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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: vibha28

Shehroz has gone crazy in the show aur udhar usama bhi uske fans ko anmol Ke saath pictures ni deta 😂😂😂😂

But it is funny - I think they are adding this new bit now because it feels disjointed or maybe that’s just me?

I feel the scenes all over the place. There is lack of flow. They shot things here and there, some before extension , some after. Shehroz looks younger in some scenes, he looks older in others. 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

re: sadaf and sufiyan and their 'love' for shehroze and ushna


so this isn't love in the typical definition. this is about possession, about a game, about winning.

I want to relate a story about when I was in university. me and my friend were yakking in the canteen when this classmate of mine popped over -- he had borrowed my notes as he had been sick. when he gave it back to me, he asked me why I had let him borrow. I was perplexed and couldn't understand. he said my notes were too good and what if he gets more marks than me. I was like "so????". he didn't understand that I was more interested in competing with myself.

he then commented about what me and my friend had been conversing when he joined the table -- my friend was telling me about her weekend where she hung out with her cousins and sister. he revealed that he had a difficult relationship with his brother and non-existent ones with his cousins because they were brought up competing with each other.

my friend then said, "how can you have a relationship if you are competing with everyone you meet?"

his response: "that is what my parents taught me. either they are competition or you put them under your feet so you can use them."

and my friend's response "if you cannot be happy for someone, you will never have a relationship with anyone."

his response: "I don't know how to stop"


I share the above story to explain sadaf and sufiyan. they were taught like this classmate -- that is why sadaf used to have meltdowns that ushna was doing better than her university. however, since sadaf doesn't have much interest in studies, her goal was to "win in life". maybe she figured that none of these girls are going to work anyway and so the life section was more important. how was that going to be achieved? to marry some rich bloke and show off. now, ushna got the guy sadaf set her sights on. so ushna won the game. that is what is upsetting sadaf. for the first time, she lost the game that was dear to her.

same with sufiyan -- he sees rejection from ushna as a check that he wasn't good enough. that is what is really bothering him. again, it boils down to competition. neither sadaf or sufiyan have brains to compete in life/work and so they were competing in romance (to get what and who they want) -- it was their way of making themselves feel superior. now that castle like a bad biscuit has crumpled to the ground.

there are life lessons here larger than the drama -- you have to be able to be happy for other people if you want to have relationships. you need to know boundaries to competition. you cannot compete with every person in your life unless your aim is to be isolated. you have to know that life will throw you curveballs. you need to have grace to accept when things don't go your way.

if we see raeesa, she still hasn't taken accountability. she doesn't see it as a result of her upbringing. instead, the starting point is zainab getting married and she thinks she made a mistake with that move.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: spnfan

I think we are going hard on shehroze. He was never close enough to zainab to know what she is capable of and not. It's more than obvious he will take his mother's side when it comes to zainab. For him zainab is his father's second wife, someone that took his mother's position and then his wife's mother . He wouldnt have most probably believed Naima if ushna was the one being accused.

I know he might end up being a complete Dumbo in the future episode but as of now he haven't reached there yet to question his love for ushna.

The problem is not that he is taking Naima's side because Zainab is just second wife of his father. The problem is that he expect from Ushna to not take Zainab's side when Zainab is much more than just a second wife of someone for Ushna.


It's not Naima Vs Zainab yet. Nobody is pointing finger at Naima. It's more about calling Zainab 'Chor' and there Ushna needed to take a stand for her mom. He could have just stayed silent when nobody had said anything to Naima. And he was asking Ushna to be genious as tell how did jewelry reach there. He could have been extra genious and figure out the reason behind Zainab stealing jewelry of her own daughter. He doesn't know much about Zainab, but he knows that Zainab has made joke out of her life just to save Ushna from her own greedy family. Why would that mother plan anything against same daughter?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: vibha28

No I meant the conversation he had with his mother about necklace and how she shouldn’t have given it to Ushna. Of course husband wife talk that is normal but husband mother talking about wife is not right.

Had that talk not happened I would have given him a pass but I can’t. I would have liked had he said that he will try to understand her situation rather than talking about respect and all.

But yes I agree it’s about time zainab says get a caretaker it’s not her job to look after Naima and she obviously is not working out anyway, so recruit a new care person.

For him, his mother has gone back to being the sensible caring lady she was before all the shooting and daadi scene happened. He talks about everything he feels to his mother and it's perfectly normal for him to say how he felt about giving the jewellery to ushna. Naima is not just his mother but is like a friend to him and his confidant. He clearly won't even think that the mother that told him to love ushna, take care of her and sets dinner dates for them will try to manipulate him to destroy his marriage. According to him his mother has always only given good advice to him. It is true that men (esp men from a cultural background where mothers are considered to be above god) will never think the worst about their mothers until they get to see it themselves. They grew up in a cultural setup where from a young age they hear 'maatha, pita, guru, daivam'. Even though pak is a Muslim country i am sure they have this cultural similarity with india when it comes to mothers. If any guy that has a normal kind of relationship with his mother won't even think there is evilness in their mother how will someone like shehroze can see it? A guy like Hamza won't belive that his mother is capable of killing his own child. Shehroze is totally out of question and he is certified mumma's boy.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

I feel the scenes all over the place. There is lack of flow. They shot things here and there, some before extension , some after. Shehroz looks younger in some scenes, he looks older in others. 😆

Thank you bestie for saying this I thought I was going crazy 😂😂😂

Hugs 🤗

I felt that too it’s too disjointed and it’s good and then bad. Maybe they should stuck with the original story lol 😂

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Posted: 3 years ago

Hyy guys what happened last night episode main?

