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Hiya🤗 I spent some time searching for the new thread and then realised it's not there.😆

The forum seemed to be split, many disappointed in Abhi and others calling Akshu so many things..!

Lol, to me they acted exactly as predicted. The drama will continue as long as Akshu baby remains mute...it seems she is faced with a multiple choice...Abhi or Arohi and it is a brain puzzler!🤣

What really annoys me, as a viewer, is now we are expected to sit back and enjoy the marriage functions!

Nope, gonna be truthful I have not enjoyed any of Abhira rituals because I know this was looming immediately as his questioning of her in the hospital car park, her bizarre behaviour on shiv ratri and then we had the worst subplot in history - hit and run - and our heroine suddenly developing amnesia. That, I think, was the final straw.

Tell me, are you all enjoying this inane behaviour of both families?...one bringing police to arrest the future Mrs Abhimanyu Birla...the other family despite all this still want to go ahead....everytime there is a ritual, there is a problem...a family that believes in all this is still not thinking 'hey, someone is sending messages'...that is a lot of stretching of my imagination, even for me as I depend on it to make my living!😆

I really want to ask this and sorry to barge in the convo but where is the character development of Akshara?

And I am not talking about her not telling Goenkas but did not she, during Mandir also took her time before she confessed to Abhi in front of all?

Like, we understood the dilemma there.

But here, she still needs time to think between Abhi and Aarohi? And also needs push from her G fam?

Was not the mandir better than? Atleast no one pushed her to choose. It was within but here, one needs to make her understand? And not even out of gratefulness she chose Abhimanyu? A man who went against his morals and let go of her and her sister? Nd name it in love *hear my anger with it*

Character development na sahi, downward spiral zarur ho gaya 🌝

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Hiya🤗 I spent some time searching for the new thread and then realised it's not there.😆

The forum seemed to be split, many disappointed in Abhi and others calling Akshu so many things..!

Lol, to me they acted exactly as predicted. The drama will continue as long as Akshu baby remains mute...it seems she is faced with a multiple choice...Abhi or Arohi and it is a brain puzzler!🤣

What really annoys me, as a viewer, is now we are expected to sit back and enjoy the marriage functions!

Nope, gonna be truthful I have not enjoyed any of Abhira rituals because I know this was looming immediately as his questioning of her in the hospital car park, her bizarre behaviour on shiv ratri and then we had the worst subplot in history - hit and run - and our heroine suddenly developing amnesia. That, I think, was the final straw.

Tell me, are you all enjoying this inane behaviour of both families?...one bringing police to arrest the future Mrs Abhimanyu Birla...the other family despite all this still want to go ahead....everytime there is a ritual, there is a problem...a family that believes in all this is still not thinking 'hey, someone is sending messages'...that is a lot of stretching of my imagination, even for me as I depend on it to make my living!😆

How true is that. Exact reason why I lost interest in the plot and marriage functions doesn't excite me anymore.

That multiple choice Drama will continue even after marriage . That is what this season is based on. I am ok with it as long as you show character development.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

I really want to ask this and sorry to barge in the convo but where is the character development of Akshara?

And I am not talking about her not telling Goenkas but did not she, during Mandir also took her time before she confessed to Abhi in front of all?

Like, we understood the dilemma there.

But here, she still needs time to think between Abhi and Aarohi? And also needs push from her G fam?

Was not the mandir better than? Atleast no one pushed her to choose. It was within but here, one needs to make her understand? And not even out of gratefulness she chose Abhimanyu? A man who went against his morals and let go of her and her sister? Nd name it in love *hear my anger with it*

Character development na sahi, downward spiral zarur ho gaya 🌝

Would you like me to answer about character development/growth?😊

This usually happens through the decisions a character makes when faced with problems or issues during the story.

For Akshara, her main growth will be in her interpersonal relationship with Arohi and Abhi.

Yes she still needs time to think. She cannot give up a lifetime of thinking/love/conditional behaviour overnight. Trust me when I say no one will find this believable.

We have seen her take baby steps - once she would not even consider speaking against Arohi, more content to step back and let Arohi take over. - This is her development at the start of the story.

Then we saw Abhi enter her life, he stirred it and made her yearn and dream.....all the problems they faced led her to take that monumental step and declare her love in front of all. This is her first real growth. She has taken her first step against Arohi.

Despite Arohi making her promise not to tell about the accident, Akshu did it anyway - a massive and important growth.

During the policegate at mehendi - she needed that push, she thrives on external validation and so for her family to tell her it is ok to let go of Arohi, she is given the first glimmer that maybe she is not wrong...another important step in terms of her realisation her growth.

Now we will see more growth, but it will be organic (as much as it can be in ITV shows) so just bear with her. She will be faced with situations where Arohi and Abhi will be pitted against one another and Akshu will have to decide/make a choice. We will see her slowly choosing Abhi. The process will be painful for Akshu but eventually a good one as it will establish a more healthy relationship with her sister and Abhi.

Loved the question and the response 🤗

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Would you like me to answer about character development/growth?😊

This usually happens through the decisions a character makes when faced with problems or issues during the story.

For Akshara, her main growth will be in her interpersonal relationship with Arohi and Abhi.

Yes she still needs time to think. She cannot give up a lifetime of thinking/love/conditional behaviour overnight. Trust me when I say no one will find this believable.

We have seen her take baby steps - once she would not even consider speaking against Arohi, more content to step back and let Arohi take over. - This is her development at the start of the story.

