Meray Humsafar[ARY]|Thread #2|Farhan Saeed, Hania Aamir - Page 60

Originally posted by: The_Imane

@underlined I am loving the angst related to that but if there's some sense to it. With the abortion fiasco and this whole Khurram track its become a joke. I dont think there will be a miscarriage, wouldn't she lose the baby after taking the pills or that one time she fell on the stairs if she had to ?

But then I almost want her to have one because that's the only thing that makes sense. She is anxious, scared, physically always in pain (she shouldn't have been that breathless climbing the stairs if she was healthy, she is not even showing a bit so its the early stage of her pregnancy, there's no added weight, plus she felt dizzy minutes later in Khurram's appartement. This is signs of BP issues or high vagal risks which is common in young girls her age, in any case, could be worse too and she needs a proper doctor check up).

@Italic No, I dont think Hamza would have lashes out more. If I myself think disregarding the abortion episode, Hamza isn't violent nor quick to anger. I think even if he didnt love Hala, or was it any woman, he wouldn't lash out, and now since its Hala, he loves her so much he cant hurt her or lash out at her (like he said in the promo). I only meant that if, imagine something happens to her right now, she faints or has cramps or something, he is going to forgive everything and worry about her physical integrity first. Because he is like that. (I am really being blind to the abortion fiasco right now, because he shook, manhandled and was about to slap her and she was pregnant then too).

He wouldn't have divorced her. He was clear about that to her before too and with the adalaat dialogue right before SJ barged in too. Unless he really thinks Hala loves Khurram and that he is being the chains to her happiness, which seems to be a little the case with the "aapne se zabardasti naa bandta" . Girl, Hala you need to clear this up and fix it. But he wont divorce her on SJ's orders.

@Bold I agree. He has been closing his eyes almost purposely. That "saab tumara khayal rakhte hain" ? Who apart from him or Dadi, who need care more than she can give at that age, gives a f*ck about Hala in that house ?

And also the abortion pills scene, where Hala just snapped at him "tume nahi pata?! hato!" and shoved him away, that was spot on, she had been telling him for weeks how SJ harassed her and he was still being so oblivious.

Looking at her condition, I am scared she might have a miscarriage 😭 but I don't want her to. She already seems to have lost a lot. Don't think she can handle loosing her baby as well. But future seems still more difficult. I mean if Dadi dies I don't know how is Hala going to take it. Dadi was her only true family apart from Hamza. She was her mother in every sense and her only support in that house. Things will become more difficult for her what with this Khurram issue, Hamza's anger and even Nafees might come to add to her issues I really wanted Hamza to be there with her when Nafees enters but abb kuch aur hi hogaya.

I am hoping all this strengthens her rather than making her weak. Because abb toh Khurram ki baat bahar aane ka darr nahi hai🤣 her character should show some growth and it's high time she stands up for herself rather then staying silent and getting tortured by SJ. I really want someone to shut that woman's mouth😡

@bold- that is true❤️ actually I was having that doubt so just asked it😆 and apart from that abortion episode he has been really kind and gentle with her. But that one episode made me lose a lot of trust in him😆 more so in makers😆 they can turn around his character anytime 😭

@pink- yup he has been against divorce throughout. But dunno why in that moment I was just scared he might do something stupid. He seemed very vulnerable. And this divorce thing has really scared me because it has been mentioned so many times. There was even a scene where Hala was fully confident Hamza would never leave her but SJ said he will do so😒

I just hope he keeps his cool and thinks over everything. I think if he reflects back he himself can figure out a lot of things. I mean Hala started becoming unusually scared after Khurram entered. Not the kind of reaction one would give if she loved him dearly😆 Or I hope Hamza himself starts investigating a bit and finds out what happened.

Though Hala first needs to clear things from her side. It's really high time she tells him the truth.

@blue- exactly!! He is delusional on another level when it comes to his family. He has seen how his family treats Hala worse than a maid and still says everyone loves and cares for you who exactly are his "sab"?

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Originally posted by: bhshre95

We are getting so many interviews of Farhan these days, why no interview of Hania or a joint interview having both of them? Atleast MH promotion ke liye hi ek interview dedete

Yeah she's not really promoting the show or even hyping it up. All she does is repost on her story. Lagta hai khud thak gayi hai Hala se 🤣

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Looking at her condition, I am scared she might have a miscarriage 😭 but I don't want her to. She already seems to have lost a lot. Don't think she can handle loosing her baby as well. But future seems still more difficult. I mean if Dadi dies I don't know how is Hala going to take it. Dadi was her only true family apart from Hamza. She was her mother in every sense and her only support in that house. Things will become more difficult for her what with this Khurram issue, Hamza's anger and even Nafees might come to add to her issues I really wanted Hamza to be there with her when Nafees enters but abb kuch aur hi hogaya.

