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Posted: 3 years ago
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I know i may sound rude here and i am no one to judge people's personal choices. So I am sorry if I unintentionally hurt anyone's feelings.

Its my personal opinion that, i dont understand the length people go to have their own baby as in as their own flesh amd blood. If its not possible normally then whats the need to go out of way for surrogacy which have lots of legal complications or ivf involving tons of health issues, when there is a simple short sweet way of adoption available. This way you get a child, child gets a good home. Afterall, maternal feelings are in heart/mind not in blood.

So this whole maan baby via surrogacy or ivf...i am totally out of it. I will stop watching the moment they even indicate towards it.

Besides this, anupama has already given her whole life in bringing up her children...give the woman some rest.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Exactly!

Give the woman some rest.

Shaadi karlo,phir baccha karlo,baas yahi rehgaya hain life mein.

I am neither against Ivf,surrogacy or even adoption,to each his own....but I am so not looking forward for MaAn baby, had Anu or Anuj had no kids at all,I would have still been okay with them having a kid.

But three kids are more than enough.

And if Anuj had really wanted a kid,he could have married and adopted one way back, or would have been a single father....now there is no point of such kind of tracks.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think we are not thinking from anuj point of view


anupama kids are never anujs they are laways vanraj and shah house


tommorow if anuj dies early where should anupam age old age home or what?


if those three kids had not abondoned anupama after divorce alone i would not be so bothered


i do not want after anuj death anupama become orphan like after divorce alone


imagine if anuj and mukku not there what would be anus fate after divorce she would be cooking or teaching dance in some school for work and live alone all life. Dance academy and shah house would be sold by bank by now bec of all loans taken by shahs


you know how worst indian old age homes are central jails are better than most


now we come to anuj also has no one other than GK


Mukku will marry and go to hubby house or always roaming


anu has shah house mayka and her 3 kids baa bapuji kinjal dolly


anuj has no one whom he can call his own


now do not say anupama is his no shes not at all his, he is her last priority in life always


anuj also needs someone who can only be his thats his child who supports in pain sickness old age when he has no money etc and stands up for hi rights and respect when shahs humilate him etc


tommorow GK dies anuj is all alone again


anupama is only 30% married to him shes 70% with her kids her grand kids and ba bapuji etc (rather 90%)


and anupama kids can never be anujs own kids are own step kids are step ok


i have seen mother step mother bringing up dead others kid like own child not having own kids and son throwing her on roads etc


own kids only do not care nowadays where step will?


only anuj has none no safety net if GK dies ok


no one who he can say 1005 his own


anu has three kids


mukku will marry have kids


anuj is alone with wife not bothering about him at all hes her option not premium


so atleast a kid will be his and think of his well being and respect etc and fight for him care for him unlike a anupama or mukku


all this love shove in love marraiges goes off after ay year or two than reality comes


before that i want anuj to have someone his own in life thats his child


every human wish own child man or woman


own child is own adopted is adopted like mukku showed us by snatching kapadia and sons or anuj too showed by leaving mukku with that dangerous vanraj


same way for anupama no.1 priority her 3 kids their spouses her grand kids than baa bapuji than vanraj bacchon ka pita only than a anuj kapadia

Edited by myviewprem - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: shubhK2308

Exactly!

Give the woman some rest.

Shaadi karlo,phir baccha karlo,baas yahi rehgaya hain life mein.

I am neither against Ivf,surrogacy or even adoption,to each his own....but I am so not looking forward for MaAn baby, had Anu or Anuj had no kids at all,I would have still been okay with them having a kid.

But three kids are more than enough.

And if Anuj had really wanted a kid,he could have married and adopted one way back, or would have been a single father....now there is no point of such kind of tracks.


she did that for vanraj and shahs not for anuj and kapadias


this is diff relation


than why actress who marry late like others have kids late age with hubby


their hubby have kids from first wife no they can think its own kid


own kid is own kid always


step kid is not own


all this do not happen in real life and reality

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Wow.....own kid is only own kid.

You lost me there now.

It is highly an insensitive comment,so I don't wish to say anything further on this.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Firstly having more kids doesn't guarantee you old age support.

I have seen many real life instances where a couple can be having 7 kids,but none take care of them,similarly,a couple might just have one kid who will take care of their parents.

