THIS FORUM IS MAHA DEPRESSING - Page 2

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

Aww dear,I understand and agree with you completely.

There were many episodes which I used to skip after seeing the negative updates on this forum.

But when I used to go back and watch,I did not used to dislike them that much.

And honestly,mein scenes ko zyaada scrutinize nahi karti hu😲but forums mein aake Pata chala ki log haar ek scene haar ek moment ko kitni depth se analyze karte hain,which at times gives way to beautiful interpretations and sometimes leads to too much of overthinking and negativity.

But ab jaise real life mein people will be having differing opinions over everything,yahape bhi kuch log will have a lot of opinions which we might find too toxic and negative.

Ishilye,mein toh ab kuch hi logo ke posts dekhti hu, jo agar critize kar bhi re ho toh constructive way mein kar rahe ho...and baaki threads pe I don't go then.

Your last paragraph is interesting. With people from so many different life experiences here, opinions and views are bound to be varied. What then defines ‘constructive criticism’ will always be subjective.

Originally posted by: Kitty584

I can understand what you mean to say... I am too sensitive about stuff I love...maan ke liye bhi.. toh kabhi kabhi if the discussions here or on twitter make me feel sad toh I just stay away.. we cannot stop anyone from expressing their opinions na.. everyone has a right to do that.. if you feel ki the discussion is something you'd like to be a part of...jump in.. if not stay away for that day🤗

It's a show which we watch for entertainment purposes, and we come here to enjoy too.. but if we feel ki it's having a negative impact on your mental health toh don't read those posts.. ❤

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

i agree. not sure if you used “depressing” as a throw-around word, but if you are feeling depressed, please reach out family, friends or your doctor. your post is emotionally charged like most of the comments in here...but just in case you are struggling, you dont have to. take care yourself girl. 💕

Ali.... girl.. imma impressed ❤❤. 🤗

Different strokes for different people.. kindly understand this and enjoy whatever makes you happy.. no point in wasting time on "depressing" posts na?? Nahi pasand.. matt padho.. simple 🤘🏻❤

😆Don't worry,you aren't one of them.

I am not really calling anyone showcasing their opinions as toxic or negative...I respect that,many a times I also criticize the makers or show or anu' character.

However,there are certain ways of putting forth one's opinions, and certain threads do have comments which stoop pretty low even if it's just for a fictional character or writers and all,that was what I was talking about.

For example, I don't remember who it was but someone in this forum had only put in a thread that blood kids are only own kid,adopted kids can never be own kids and blah blah...or there have been a lot of comments which have weight shamed rupali...

I am talking about such things.

Having different opinions is not the issue here,that's fine, but there is a certain way to put it across i believe. Just my observation, did not mean to say that you all are toxic or negative in any manner.

My apologies if you felt it so.

PS: Please check what I had written earlier again,no where have I mentioned the term depressed.

In my honest opinion I find this forum more fun and happy than the show itself.

Discussion? Yahan discussion kahan hota hai yahan to mostly thread mein bus chatting hoti hai

Discussion hota hai tub bhi koi baat hoti but mostly thread mein bus chatting hoti hai serial ka discussion nahi hota that is why I get depressed

20 20 page most of thread cross karenge but usme siway chatting ke khuch hota nahi

और जो topic bante hai woh mostly repetive hote hai

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

I am not really calling anyone showcasing their opinions as toxic or negative...I respect that,many a times I also criticize the makers or show or anu' character.

However,there are certain ways of putting forth one's opinions, and certain threads do have comments which stoop pretty low even if it's just for a fictional character or writers and all,that was what I was talking about.

For example, I don't remember who it was but someone in this forum had only put in a thread that blood kids are only own kid,adopted kids can never be own kids and blah blah...or there have been a lot of comments which have weight shamed rupali...

I am talking about such things.

Having different opinions is not the issue here,that's fine, but there is a certain way to put it across i believe. Just my observation, did not mean to say that you all are toxic or negative in any manner.

My apologies if you felt it so.

PS: Please check what I had written earlier again,no where have I mentioned the term depressed.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Discussion? Yahan discussion kahan hota hai yahan to mostly thread mein bus chatting hoti hai

Discussion hota hai tub bhi koi baat hoti but mostly thread mein bus chatting hoti hai serial ka discussion nahi hota that is why I get depressed

20 20 page most of thread cross karenge but usme siway chatting ke khuch hota nahi

और जो topic bante hai woh mostly repetive hote hai