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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

am so glad the above poster for TRP does not have sufiyan in it. gah, the guy is really starting to irritate me with "love" -- enough to make you think that love is stupid thing. 🙄

This drama promots arranged marriages, for this love has to look stupid. 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Araya

Ushna is frustrating to watch right now, and I can't with her getting emotionally blackmailed by those toxic relatives. Hopefully this current track of making her wishy washy and blindly listening to those plotting against her will end soon. Sufiyan may seem like a ~nice guy, but he is a horrible match. Zainab was right that his family is greedy, but Sufiyan himself is also problematic. He's very selfish, and he only thinks of himself, him fighting against his parents for Ushna and the whole thing where he moves out without once considering the awkward situation that he put Ushna and Zainab in. He sees how his family treats Zainab and Ushna yet he has the audacity to claim that Zainab values money and status over blood relations. He legit forgot how his whole family treated Zainab over money that were her legal rights. Everything is all about his love, he never stops to think how Ushna will be treated when he goes proclaiming his love for her to anyone and everyone. Aahhh, the weekend will be tough to bear lol, hope it doesn't end on a cliffhanger that will drive me mad.


He is acting like people can survive just on love. Zainab and Ushna were treated worst than servants because of same money. There is nothing wrong if Zainab wants to financially secure Ushna's future. As a mother she would never want her daughter to end up like her as a second wife of an old man just to find shelter.


What is wrong? When you start worshipping money like God and refuse to give legitimate share to your siblings.


Sufiyan is a hopeless case. He knows his parents have stopped to the level of blackmailing. Still he is asking them to bring his favourite toy Ushna, it means indirectly asking them to go on with their blackmailing plans.


He doesn't need a wife, he needs a psychiatrist as he is suicidal. Ushna is running behind that expression less face to get herself into same position where she used to be before Zainab's marriage. She knows he is selfish and he won't even react when it's not about himself. When she and her mother used to get treatment like a servents, he used to just stand in a corner with his frozen face. It's her choice not to get married with Shehroz, but considering Sufiyan as an option is like insulting her own mother.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

same, please no cliffhanger! or atleast if there is one, let it be a good happy one.

sufiyan is obsessed over his 'love' but his love has no value. the guy is not working even though he is supposed to be in his dad's business. so for all his talk about keeping ushna separate from his house is just talk -- there is no way he will ever do that. plus, he is only annoyed with his family when they are not doing things to get him favour. he just brushes over whatever happened to zainab and ushna when they were at home as okay types. 🙄


Yes!!! His love is useless, and none of his actions show that he is capable of coming through with those grand promises that he makes. He is just so annoyingly obtuse and self-centered. Zainab has already given a firm no to the proposal, Ushna will never go for a court marriage, so what else can his parents do for him? Him threatening to break ties with them and self-harm is just immature. His dad was right, what mother would agree to his proposal.

And he's ridiculous for insisting that he and his family will always come before Sheroze's family for Zainab and Ushna just because they have blood ties. He keeps minimizing what his family had done to Zainab and Ushna. He needs to stop deluding himself, it's pathetic to watch him ask Ushna to fight for their love, and how confident he was that Zainab would agree to his proposal when she had refused so many times already. Talking to him is like talking to a brick wall, he never listens to what you say unless it's what he wants to hear.

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Posted: 3 years ago

I completely get everyone getting frustrated with Ushna. I am as well. But we have to remember, WE know sheroz is the hero. She doesn't. To her, he is a rude, arrogant, foul mouthed and moody guy who didn't even hesitate throwing her out of the house. Having never seen him behave decently, she doesn't love him. She doesn't even like him. Yet, she is forced by her mother to marry him. Just because we as viewers love a good hate to love story, can you imagine actually happily marrying a guy like Shehroz in real life? I for one, would have run in the opposite direction. We love to romanticize bad boys but very few actually turn over a new leaf in reality.


So is it any surprise that she still has a soft corner for sufiyan. Despite all his flaws, he is gently, caring and soft with her. Like her father. That's the ideal she grew up with. The complete opposite of Shehroz. Even now, despite hating Shehroz, she is agreeing to the marriage only for her mother. Things will improve, but it will take time. In the mean time, she is bound to weaken a little as her confusion and despair are pulling her in two different directions. Whether to follow what her heart say and go with Sufiyan or jump into a lifelong commitment with Shehroz only because of love and respect to her mother.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake


He is acting like people can survive just on love. Zainab and Ushna were treated worst than servants because of same money. There is nothing wrong if Zainab wants to financially secure Ushna's future. As a mother she would never want her daughter to end up like her as a second wife of an old man just to find shelter.


What is wrong? When you start worshipping money like God and refuse to give legitimate share to your siblings.


Sufiyan is a hopeless case. He knows his parents have stopped to the level of blackmailing. Still he is asking them to bring his favourite toy Ushna, it means indirectly asking them to go on with their blackmailing plans.


