Abhimanyu is disappointing!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: Susi26

Ok.. since this thread is about Abhimanyu, all his supporters are bashing me now and even questioning about my neutral status..

First thing I don’t want to be in Abhimanyu’s place, Because I’m not a someone who goes to marry the sister of the person whom I love, I’d rather stay single all my life and wait for that one person to realise my love or if my mom insists or blackmails to get married and the person whom I’m waiting for will never realise then I marry someone else other than these two sisters.

I don’t want to be in Akshara’s place either who is stuck between sister and lover, I guess no one including me wants to be in Aarohi’s place.

Ps: being neutral is what makes me to see Abhimanyu’s mistakes too which I’m pointing it out. This doesn’t mean that Abhimanyu is completely wrong. I liked him in initial episodes.. but I couldn’t connect to Abhimanyu’s character during Abrohi track and later also when he is being too mean to her I don’t like Akshara taking blame for Aarohi all the time and I don’t like Aarohi for all she is been.. Everyone is imperfect., only through life’s experiences one tries to learn. And I read above that the male lead character growth will happen only after marriage.. so I’m hoping to see It post wedding.

When you make a public post on public forum people will reply. If you didn't want counter replies should have mentioned you are not looking for a discussion, just "yes I so agree with you" replies. Keep pointing out everyone's mistake and when others reply have a constructive discussion.

Okay, so you liked him initially now you dont like him?

Hello, Realization!

You are not neutral.

You pretend someone bashed you.

Dont ya do all the emotional blackmailing now like someone me knows only fictionally.

Disappointing.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Okay, so you liked him initially now you dont like him?

Hello, Realization!

You are not neutral.

You pretend someone bashed you.

Dont ya do all the emotional blackmailing now like someone me knows only fictionally.

Disappointing.

and I’m not doing any emotional blackmailing here, and why would I do it to someone whom I don’t even know.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

who bashed you? Show one abusive comment where members targetted you.

When you make a public post on public forum people will reply. If you didn't want counter replies should have mentioned you are not looking for a discussion, just "yes I so agree with you" replies. Keep pointing out everyone's mistake and when others reply have a constructive discussion.

TM, after watching the episode I guess I am understanding what you're trying to say. You're obviously not trying to support Aarohi but you think Abhimanyu's decision to not allow Aarohi from attending the marriage is wrong. Though I still feel his condition was not wrong but the way they showed it looked wrong. When he came to know Akshara lied to the police that she was driving the car he put this condition not to punish Aarohi but punish Akshara herself so that she stops making herself a scapegoat to protect Aarohi but then he has to make her realize this. She didn't understand he put this condition for her to stop making herself a scapegoat. Instead she thought he is asking her to choose between him and Aarohi. He gave long lectures to the Goenka family. Ek do long lectures Akshara bhi deserve karti thi for putting the blame on herself. Until she keeps putting blame on herself for Aarohi’s mistakes Aarohi kabhi nahi sudregi. Akshara indirectly encourages Aarohi to make more mistakes by putting the blame on herself whenever it's punishment time for Aarohi. Abhimanyu has to make her realize Aarohi is an irresponsible spoilt brat not just due to Goenkas but also due to Akshara herself and then should have put the condition. The episode started well but didn't end the way it should have.

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

TM, after watching the episode I guess I am understanding what you're trying to say. You're obviously not trying to support Aarohi but you think Abhimanyu's decision to not allow Aarohi from attending the marriage is wrong. Though I still feel his condition was not wrong but the way they showed it looked wrong. When he came to know Akshara lied to the police that she was driving the car he put this condition not to punish Aarohi but punish Akshara herself so that she stops making herself a scapegoat to protect Aarohi but then he has to make her realize this. She didn't understand he put this condition for her to stop making herself a scapegoat. Instead she thought he is asking her to choose between him and Aarohi. He gave long lectures to the Goenka family. Ek do long lectures Akshara bhi deserve karti thi for putting the blame on herself. Until she keeps putting blame on herself for Aarohi’s mistakes Aarohi kabhi nahi sudregi. Akshara indirectly encourages Aarohi to make more mistakes by putting the blame on herself whenever it's punishment time for Aarohi. Abhimanyu has to make her realize Aarohi is an irresponsible spoilt brat not just due to Goenkas but also due to Akshara herself and then should have put the condition. The episode started well but didn't end the way it should have.

Wohi toh.. if you see from a critic point of view, Akshara or a person who has zero knowledge of the characterizations or even birlas think that he is forcing her to choose either one, only Abhimanyu knows what he is upto.. and I still don’t agree he is cent percent right. It will not resolve the issue, because Akshara will not realise. He is just thinking about present situation to keep her away where as he fails to realise that their precious marriage life will get into trouble because of his hatred towards Aarohi.

Abhi will have to accept aru jaap if he wants akshu.

Akshu will have to accept abhimanyu with all his follies including his obsession, insecurities and temper.

End of the story.

Issue here is , aru problem is too repetitive and now boring. Everytime they have just one twist , aru did a kaand , abhira have a mu bec of her .

People are blind when it comes to their loved ones. Akshu for aru, abhi for manjari. Picking one over other is not possible nor practical nor reasonable. One has to aim for a workable solution . But sorry, forgiving forgetting and moving on is not one of them. Bitter pill is required to make some things right. Not everyone has the courage to speak their minds like abhimanyu.

Abhimanyu is already dealing with harsh and now it's aru .Good thing is , he calls a spade a spade. He doesn't try to cover up or defend his father when he is wrong . Akshu needs to do the same. Her responbility and promise will remain intact. He doesn't want 100% of akshus attention. He doesn't have any problem with goenkas. He is protective towards akshu like he is for manjari. He doesn't want aru to hurt akshu.

Originally posted by: Roman55

We will see about that!!!

Originally posted by: Susi26

I see a little change in Akshara and Aarohi’s characterization.. unlike Sirat’s death, Aarohi did not solely blame Akshara for the accident or cook up stories. She apologised and just stayed mum, and even realising Akshara’s love towards her. Akshara on the other hand trying to balance the relationships.. many are saying she is not giving importance to Abhimanyu, and not loving him back to the same extent. But, what will she do? If he is not understanding her other family ties.??

Now what concerns me is Abhimanyu.. He hasn’t changed even a little. There is no character growth in him. He is still that possessive and obsessive lover trying to control her. He is hurt for Akshara not confessing about the truth which is right, but he is not able to understand and think even a sec from her side. When she said she confessed it in the hospital, what happened to his trust.. why he is not able to think and trust her in that matter. And he is putting a condition for the marriage that Aarohi shouldn’t attend the rituals.

What kind of condition is that? What right he has to commend someone from his in-laws family? I will definitely not marry the person who tries to dictate me or keep me away from my family relationships.

P.S :- I’m a neutral fan, neither anyone’s supporter. Just watching the show for HC.

That someone from his in-laws family almost killed his mother. Not only that, she also hid the accident truth from everyone and even made Akshara keep quiet about revealing the truth.

What if he had lost his mother that day? What if Arohi does this again and blackmails Akshara to lie to hide her crime again? Both sisters actually need to be punished for their crime here. Ideally, he should have filed a case against them for the hit and run. On top of it, not checking the accident site and hiding about the accident from everyone.

He's asking Arohi to keep away now, that too only from the wedding, as he wants Akshara to be away from aroo's bad influence. This is nothing compared to the seriousness and extent of the crime the sisters have committed.

It's true - Abhimanyu should not marry Akshara who can't even differentiate between right and wrong when her aroo is involved.