Btw it to hot in Pakistan right now I'm feeling like dying

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: vibha28

Not when it’s with the right person. Perfect man doesn’t exist but if there is respect, kindness, trust, and care love automatically happens 😜😜😜

But haa in the show love is a faltu thing 😂😂


I think if anyone has enough sense to differentiate between right and wrong then everything else falls into place automatically. Patience is key to any married person, aggressive behavior can't solve anything. Yoga is the solution 😆



Phir bhii mein kahungii love doesn't exist 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

re: sadaf and sufiyan and their 'love' for shehroze and ushna


so this isn't love in the typical definition. this is about possession, about a game, about winning.

I want to relate a story about when I was in university. me and my friend were yakking in the canteen when this classmate of mine popped over -- he had borrowed my notes as he had been sick. when he gave it back to me, he asked me why I had let him borrow. I was perplexed and couldn't understand. he said my notes were too good and what if he gets more marks than me. I was like "so????". he didn't understand that I was more interested in competing with myself.

he then commented about what me and my friend had been conversing when he joined the table -- my friend was telling me about her weekend where she hung out with her cousins and sister. he revealed that he had a difficult relationship with his brother and non-existent ones with his cousins because they were brought up competing with each other.

my friend then said, "how can you have a relationship if you are competing with everyone you meet?"

his response: "that is what my parents taught me. either they are competition or you put them under your feet so you can use them."

and my friend's response "if you cannot be happy for someone, you will never have a relationship with anyone."

his response: "I don't know how to stop"


I share the above story to explain sadaf and sufiyan. they were taught like this classmate -- that is why sadaf used to have meltdowns that ushna was doing better than her university. however, since sadaf doesn't have much interest in studies, her goal was to "win in life". maybe she figured that none of these girls are going to work anyway and so the life section was more important. how was that going to be achieved? to marry some rich bloke and show off. now, ushna got the guy sadaf set her sights on. so ushna won the game. that is what is upsetting sadaf. for the first time, she lost the game that was dear to her.

same with sufiyan -- he sees rejection from ushna as a check that he wasn't good enough. that is what is really bothering him. again, it boils down to competition. neither sadaf or sufiyan have brains to compete in life/work and so they were competing in romance (to get what and who they want) -- it was their way of making themselves feel superior. now that castle like a bad biscuit has crumpled to the ground.

there are life lessons here larger than the drama -- you have to be able to be happy for other people if you want to have relationships. you need to know boundaries to competition. you cannot compete with every person in your life unless your aim is to be isolated. you have to know that life will throw you curveballs. you need to have grace to accept when things don't go your way.

if we see raeesa, she still hasn't taken accountability. she doesn't see it as a result of her upbringing. instead, the starting point is zainab getting married and she thinks she made a mistake with that move.

Thank you for sharing this!! Loved reading every bit of it. And yes, it does teach you a lot about life, be secure in yourself as competition creates lot of insecurities leading to jealousy, hatred, obsession.. This is very much similar to Hum Kaha ke sachay they Drama on Hum tv . The whole drama revolved around one cousin jealous of other of beiing more talented ( her parents, dadi kept praising the other one since childhood) to this extent that she even plans to kill her but gets killed herself.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

The problem is not that he is taking Naima's side because Zainab is just second wife of his father. The problem is that he expect from Ushna to not take Zainab's side when Zainab is much more than just a second wife of someone for Ushna.


It's not Naima Vs Zainab yet. Nobody is pointing finger at Naima. It's more about calling Zainab 'Chor' and there Ushna needed to take a stand for her mom. He could have just stayed silent when nobody had said anything to Naima. And he was asking Ushna to be genious as tell how did jewelry reach there. He could have been extra genious and figure out the reason behind Zainab stealing jewelry of her own daughter. He doesn't know much about Zainab, but he knows that Zainab has made joke out of her life just to save Ushna from her own greedy family. Why would that mother plan anything against same daughter?

We are forgetting the fact that shehroze is an entitled arrogant brat and will blabber whatever comes to his mind. He is capable of thinking the worst in his father without any evidence then zainab kya cheez hai.

The only change in him is that he learnt to love someone other than his mother and that's it.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: spnfan

A guy like Hamza won't belive that his mother is capable of killing his own child.

What 😳😳 She did this?

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