know! Fangirls to itv creatives, who churn our such demeaning content.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cf1gM34A64X/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

The issue isnt who is wrong but to make raavi the bad one in this situation so that they can bash her and make shiva the victim as a way to get revenge on the past bashing he got for his previous actions by these certain tt people is pathetic. Comparing the hiding a secret for less than a day and justifying that as a deserved reason to be questioned about ones character is pathetic. I ask the married ones here have you never hidden something from your husband for a while or didnt tell him something right away and then it must be ok for him to yell at you for that lol I feel the ghost of kanta kaki has possessed these fans for some reason lol

I think the biggest problem between shivi is trust.

I agree raavi should have trusted shiva and told him about the shoot. When he asked she lied him . Shiva doubt increased from there. And I don't blame him for that. Next day he saw her with unknown guys. His reaction was what he saw from his end.

Shiva knows that raavi is SM influencer now. She has to meet hundreds of people. He has to trust her that she wouldn't cheat him as she loves him. I know he is possessive but talk to her and clear ur doubt. Instead of screaming and arguing.

Cherry on top makers will do what they have to butchered these 2 characters

Originally posted by: manny136

The issue isnt who is wrong but to make raavi the bad one in this situation so that they can bash her and make shiva the victim as a way to get revenge on the past bashing he got for his previous actions by these certain tt people is pathetic. Comparing the hiding a secret for less than a day and justifying that as a deserved reason to be questioned about ones character is pathetic. I ask the married ones here have you never hidden something from your husband for a while or didnt tell him something right away and then it must be ok for him to yell at you for that lol I feel the ghost of kanta kaki has possessed these fans for some reason lol

The major problem is some of the viewers expect raavi to be the perfect wife and DIL, share everything with shiva, love him, respect him, give him attention, take care of his mother and the household chores but when it comes to shiva all he has to do is cover her with blanket when she is asleep to show his love and he is the best husband.even expecting the bare minimum of him to show some decency towards his wife is termed as bashing. You say he is flawed and when viewers point out those flaws and expect character growth then they are haters 😕

Originally posted by: manny136

The issue isnt who is wrong but to make raavi the bad one in this situation so that they can bash her and make shiva the victim as a way to get revenge on the past bashing he got for his previous actions by these certain tt people is pathetic. Comparing the hiding a secret for less than a day and justifying that as a deserved reason to be questioned about ones character is pathetic. I ask the married ones here have you never hidden something from your husband for a while or didnt tell him something right away and then it must be ok for him to yell at you for that lol I feel the ghost of kanta kaki has possessed these fans for some reason lol

I have, many times- esp. when I know knee jerk reaction it may induce Or matter is something I know can upset him. Gather thoughts, sometimes let things settle then tell him!!
On similar note: I hate surprises! It throws me off & my husband & family knows that! So they never attempt.

same goes from his side. It is normal. And we don’t go on doubting/ shouting/ throwing around stuff when such situations arise! Talk it out! Part & parcel of life.

Infact, that’s how they show GauRa’s relationship. Gombi always patching up neglecting all of Dhara’s criminal kaands.

if creatives are not out to butcher Shiva & Raavi’s characters again: they will show Shiva not going for knee jerk reactions & Raavi one more time stepping up to make sure to keep Shiva in know to avoid fanning his major misunderstandings. It is clear, in this relationship Raavi will always be the giver, Shiva still is too tangled in his other priorities!

Originally posted by: spdp

Raavi Should take all food, Go to Homeless area / streets & give food to all those folks while going live! Good karma is her nature!

Food phenko, Sindoor phenko . Biwi ko haath pakad ke street pe phenko : Just because!! this no angst. This is abuse.
all because somehow somewhere Bhabhi has done some serious crime & her control on minion lives of rest of pandyas can’t be disputed! Lead minion shiva has to malfunction.

Unnecessary character butchering of Shiva & Raavi again! To push upsets amongst fans & to make sure Their characters stay vulnerable to avail mahantaa for Mia tantrumkween.

I have a fantastic story to tell, I am hosting an Indian girl this weekend, who happens to be a budding talented Bharat Natyam dancer from Chennai. She has brought in by my daughter’s dance teacher to do workshop with her students. This girl is traveling from city to city each week in the US conducting BN dance workshops and lec-dems. She was staying with my daughter’s dance teacher until yesterday. She is just 28 years old married, half Punjabi and half Maharashtrian, grew up in Pune. Since loved BN from a very young age, Mother started putting her in dance classes, when she finished her 10th at the age of 15, mom found this renowned teacher in Chennai, relocated with the daughter there, enrolled her in 11th grade in a local school, not knowing the language just out of love for learning BN dance from professionals in this new city.
Now this girl herself has become a renowned dancer/teacher after 10 years of rigorous training and for the past 3 years has her own dance school, with students from all over the world and giving performances after performances. When my husband told about Shweta is in our city teaching dance at my daughter’s dance school, my MIL and Devar immediately told us to invite her to stay with us. Though being a half Maharashtrian-half Punjabi, she is married to a Tamil guy recently who is also an Engineer and a classical musician, happens to be my in-laws family friend’s son 😃 My MIL and Devar could not contain their hapliness, wanted us to host her this weekend which we are doing so.

She is 28, got her P1 visa for the first time from the US consulate, to teach and conduct workshops in the US during summer months. This is her first ever trip, guess what neither her husband, nor her in-laws or her parents are traveling with her. She is traveling alone and has the full support of her husband, in-laws and parents. She came last week to the US, landed in NJ, stayed there for a week at someone’s place, teaching and conducting workshops, this week she is in my city and tomorrow will be dropping her at the airport as she is going to Seattle for a week and then off to CA, the following week and her schedule is jam packed for the 8 weeks she is planning to be in the US.

After my husband and I brought her home yesterday from my daughter’s guru’s house, we called Shweta’s husband Ritwik to let him know she is with us and briefly talked to him, the guy who misses her so much, but has full confidence and trust in her and was all praise for her that she will do a commendable job in these 8 weeks. He also said with confidence that he knows Shweta can manage very well wherever she goes and ready to adjust too.

My husband and I couldn’t be more happier to have her with us and to see this 20+ years jodi talking with so much maturity and the way they support each other is commendable. In this day and age of divorce even for the simplest of the matter, is very refreshing to see Shweta-Ritwik jodi. And the best part is Shweta is learning tamizh to converse with Ritwik’s parents and others and also important for her dance and Ritwik is learning Marathi and Hindi to converse with Shweta’s parents and her relatives.

I want to see such jodis in my life and take pride in supporting such people. The girl is so affectionate towards us, came to stay with us for the sole reason, her husband and in-laws told her to stay with us and they are friends with my in-laws family which we didn’t know about because we are away from India for many years and not keeping up with my in-laws friends anymore.

When I saw the synopsis yesterday that Shiva is suspicious of Raavi, it just upset me to the core but looking at people like Shweta and Ritwik in real life, I realized that real life in most cases is better than these so called ITV shows which leaves no chance to demean, belittle women, especially working women.

I knew when Shiva was supporting Raavi, he is definitely going to screw up sometime but didn’t think it will happen so soon😔 I agree with Raavi’s words in the SBS segment, he cannot accept Raavi’s success, period.