I am hoping all this strengthens her rather than making her weak. Because abb toh Khurram ki baat bahar aane ka darr nahi hai🤣 her character should show some growth and it's high time she stands up for herself rather then staying silent and getting tortured by SJ. I really want someone to shut that woman's mouth😡

@bold- that is true❤️ actually I was having that doubt so just asked it😆 and apart from that abortion episode he has been really kind and gentle with her. But that one episode made me lose a lot of trust in him😆 more so in makers😆 they can turn around his character anytime 😭

@pink- yup he has been against divorce throughout. But dunno why in that moment I was just scared he might do something stupid. He seemed very vulnerable. And this divorce thing has really scared me because it has been mentioned so many times. There was even a scene where Hala was fully confident Hamza would never leave her but SJ said he will do so😒

I just hope he keeps his cool and thinks over everything. I think if he reflects back he himself can figure out a lot of things. I mean Hala started becoming unusually scared after Khurram entered. Not the kind of reaction one would give if she loved him dearly😆 Or I hope Hamza himself starts investigating a bit and finds out what happened.

Though Hala first needs to clear things from her side. It's really high time she tells him the truth.

@blue- exactly!! He is delusional on another level when it comes to his family. He has seen how his family treats Hala worse than a maid and still says everyone loves and cares for you who exactly are his "sab"?

I know its a lot on her but truthfully Hala isn't yet mature enough to have a baby. She herself is a broken soul, and a child herself sometimes. On the other side she clearly loves her baby, with the tummy touching scene, the abortion fiasco (she panicked so much and took a stand against SJ and Hamza both for her child, and the SJ throwing the baby's stuff away scene). She has had difficulties expressing it or being too happy about it because of Khurram and SJ but its clear she is attached. Losing her might undo her even more and would be too much tragedy on her plate.

But at the same time, I dont know why but I feel such a strong earthquake is needed for Hamza to realise just how abusive his family is, and for Hala to maybe grow stronger.

Originally posted by: Aquabutterfly

Yeah she's not really promoting the show or even hyping it up. All she does is repost on her story. Lagta hai khud thak gayi hai Hala se 🤣

Hala has gotten Hania the most praises in her acting career from critics and audience, along with Gulmeena from SeM, so I am sure woh thaki tu bilkul nahi hai. And even if she is I don’t blame her. 40 episodes ka drama kaun pagal banata hai aaj kal. I think her Rasmedil with Wahaj has also been pushed back because of this show.

She actually doesn’t give interviews anymore unless it is for film promotions. She also didn’t give any after Ishqiya, the last drama she did before MH and SeM. Hassan from SH has been trying and the host from Farhan’s latest interview also told fans that they have asked Hania for an interview. But I know she will decline. She has faced too much in the past two years and she doesn't give one now unless she absolutely has to. This is also another reason why Amina got bashed for saying that Hania won’t come for an interview for MH because Hania didn’t even give one for Rumi.

Bilal, Sajal, Ahad are that way too. They hardly ever give interviews other than for films etc. Hassan tried so hard to get Wahaj’s during DNUTN but he never gave him one. But came to Hassan’s talk show a year later. Farhan I feel should stop now because all his 3 interviews were given within such a short span of each other. It’s the same questions and answers in every interview now 😂

Originally posted by: The_Imane

I know its a lot on her but truthfully Hala isn't yet mature enough to have a baby. She herself is a broken soul, and a child herself sometimes. On the other side she clearly loves her baby, with the tummy touching scene, the abortion fiasco (she panicked so much and took a stand against SJ and Hamza both for her child, and the SJ throwing the baby's stuff away scene). She has had difficulties expressing it or being too happy about it because of Khurram and SJ but its clear she is attached. Losing her might undo her even more and would be too much tragedy on her plate.

But at the same time, I dont know why but I feel such a strong earthquake is needed for Hamza to realise just how abusive his family is, and for Hala to maybe grow stronger.

Agreed.

While I appreciate Hamza for not being Asher 2.0 in this matter, I do realize that he's part of the mess right now and that he could have done more since his wedding with hala.

