Abhimanyu has great expectations from this marriage

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Till now, what we all have seen is an intense lover. The way he is already asking akshu to keep him above her family n fam, am sure a lot of issues crop up post marriage.

The date night dialogues that- we wont get bored of each other. His parents failed marriage has made him insecure and he anyhow wants be successful in his relationship with akshara. We know he is a guy damn successful in professional front, so he would want it all perfect in personal front too. He would expect akshara to prioritize him all the time. He may get upset when akshara wants to visit goenkas. We know how attached akshara is with her family...do u think she wont miss them on festivals n all especially and may keep visiting them frequently which may make abhimanyu irritated...

and her aaru jaap is not going to stop definitely

he definitely wants akshu to keep him #1.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I don't think Abhimanyu will have problem if Akshara goes to her home to celebrate festivals. In fact he himself would like to join her in celebrating those festivals because he enjoys Goenkas ke ghar ke celebrations. Problem may arise when suppose Abhira had planned something and Akshara had to cancel those plans in the last minute for one of her family members. That's when he may feel insecure and think she's still prioritizing her family over me. Abhimanyu's insecurities are not wrong but he needs to express his feelings in a calm and composed way. That day he expressed his insecurities about Aarohi and his deep hatred for her in anger because the situation was like that but after marriage if he feels insecure again he needs to talk with Akshara calmly.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Akshu’s happiness is above all else for him. Right now he is banning Aarohi from the wedding, that too, not only because he is insecure, but because he wants to take Akshu out of this toxic relationship. But I can guarantee that he will see Akshu sad after agreeing and bring her to the wedding himself in one way or another. He would never think of keeping Akshu away from her family, as he knows the value they hold. His fears arise from the possibility that she will always prioritize them over him. Which is actually not the case at all nor what she does. His insecurities result more from him own traumas from childhood, which akshu’s initial rejection deepened. It takes time to feel secure in any relationship. Both of them need to learn the importance of balance and communication, which will come with time.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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You both explained it beautifully!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Ultimately he will realise that he isn't marrying a voice but a real person with day and night differences.

When it dawns then reality bites.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Akshara still having Aru fever and it's a big indication that after marriage seperation track will start only because of Akshara. Abhi is not insecure here unnecessarily. The way Akshara is behaving and in future again have to choose between family and Abhi without any doubt she will sacrifice Abhi. Today's episode showed that to choose Abhi, Manish was convencing her. I'm disappointed with this season Akshara. Why the hell makers are disgracing her charecter god knows.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Sometimes the people who scream and shout often give up, relent and adjust. However the quite ones are more stubborn.

The dynamics between Abhira are similar.

Let me give an example my maid's daughter in law worships her sister. Every one including the husband has given up. The kids also talk about if it is plain obsession, love or something else.

The family members have made a pact, Monday to Friday be with your family and the weekend go to your sister's place.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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this sounds so much like Naitik and Ak senior.

Akshara Sr. was constantly being pulled between husband n family. infact he did not like her to be so involved even in his house. Once he came home he wanted Akshara infront of him. I enjoyed that phase so much.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Abhi is already obsessed and too possessive of Akshu even before they have wed. After wedding this claim of his on her time will only increase. Akshu being Akshu will try and balance but she can only do so much.

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