Sang e Mah (Hum)- Atif Aslam, Kubra Khan, Hania Amir - Page 64

I wish hilmand asks for jirgha to punish him for ghag cause what he did to gulmina was wrong. And as he is shown as hero, it would be best if he himself ask for that punishment, would create more impact and he can also show that he is not like his father. He is zarsanga's son, and after knowing how much his mother suffered for ghag, he is repenting for that action.

Till now he is in pain only due to his fathers murder and then zarsanga's confession. He has not shown any remorse of his actions towards gulmina and hikmat.

Originally posted by: awida

There's something which is very strange. Islam asked children to obay their mothers and to take care of them, but Hilmand was always far away from his mother.. I remember Marjan said that he didn't talk to his mom since a long time. If it wasn't because of Marjan killing his father, so why? 😕 If he doubted Haji then why didn't he warn his mother against that murderer? Was he angry that his mother got married after his father's death?🤓 Was he jealous of her love for Haji and Hikmat? 😕

Zari too was at fault for staying away from Hilmand and for keeping his father's reality a secret. Maybe she thought that he will be shattered because he held his father so high.. and because his own mom murdered him.

I agree her saying that Haji ki liye she can sacrifice 10 Hilmands was so cruel. For a mother none is above her children.. Haji treated her really well.. their love story is iconic, but as you said.. her son was in pain yet she only cared for her husband.🤔

This mother son duo and all this misunderstanding was not built on solid reason.

Exactly how can he stayed away from her mother after knowing that haji killed his father, then haji is so dangerous he can harm his mother as well. Why he did not inform zarshaga about it.

And zarshaga was a failed mother not just for hilmand but hikmat as well.

That's why i want a proper convo between hilmand and his mother.

Unfortunately there are few loop holes in the story.

My two cents about the end and the show in general.

It came as no surprise that Zarsanga was the actual murderer, not the Haji, but call it their failure to truly show how despicable ghag is, or my lack of knowledge on the matter, I just don't get why they keep trying to justify murder from the past few episodes by stating he deserved it since he did ghag on her. Especially since they've simultaneously shown a minor getting raped. Nothing in the narrative can convince me that a ghag is worse then the latter. But then the rapist was punished by losing his house and income and Hilmand's dad with murder. Also, why is the solution to this mess, getting all the women in the village together to justify why men shouldn't do ghag, isn't a more logical solution the parents of the girls not taking the ghag seriously and letting them marry whoever she wants as Zarghuna did with Gulmeena? If men use ghag to show their power, why can't women refuse to bow down to that power by not marrying them instead of going around committing murders?

Also, why do they keep trying to paint this super naek image of the Haji and Zarsanga when all said and done they've both committed a murder? I was just rewatching the song to get a gist of the end and Hilmand was in the jirga too, so I guess he'll show up last second to defend his dad's killers only for the Haji and Zarsanga to die of shame. The show is just so all over the place with its message. I get that ghag is wrong, but nothing can convince me that murder can be justified no matter how strongly they push that narrative. They would've done better showing the Haji and Zarsanga were flawed people tbh. This idealistic image they keep forcing even now just makes no sense.

Originally posted by: Zehnaseeb

My two cents about the end and the show in general.

It came as no surprise that Zarsanga was the actual murderer, not the Haji, but call it their failure to truly show how despicable ghag is, or my lack of knowledge on the matter, I just don't get why they keep trying to justify murder from the past few episodes by stating he deserved it since he did ghag on her. Especially since they've simultaneously shown a minor getting raped. Nothing in the narrative can convince me that a ghag is worse then the latter. But then the rapist was punished by losing his house and income and Hilmand's dad with murder. Also, why is the solution to this mess, getting all the women in the village together to justify why men shouldn't do ghag, isn't a more logical solution the parents of the girls not taking the ghag seriously and letting them marry whoever she wants as Zarghuna did with Gulmeena? If men use ghag to show their power, why can't women refuse to bow down to that power by not marrying them instead of going around committing murders?

Also, why do they keep trying to paint this super naek image of the Haji and Zarsanga when all said and done they've both committed a murder? I was just rewatching the song to get a gist of the end and Hilmand was in the jirga too, so I guess he'll show up last second to defend his dad's killers only for the Haji and Zarsanga to die of shame. The show is just so all over the place with its message. I get that ghag is wrong, but nothing can convince me that murder can be justified no matter how strongly they push that narrative. They would've done better showing the Haji and Zarsanga were flawed people tbh. This idealistic image they keep forcing even now just makes no sense.

@bold ghag was very common and serious issue in kpk tribal areas. When men fires three bullet that mean he wants to marry a girl and if anyone else try to marry her he will kill her. That's why sometimes women stay single if they refuse to marry that person. Nobody will try to marry them.

There are cases of ghag in 2021 in South wazirstan areas.

So HUM is going to air Paristaan in place of sang e mah😵. Stupid hum. Paristaan was boring and Sundays are usually the day when they get max trp. Atleast acchey show air kartey. Maybe hum tum.

Paristan is not replacing sang e mah timing is 9pm for paristan

Originally posted by: .Anya.

Paristan is not replacing sang e mah timing is 9pm for paristan

Oh accha! Then which show is going to replace sang e mah?

Originally posted by: mala06

Oh accha! Then which show is going to replace sang e mah?

They may shift Weham to Sunday slot.. and run Badshah Begum on Tue_Wed.🤓

Originally posted by: awida

They may shift Weham to Sunday slot.. and run Badshah Begum on Tue_Wed.🤓

They don't have money to make new dramas?

Originally posted by: awida

They may shift Weham to Sunday slot.. and run Badshah Begum on Tue_Wed.🤓

Haan yeh accha hoga😊