He doesn't need a wife, he needs a psychiatrist as he is suicidal. Ushna is running behind that expression less face to get herself into same position where she used to be before Zainab's marriage. She knows he is selfish and he won't even react when it's not about himself. When she and her mother used to get treatment like a servents, he used to just stand in a corner with his frozen face. It's her choice not to get married with Shehroz, but considering Sufiyan as an option is like insulting her own mother.

That's right, nothing is wrong with Zainab for wanting her daughter to have a better life and have status to be respected in society. And she's not doing anything shady either in order to achieve it, although Sufiyan was acting like she was selling off her daughter for money. The real shady people are the ones that Sufiyan lives with under the same roof, he had a lot of nerve to accuse Zainab of anything, especially when he knows how she and Ushna were treated because of money.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Araya

That's right, nothing is wrong with Zainab for wanting her daughter to have a better life and have status to be respected in society. And she's not doing anything shady either in order to achieve it, although Sufiyan was acting like she was selling off her daughter for money. The real shady people are the ones that Sufiyan lives with under the same roof, he had a lot of nerve to accuse Zainab of anything, especially when he knows how she and Ushna were treated because of money.

No offense but God knows how an actor like Humayun have bro like this guy sufiyan no acting no personality

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Hayat97

I completely get everyone getting frustrated with Ushna. I am as well. But we have to remember, WE know sheroz is the hero. She doesn't. To her, he is a rude, arrogant, foul mouthed and moody guy who didn't even hesitate throwing her out of the house. Having never seen him behave decently, she doesn't love him. She doesn't even like him. Yet, she is forced by her mother to marry him. Just because we as viewers love a good hate to love story, can you imagine actually happily marrying a guy like Shehroz in real life? I for one, would have run in the opposite direction. We love to romanticize bad boys but very few actually turn over a new leaf in reality.


So is it any surprise that she still has a soft corner for sufiyan. Despite all his flaws, he is gently, caring and soft with her. Like her father. That's the ideal she grew up with. The complete opposite of Shehroz. Even now, despite hating Shehroz, she is agreeing to the marriage only for her mother. Things will improve, but it will take time. In the mean time, she is bound to weaken a little as her confusion and despair are pulling her in two different directions. Whether to follow what her heart say and go with Sufiyan or jump into a lifelong commitment with Shehroz only because of love and respect to her mother.

It's not about not getting married with Shehroz. Those arrogant rich men without any manners look good only on television screen, anyone would run in opposite direction. It's about considering Sufiyan as an option for marriage when she knows he doesn't have a spine to take a firm stand against his family, nor he's financially independent. Zainab has paid a price to get out that dust bin and she's ready to go there all over again. Not only she'll end up in same cage, but once again her mother has to act as their puppet. Not like she isn't aware about it, her mom has clearly explained her that family cannot see anything beyond money, profit and loss.


If she doesn't like Shehroz, she should fight not to get married with him, but she's considering more miserable option - Sufiyan. She should have clearly said no to him like last time, but she is giving him option and encouragement like 'agar aap mama ko mana sakte he to mana le' .... What is she expecting from her mamma? To go through abuse and insult sessions once again ? _

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

bad memories from the last few PK dramas I watched -- the pairings / story did not go the way I expected and it took such bad turns... this sufiyan twist and turn would be okay to watch if it was a different actor. the guy just annoys me further!

Which one you watched earlier?

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Posted: 3 years ago

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Which one you watched earlier?

there was azmaish and another one I can't remember the name of. I tried a bit of humsafar and hated that as well. so yea, some of these typical soaps drive me nuts. I dislike the pairings or the arcs. 🤷

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

It's not about not getting married with Shehroz. Those arrogant rich men without any manners look good only on television screen, anyone would run in opposite direction. It's about considering Sufiyan as an option for marriage when she knows he doesn't have a spine to take a firm stand against his family, nor he's financially independent. Zainab has paid a price to get out that dust bin and she's ready to go there all over again. Not only she'll end up in same cage, but once again her mother has to act as their puppet. Not like she isn't aware about it, her mom has clearly explained her that family cannot see anything beyond money, profit and loss.


If she doesn't like Shehroz, she should fight not to get married with him, but she's considering more miserable option - Sufiyan. She should have clearly said no to him like last time, but she is giving him option and encouragement like 'agar aap mama ko mana sakte he to mana le' .... What is she expecting from her mamma? To go through abuse and insult sessions once again ? _

yea, the fourth option (since option #3 is the other cousin) always existed -- she could have just said NO herself to wahab and naima and put a full stop. in fact, shehroze told her that if she hates it, then she can stop it herself. even zainab said think about it and if you really don't want, that is your choice.

for me what annoys is her temporary amnesia when it comes to these relatives and sufiyan. as zainab pointed out, when they were living in the house, ushna hated it so much that she was getting into arguments and feeling so extremely bitter. she kept insisting they leave but they had no financial resources to do so. did she forget all of that so quickly? so her continuing to have ties to sufiyan when she clearly understands that he needs barely 1% of encouragement to go psycho is a bit annoying to watch. plus it doesn't help that sufiyan is played by an actor who has no expressions that I am forced to look at his face and realize that his beard also doesn't cover the potmarks on his face. 🙄

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