See we all appreciate how different hamza is, we can't forget he has certain flaws. He is weak when it comes to his mother. I know it's his mother so he can't disrespect her. But...

First of all, there are many instances where he caught SJ arm twisting or verbally abusing hala which he simply overlooked.

Secondly, he is aggressive with hala in certain moments like their wedding scene where he lost his temper and the recent baby poisoning or this dadi ko kuch hua. With that I believe hala was right in not trusting on how he would react.

Third, I know alot of people say that hala cries too much. But the thing is, Hala is a product of emotional, physical and psychological abuse for years. She can't change overnight because of Hamza's love and support which by the way is not working because she is constantly being harraased one way or another. And a victim like her has only one way of staying sane: by venting through crying.

And no. She can't miraculously become strong on her own.

Now the reason why I think hamza is responsible for hala's continuing distress:

Did he assume hala cries without reason and that those sudden panic attacks she gets near his mom are her nature? Or that she's over dramatic when she has break down claiming her child is in danger? Or all those stories she tells him about her childhood sufferings due to SJ?

He's an educated, foreign returned man. Shouldn't he be able to realize something is amiss and get to the core of the problem. Basically hamza is not different. At his core, he is the same weak man who doesn't know how to protect his wife without disrespecting his mother so He's at fault here. I wish has a way out. She finds enough strength to leave this house and find shelter somewhere until hamza realizes where he's wrong.

Originally posted by: Shabia1

Agreed.

While I appreciate Hamza for not being Asher 2.0 in this matter, I do realize that he's part of the mess right now and that he could have done more since his wedding with hala.

See we all appreciate how different hamza is, we can't forget he has certain flaws. He is weak when it comes to his mother. I know it's his mother so he can't disrespect her. But...

First of all, there are many instances where he caught SJ arm twisting or verbally abusing hala which he simply overlooked.

Secondly, he is aggressive with hala in certain moments like their wedding scene where he lost his temper and the recent baby poisoning or this dadi ko kuch hua. With that I believe hala was right in not trusting on how he would react.

Third, I know alot of people say that hala cries too much. But the thing is, Hala is a product of emotional, physical and psychological abuse for years. She can't change overnight because of Hamza's love and support which by the way is not working because she is constantly being harraased one way or another. And a victim like her has only one way of staying sane: by venting through crying.

And no. She can't miraculously become strong on her own.

Now the reason why I think hamza is responsible for hala's continuing distress:

Did he assume hala cries without reason and that those sudden panic attacks she gets near his mom are her nature? Or that she's over dramatic when she has break down claiming her child is in danger? Or all those stories she tells him about her childhood sufferings due to SJ?

He's an educated, foreign returned man. Shouldn't he be able to realize something is amiss and get to the core of the problem. Basically hamza is not different. At his core, he is the same weak man who doesn't know how to protect his wife without disrespecting his mother so He's at fault here. I wish has a way out. She finds enough strength to leave this house and find shelter somewhere until hamza realizes where he's wrong.

@Red Yes ! They are so many times he caught her being violent with Hala even after she was pregnant. He caught her literally banging her head against a pillar during the phone fiasco and he still cant realise that SJ is an abuser ?

@Blue Bang on ! He was so weirdly agressive in those times, both the wedding scene with "zubaan kech lounga" and the abortion one, and this week's "agar Dadi ko kuch hua to main tume choroungha nahi" made no sense and was agressive on top of it. He hadnt done his 100% to buy Hala's trust, and the 10% of doubt was enough for her to fear telling him.

@Green Exactly. She has been having panick attack after panick attack and the first one was on their reception night scene, where instead of noticing clear anxiety signs he flipped out and shouted at her instead. And even after that, he is clearly noticing but not adressing the issue. She is a visible victim of abuse, why doesn't he take her to a psychologist or at least try to talk to her ans dig what's wrong. Whenever Hala tells him stuff he either makes it a joke or make her feel like she is exagerating, be it when she was worried about the baby (that she almost lost twice btw, so her fear is justified), the "aag laga degi" moment, or he repress her feelings down and ignore her trauma completely, getting pissed instead, like the pulao scene, the writing punishement on papers scene etc.

All in all, they're both damaged, flawed and at fault and Hala needs proper healing outside of just fixing her relationship with Hamza.

There was a good deal of damage control in SH review last night ... funny part is Ammna trying to justify herself while doing damage control ..

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