Regional Version KKIS 10 : All discussion here - Page 34

Originally posted by: arshia786

So I missed that when I first saw it and then you brought it up in discussion and I rewatched the scene—it cracked me up. So much better. He is the best!! His expression too at the time—just made it a whole lot better 🤣🤣🤣

I didn't see it before either...I just noticed it today! I think I was too lost in premveer Khadus before to notice it! 😆

Nikhil come back already man!

Originally posted by: ishqi

I didn't see it before either...I just noticed it today! I think I was too lost in premveer Khadus before to notice it! 😆

Nikhil come back already man!

Then I guess someone else mentioned it but I just saw it again and it cracked me up 😂. He understands Khadus hormones 😂 (akhir uski bhi nayi shaadi hui hai 😂😂😂)

he needs to come back now!!! Leaving bechari Sumi all alone—she’s losing brain cells day by day 😂😂😂

Ok good night gals,

Will chat tomorrow—I am beat! Need to make a backdrop for cousin but should be on after running some morning errands. ❤️

Originally posted by: arshia786

Agreed! I really hope they don’t portray Apu to be just as other FLs on ITV—saviors and sacrificial lambs with no flaws (just misunderstood). The beauty of TR is that it’s more realistic. She is a character that has the best at heart and is very lovable (I love Appu btw) but also one that has flaws and they should be acknowledged by her. A relationship can only work with both parties trying and understanding each other. She should realize how her implementation could have been better and also meet Khadus halfway. That is how their relationship will progress to an eventual unbreakable bond. They have very different personalities and in such cases both complete each other. Where she lacks, he takes over and where he lacks, she takes over.

I feel Ike I could have explained this better but oh well, mind blanking 😬

+1

I do feel that it's not always understandable or appreciable to stubbornly invade someone's personal space. The basic respect has to be there. Sure, it's all very sweet that you love them a bit too much to do nothing when you can see that they are hurting but the other people may not always be in the mindset and capable of taking it like Dada-Kaka here.

Doesn't mean I am saying that she shouldn't try to fix things but has to be done in a way where nobody's sentiments are hurt. You can't force someone to let go of their grudge. Forcing anyone for anything seldom works. You have to be thoughtful and slow in your efforts to help them let go of it.

Hum zabardasti kisi se kuch nahi karwa sakte aur pyaar se... bohot kuch karwa sakte hai.

Also - practicing clear communication is so needed here. Especially from Apurva's side. That becomes the root cause of their misunderstandings. Sure, doing that would invite arguments and fights but they are better than misunderstandings.

For Mr. Kanitkar to defend his wife - he has to know what she is up to first.

Had she told him that she was going to meet Avantika - he wouldn't have agreed, tried to change her decision and eventually gotten mad because zabardasti to wo bhi usko nahi rok sakta. Kisi ko nahi rok sakte hum. But I feel it would have been better than keeping him in dark and lying to him.

Let him get upset with your choices but at least let him know the choices that you are making. If you want him to be transparent with you - you gotta do that too. It's a two-way street, Mrs. Kanitkar. It has always been. It will always be. ❤️

omg I finally gathered the courage to watch the whole game episodes of HC track...and I can't stop laughing at the whole family! 🤣 They are all too cute man! ❤️ Except for Sumi/Prachi's turn, all of them were hilarious!

Appu wants Shashank to grow his beard and his hair so that he can tie it in a ponytail with colorful rubber bands!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just so that he can look like a rockstar or as Amey says "ponytail scientist" 🤣

And sumi chi chesta was continued there too! 🤣 Bechara Kukki!

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

+1

I do feel that it's not always understandable or appreciable to stubbornly invade someone's personal space. The basic respect has to be there. Sure, it's all very sweet that you love them a bit too much to do nothing when you can see that they are hurting but the other people may not always be in the mindset and capable of taking it like Dada-Kaka here.

Doesn't mean I am saying that she shouldn't try to fix things but has to be done in a way where nobody's sentiments are hurt. You can't force someone to let go of their grudge. Forcing anyone for anything seldom works. You have to be thoughtful and slow in your efforts to help them let go of it.