Then we saw Abhi enter her life, he stirred it and made her yearn and dream.....all the problems they faced led her to take that monumental step and declare her love in front of all. This is her first real growth. She has taken her first step against Arohi.

Despite Arohi making her promise not to tell about the accident, Akshu did it anyway - a massive and important growth.

During the policegate at mehendi - she needed that push, she thrives on external validation and so for her family to tell her it is ok to let go of Arohi, she is given the first glimmer that maybe she is not wrong...another important step in terms of her realisation her growth.

Now we will see more growth, but it will be organic (as much as it can be in ITV shows) so just bear with her. She will be faced with situations where Arohi and Abhi will be pitted against one another and Akshu will have to decide/make a choice. We will see her slowly choosing Abhi. The process will be painful for Akshu but eventually a good one as it will establish a more healthy relationship with her sister and Abhi.

Today's episode ok for me.

(May be you can say really good. But I'm katti with AK so stop with ok)

Abhi again voiced our feelings to neil. Everything the cvs right now is the copy paste of fd wishes and thinking. Ak chose Abhi but ya like Abhi I'm not satisfied she took too long to make decision.

Gorillas patch. 3 Naagins even changed their dress dnt know how? May be spare dress was in car.

AR kabhi nahi sudhregi. Till now I didn't felt hate for her but today she took the baby step to become a villian.

Ak admitted she is snail today happy for that.

Last part didn't quite clicked me. Waiting for expert analysis.

Abhi I'm falling for you again and again 😘😍

For me episode looks like parallel mix of tilak 1+ mehendi

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Hiya🤗 I spent some time searching for the new thread and then realised it's not there.😆

The forum seemed to be split, many disappointed in Abhi and others calling Akshu so many things..!

Lol, to me they acted exactly as predicted. The drama will continue as long as Akshu baby remains mute...it seems she is faced with a multiple choice...Abhi or Arohi and it is a brain puzzler!🤣

What really annoys me, as a viewer, is now we are expected to sit back and enjoy the marriage functions!

Nope, gonna be truthful I have not enjoyed any of Abhira rituals because I know this was looming immediately as his questioning of her in the hospital car park, her bizarre behaviour on shiv ratri and then we had the worst subplot in history - hit and run - and our heroine suddenly developing amnesia. That, I think, was the final straw.

Tell me, are you all enjoying this inane behaviour of both families?...one bringing police to arrest the future Mrs Abhimanyu Birla...the other family despite all this still want to go ahead....everytime there is a ritual, there is a problem...a family that believes in all this is still not thinking 'hey, someone is sending messages'...that is a lot of stretching of my imagination, even for me as I depend on it to make my living!😆

shadi vibes i will describe..

Goenkas want to get rid of one grand daughter. If she is left at madap both girls are like dhobi ka kutta na ghar ka na ghat ka. So they got their slaps and took immediate covering. Who knows when they all get mukti and call from hell.

Birlas have no interest in Goenkas girls and and marriage. They are lying like beggars infront of GV in a car royally waiting for ak bheek on abhi. 😂. Today's situation outside the world that girls are in demand than boys.

Abhi wants only ak. Nothing matters to him road or tent.

Neil parth need to support brother as he is left alone.

Ak has jam and bread on her brain thinking how to apply both and eat.

Ar wants ak to be like her at home chosing her.

These girls are nit grown mentally anytime. That's major reason for their khaands and handling things.

PS...Abhis sufferings are more more next with this shadi.

I have no thrill from inside. I enjoyed kaira vivah happily though the truth and gadbads were there. Here it's disaster. Seeing them together i am scared what next khaand karke. Ar had taken all abhira moments easily.

I was so disappointed with Akshara she took blame... Glad that Abhi realised it on time and that condition was totally reasonable. Aarohi is guilty coz she is scared that her career is at stake otherwise she didn't even bother to apologize to Manjiri personally.

Nice post Hari ❤

Thanks for tagging

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

Today's episode ok for me.

(May be you can say really good. But I'm katti with AK so stop with ok)

Abhi again voiced our feelings to neil. Everything the cvs right now is the copy paste of fd wishes and thinking. Ak chose Abhi but ya like Abhi I'm not satisfied she took too long to make decision.

Gorillas patch. 3 Naagins even changed their dress dnt know how? May be spare dress was in car.

AR kabhi nahi sudhregi. Till now I didn't felt hate for her but today she took the baby step to become a villian.

Ak admitted she is snail today happy for that.

Last part didn't quite clicked me. Waiting for expert analysis.

Abhi I'm falling for you again and again 😘😍

For me episode looks like parallel mix of tilak 1+ mehendi

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Abhi is the rajadhani express and ak is the push pull passenger train with slow speed. So the problem is always there. Though she chose Abhi it's a push again to make her open eyes what if she loses him. I loved how she told ar first and went to abhi. She has not run immediately. She took her time come to a point it's like cow grazing grazing and doing slowly. She needs that as her brain is that size. I liked how ak told ar that she has to rectify her mistakes and show respect to his love. She chose Abhi against ar in marriage and familys humilation. Her love is strong for him but covered by her responsibility at home kept by sirat. For a girl like ak, Abhis love should be strong and pulling her out . That's why we love abhi. Orekse ar will make ak marry a cleaner or driver saying he is best for you. And enjoy Goenkas riches. This is all war against evil vs good fighting the demons in them.

Na baba na. Whenever she told this next time she does some kaand and disappoints Abhi. He is really disturbed don't push him more🙏