Posted: 3 years ago
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Hey guys, new here, not to the show, keep watching here and there all the time😆

I have a question as to why Anupama wants chhoti Anu to be in the same school where Pakhi studied. Pakhi isn't in that school now so her objections don't make much sense to me so I won't go there.

But why such adamant behaviour on Anupama's part? Can Kapadias not afford another school for their daughter? Why is Anupama being so adamant?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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To ensure daily drama and long lectures.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I understand pakhi anxiety


If a siblings is there in same campus they will get to know you are bunking classes and going out or meeting boy friends or girl friends or you had fights in school ground or you bunked and went shopping all info reaches parents so ideally should keep family and relatives away from your school or college too. Thats pakhi idea plus having such small step sister too and mocking that goes on in colleges or schools is terrible


Now your question why anupama is adamant on putting littl anu in pakhi school


bec in future when anupama objects to pakhi marrying adhik, pakhi can say you never listened to me even to put anu is diff school why should i listen to you on marriage? kind of scene. You do not consider me as daughter go advice anu not me scenes


its best anuj intervenes and put little anu in another school not in pakhi bec in anger she may push her or hit her in school or threaten etc all this happens with siblings actually in same school. Specially the boy siblings


Here i feel if pakhi does not want little anu in her school why force it down her throat it will spoil mother daughter relation just put another school no - a mature parent will behave like this put other kid in another school and end this ego fights and issue once and for all

Edited by myviewprem - 3 years ago
Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

I understand pakhi anxiety


If a siblings is there in same campus they will get to know you are bunking classes and going out or meeting boy friends or girl friends or you had fights in school ground or you bunked and went shopping all info reaches parents so ideally should keep family and relatives away from your school or college too. Thats pakhi idea plus having such small step sister too and mocking that goes on in colleges or schools is terrible


Now your question why anupama is adamant on putting littl anu in pakhi school


bec in future when anupama objects to pakhi marrying adhik, pakhi can say you never listened to me even to put anu is diff school why should i listen to you on marriage? kind of scene. You do not consider me as daughter go advice anu not me scenes


its best anuj intervenes and put little anu in another school not in pakhi bec in anger she may push her or hit her in school or threaten etc all this happens with siblings actually in same school. Specially the boy siblings


Here i feel if pakhi does not want little anu in her school why force it down her throat it will spoil mother daughter relation just put another school no - a mature parent will behave like this put other kid in another school and end this ego fights and issue once and for all

but Pakhi is not in school now. She's in college. How does it matter now when she's not studying there. My nephews are studying in the school where I used to study. I still don't see how it matters. Or the school and College are in the same campus🤔

Anyways, if she has problem, Anupama and Anuj can enroll Anu in another school. I completely agree with your last paragraph.

Bold: sounds very plausible. Anupama actually isn't listening to her so Pakhi can call her out on this in future.

Posted: 3 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

To ensure daily drama and long lectures.

hahaha. I don't mind lectures but there should be a reason for them, not just create an unnecessary scene for thisbut you are right. What is Anupama without her lo(oooooooooo)ng lectures😆
Posted: 3 years ago
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Its more of a sense of self-validation and pride Anupamaa takes in assuming that the school she sent her kids to, and has worked at as a teacher, is the best one in Ahmedabad.

Fancy schools are useless, a school with really messed up fire safety norms is the best because Anupamaa knows the teachers and staff there personally and she got a job there inspite of being a dropout.

That's so important!

Maybe her contacts will help leak question papers for Anu, who knows?


Anu's mental health can go to the gutter.

Who cares if Pakhi can spread rumors about Anu and makes her prone to social ostracization, or if she resumes her childhood habit of pinching kids secretly and hurts Anu? The school of Anupamaa's choice is the best, no further questions.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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May be woh school ghar ke pass mein ho और us area ka best school ho

See Jin parents ko roj roj bachon ko drop aur pick karna hota woh bache ka admission with in 2 km ke andar hi karayege taaki unhe bache ko school pahunchane mein और lene mein late na ho

Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

May be woh school ghar ke pass mein ho और us area ka best school ho

See Jin parents ko roj roj bachon ko drop aur pick karna hota woh bache ka admission with in 2 km ke andar hi karayege taaki unhe bache ko school pahunchane mein और lene mein late na ho

Hmm. Didn't think like that. Maybe that can be a reason.
Posted: 3 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Its more of a sense of self-validation and pride Anupamaa takes in assuming that the school she sent her kids to, and has worked at as a teacher, is the best one in Ahmedabad.

Fancy schools are useless, a school with really messed up fire safety norms is the best because Anupamaa knows the teachers and staff there personally and she got a job there inspite of being a dropout.

That's so important!

Maybe her contacts will help leak question papers for Anu, who knows?


Anu's mental health can go to the gutter.

Who cares if Pakhi can spread rumors about Anu and makes her prone to social ostracization, or if she resumes her childhood habit of pinching kids secretly and hurts Anu? The school of Anupamaa's choice is the best, no further questions.

the whole post had me laughing😆


By the way, what do you mean by messed up fire safety norms🤔

Edited by JoonaMohalla - 3 years ago
Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

the whole post had me laughing😆


By the way, what do you mean by messed up fire safety norms🤔

In one of the older episodes when Anupamaa worked as the SUPW teacher in the school teaching cooking to kids, there was a fire accident.

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