Akshara was ignored again by goenkas 🙄 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

A part of it is also ek behan zaroorat se zyada insecure hai, woh bhi bachpan se (Aarohi never grew out of her insecurities like Amrita Singh in Aaina), aur dusri strangely secure hai (with all the neglect Akshara was shown, I'd expect her to be insecure about her family's attachment to her but she isn't - when Kairav was about to send her away to Pune on Bhai Dooj, she assured him that she knows he loves her a ton and is doing what he feels is best for both sisters).

I wonder where Akshara's security comes from because she is so habituated to taunts about her profession, lack of desire to be No. 1, panic attacks, etc. As we've seen, Akshara is appreciated by Abhi, Manjari, and slightly favoured by Manish. By the first two names just came, so is her security rooted in Sirat? Because Sirat respected Akshu more and that's what gave root to Aarohi's insecurities. For example, despite Aarohi's taunts, Akshu has shown to be so secure about her relationship with Sirat, despite being sauteli, and Naira (both of my moms are still with me Aarohi, and you can't take that away from me). It could also be Kartik but we never saw his interactions with Akshu post-Aarohi's birth (though we all know, Akshu papa ki jaan thi). Or a mix of both parents.

I say respect because, as people mentioned in the forum, Sirat did tell Akshu to look beyond Aarohi's taunts because Aarohi is insecure so she wasn't partial towards Akshu but she did see Akshu as the bigger person.

Akshara had told kairav in the past that she feels lonely even when she's surrounded by whole family.

Akshara knows that her family favours aarohi and she feels that aarohi is superior and that's why she thought that abhimanyu and aarohi would be a better match..plus birlas and manjari choosing aarohi for abhimanyu confirmed Akshara's doubts..

Akshara is calm and doesn't compete to be the best..she loves her music and doesn't care what other people think of her profession..but she definitely feels bad when aarohi is treated like a princess for being a doctor..akshara was very jealous when she thought abhimanyu loved aarohi and she was trying very hard to be happy for aarohi in the first Tilak.. her jealousy was clear when aarohi was talking about her hospital romance with abhimanyu in the initial episode before 1st tilak...just because akshara is kind hearted and doesn't show her sadness doesn't mean that she never feels bad..

Aarohi on the other hand was highly delusional and overconfident in initial episodes..she thought that her mother is number 2 but she'll be number 1 always as she's the best..Aarohi didn't even confirm from abhimanyu and immediately thought that he brought the alliance for her because he liked her..aarohi didn't even consider the possibility that abhimanyu might have been interested in Akshara..because for aarohi Akshara was nothing infront of her and a guy like abhimanyu could never like akshara..

All of aarohi's jealousy and insecurity that we're seeing now is ignited by abhimanyu's brutal rejections and him choosing Akshara over her..those rejections were biggest reality check for aarohi..

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Exactly! In regards to aarohi i have noticed that she is only happy when things are going her way. She is never happy for others - and this is not just akshara but anyone. She was jealous of kairav and vansh too.

Aarohi is the kind of person who wants the world to revolve around her and only her

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

exactly..aarohi used to hate akshara but her hatred disappeared when she found abhimanyu and thought that he brought marriage alliance for her..aarohi herself asked akshara to assist her in her wedding ...she's selfish to the core..aarohi only entertains akshara when she's happy and satisfied in life but the moment she doesn’t get what she wanted she quickly starts blaming and hating akshara.

Aarohi is the kind of person who wants the world to revolve around her and only her

She intentionally emotionally blackmails Akshu. And she "forgave" akshu for her mothers death.

This is all very questionable for me

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

That's a good point. Akshara knows everyone in her family loves her and she trusts all of them probably because she's very close to them and happily mingles with them. On the other hand Aarohi always stays aloof and reserved. When the entire family would be spending time with each other Aarohi would be standing in a corner watching them and not being part of their happiness. That's probably the reason she doesn't trust them and that lack of trust has made her insecure. Since her childhood she was jealous of Akshara because she was not fully trusting neither Sirat nor other family members.

More than anything, I pity Aaru for not trusting her mom and the rest of the family. I don’t think Aarohi was this reserved and detached before Sirats death but who knows.

Akshara, in my opinion, has a very strong heart because she rarely loses confidence in her loved ones. Whether that be trusting Abhi to love her despite her rejections and the belief that Aarohi saved him, to trusting that Sirat loved her a lot and is still with her. Akshara has this unwavering faith in her loved ones and it’s beautiful to see someone who believes in people like she does. Yes, at times her belief is naive and idiotic (unable to make the possible connection between their accident and Manjaris to believing that Aarohi is always innocent), but it’s the mark of a strong resolve.

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I mean ..akshara had such a severe panic attack and no one from goenkas stayed back with her..all of them went after aarohi and left akshara with abhimanyu..

I mean why are they so insensitive..some of them should've stayed with aarohi and rest of them should've gone to akshara but no ..they are always like this..these goenkas are terrible at parenting..they leave akshara alone for aarohi and then leave aarohi alone for akshara..only kairav went for 2 minutes that's all🙄..

Abhimanyu is Akshara’s would be husband but goenkas have already dumped all of akshara's responsibilities on abhimanyu's shoulders..

I must confess I didn't see the scene like that.

For me, it was about showing Abhi how much distress Akshu was in - so her family needed to be away from her so that intensity, panic and suspense will be there. He knows her panic attack only comes on when it is related to something about her family that she loves.

This scene will later help her when Abhi will be angry with her...he will recall it...if not Kairav will remind him....

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Yes!!! Till date she was happiest only during when she was getting married to abhimanyu. She went against family and fixed the alliance. She went against BP and didnt resign from her job giving reason that she became a dr because she saw her mother die. But now when she thinks she almost killed someone's mother - there is no remorse. The only stress she has is about her career. Which makes me think if she used her mothers death to get sympathies.

She intentionally emotionally blackmails Akshu. And she "forgave" akshu for her mothers death.

This is all very questionable for me

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Ar never accepts faults. Indeed she pushes her faults on Ak easily to save herself. Ar told i excused you for past of sirats fiasco. But there is no fault of ak in it. During drugs time she admitted it's her mistake. Even now she did more things to cover the truth. She didn't tell her family also a single word instead manipulated Ak to hide it.Ar told it's for my mom I am studying. When it comes to her she won't sacrifice anything or do any favour to anyone . ak was thinking her moments with Abhi in backwards so she is prepared for that. Whatever be the result she told truth but it went to wrong person .affect will be in different way .

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Yes!!! It will turn out culprit was someone else and abhi will stand by akshu. But I want Abhi to know the truth of Aarohi. 😈

When naksh and keerti comes here they will be seen focusing on akshu's problems and life...if goenka don't care for akshu.. naksh will be angrily take akshu singhania Sadan permanently....makers might make goenka disappear..then makers will bring maheswari back...

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I mean ..akshara had such a severe panic attack and no one from goenkas stayed back with her..all of them went after aarohi and left akshara with abhimanyu..

I mean why are they so insensitive..some of them should've stayed with aarohi and rest of them should've gone to akshara but no ..they are always like this..these goenkas are terrible at parenting..they leave akshara alone for aarohi and then leave aarohi alone for akshara..only kairav went for 2 minutes that's all🙄..

Abhimanyu is Akshara’s would be husband but goenkas have already dumped all of akshara's responsibilities on abhimanyu's shoulders..