Hum zabardasti kisi se kuch nahi karwa sakte aur pyaar se... bohot kuch karwa sakte hai.

Also - practicing clear communication is so needed here. Especially from Apurva's side. That becomes the root cause of their misunderstandings. Sure, doing that would invite arguments and fights but they are better than misunderstandings.

For Mr. Kanitkar to defend his wife - he has to know what she is up to first.

Had she told him that she was going to meet Avantika - he wouldn't have agreed, tried to change her decision and eventually gotten mad because zabardasti to wo bhi usko nahi rok sakta. Kisi ko nahi rok sakte hum. But I feel it would have been better than keeping him in darkness and lying to him.

Let him get upset with your choices but at least let him know the choices that you are making. If you want him to be transparent with you - you gotta do that too. It's a two-way street, Mrs. Kanitkar. It has always been. It will always be. ❤️

Agreed 100%! Esp with her telling him to his face and fighting about it openly instead of the lies!

Originally posted by: ishqi

Agreed 100%! Esp with her telling him to his face and fighting about it openly instead of the lies!

Like we were discussing in the last track - Shashank's trust issues are pretty understandable because Apurva has put him through the situations time and again where she chose to either hide the truth or lie.

Mazak mein bhi agar bol rahe ho - to bhi - to bhi jhooth to jhooth hota hai. Tumko kya pata agle insaan ki memory ye store karegi ki mazak me jhooth bola tha ya sirf jhooth bola tha.

Ek baar bhi jhooth bol lo na - to bhi agle insaan ke mann mein kahi na kahi humesha rahega - that this person is capable of lying.

Uss situation me wo blind ya unshakeable trust rakhna is real tough.

Same with Apurva.

Shashank told her that he had a girlfriend. She ended up presuming that it's Netra. Despite seeing her insecurities time and again - he made no attempt to tell her that he didn't have any girlfriend to begin with.

Uske baad he keeps chatting with Netra despite knowing it irks her up.

Kabhi yakeen dilane ki koshish hi nahi ki that he has nothing for Netra. Sirf bolne se kuch nahi hota.

Har function me bulata hai usko despite knowing that she humiliates Apurva.

Netra ke concern mein wo bhul jata hai ke Apurva is getting hurt.

Clearly communicate karke manana chhod scheme karta hai, uska teddy banta hai aur baat khatam.

Baat tab to khatam ho jati hai ( surface thing ) lekin dil me reh jati hain.

Because of this lack of communication - Apurva fails to let go of her insecurities. Fir wapas wapas wahi sab wahi sab.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Like we were discussing in the last track - Shashank's trust issues are pretty understandable because Apurva has put him through the situations time and again where she chose to either hide the truth or lie.

Mazak mein bhi agar bol rahe ho - to bhi - to bhi jhooth to jhooth hota hai. Tumko kya pata agle insaan ki memory ye store karegi ki mazak me jhooth bola tha ya sirf jhooth bola tha.

Ek baar bhi jhooth bol lo na - to bhi agle insaan ke mann mein kahi na kahi humesha rahega - that this person is capable of lying.

Uss situation me wo blind ya unshakeable trust rakhna is real tough.

Yes exactly...there's little white lies like when you are planning a surprise party or something that are justifiable...but only if the lies are completely silly like mixing honey in the drink or the bhoot drama not I'm going to see my boyfriend. Appu has lied to him so many times about serious things...whether it's the I Love you, or her being sick, or the whole drunken time, or the studying drama later on.

But the thing is he should have trusted her when she swore on her dad...and he might have slowly once his brain started to work except she proved herself wrong with the study drama later on. Now he is trusting her again at her word about Avantika with the promise he asked, and she is going behind his back again. At this rate, he is going to end up with major trust issues with Appu, and it won't even be his fault!

Same with him too though. His little white lie that he has a girlfriend kept getting stretched and he hasn't corrected her properly even once. And of course HC's comments don't help. And him stopping Appu from saying anything and not yelling at HC also most definitely doesn't help. Not to mention the whole 2 weeks that we do not like to talk about. So Appu now has a reason to doubt him too whenever Netra's topic comes up!

Haha we have some telepathy going on Harshada! I was typing the same thing as you posted this! 😆