And how are you so sure that Anuj will die before Anupama?

And as for money,there is something called as savings,which people use to fulfill their needs after retirement.

And the kids did not abandon Anu, she herself choose to stay alone. I guess you have forgotten,when Anu was leaving the Shah house permanently,Samar choose to accompany her,but she refused and told him to go back to take care of the Shah house.

And you are telling to think from Anuj's point of view?

How do you know Anuj does want his own kids?

Now don't tell me that everyone wants to have kids,because that does not hold true for everyone.


Plus this kids taking care of their parents in old age is only an Indian concept,people in foreign don't take care of themselves. Actually,what in foreign only,nowadays most of the couples also prefer to stay away from their parents in metro cities in nuclear families.


And what about those people whose kid abandon them or whose kids might have passed away at an early age,don't they take care of themselves? My grandmother still stays alone and manages everything on her own,with my grandfather's pension, not because her kids have a problem with her staying with them,but because she loves her independence and prefers the solitude.


Most importantly,if Anuj had really desired for a child,he would have adopted one long back,or would have married some nice girl to have a family with,he chose not to do so.

That means he did not care weather he has kids or doesn't have since he had never hoped that he would have definitely married Anu one day.


And the life of a celebrity is very different from normal people.

Most of the celebrities have all the care and facilities to take care of their kids aaram se....unfortunately normal people don't.

People like us have to struggle a lot to balance our work,family and children.


Anyway,you might love to watch such tracks,I don't,so till the time I am enjoying watching the show,I will,when it stops being of my taste,I will stop.

Anyway,it's not like the makers will make their storyline based on us.


And as for Mukku snatching Anuj's empire...it wasn't Mukku, she never once told that the empire belongs to me because you are an adopted child.

Anuj,himself was living under guilt and he gave up his everything.

GK is not Anuj's real father,but both of them care for each other like real son and father...whereas Vanraj and Samar are related by blood,but both of them don't have any good rapport.


And as for love fading away in a year or so,it's highly untrue,that means those two people were never really in love,but it was more of infatuation. Romance can fade away with time, as people get busy with their respective lives,but love just evolves and matures with time.


And seeing Anuj and Anupama's relationship,I doubt their life will be deviod of any loneliness or love.

Which handsome and rich man loves a simple and ordinary woman unconditionally for 26 years?😆

This kind of a relationship is rear,very rear....


I believe real connections are made by heart,not by blood be it in reel or real life.

Edited by shubhK2308 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#17

They will follow badhai ho track ..society taunts for anupama,her kids feeling ashamed and all..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Who will look after child in home then

Anupama wil go to dance academy hotel. Office and anuj will also go to office then who will look after child

Hey dear ..

Sorry to burst the bubble but most of the working mothers have babies and also take good care of them.. there are maternity leave in the initial phase and later on with support of family, external support (if required) , working mothers also take good care of kids...

Definitely it is little difficult to manage home, kids n office but i m talking from my personal experience that working mothers also give their heart and soul for upbringing of their child...

So don't think that if she is working, who will take care of child...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yup I know that when mother go to work then family look after child

But I am talking about looking situation of anupama and anuj

When anuj and anupama will go to work then at home only gk will at home

And it is not possible for gk to look after child because of age

And also nobody want Shah around kapdaia

Pakhi will go to school samar and toshu also will be out of work they are also not able to look after child

That is why I ask who will look after child

Now days proffesinal one are not trustable

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yup I know that when mother go to work then family look after child

But I am talking about looking situation of anupama and anuj

When anuj and anupama will go to work then at home only gk will at home

And it is not possible for gk to look after child because of age

And also nobody want Shah around kapdaia

Pakhi will go to school samar and toshu also will be out of work they are also not able to look after child

That is why I ask who will look after child

Now days proffesinal one are not trustable


Choti anupama kinjal hai na 😳


Choti anupama kinjal can look after badi Anupama and anuj’s baby⭐️


Anupama is only working woman in this show and all

the other highly educated wives are jobless so anupama kaam par jayegi and anupama ki bahu who is known as choti anupama woh anupama ke baby ka ghar par dhyan rakhegi ! Nayi soch ⭐️

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