Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin Spoilers Thread #8 - Page 87

Originally posted by: Moor278

By the way... Devi-Pulkit ka 're-wedding' anniversary hoga na ab? 🤣

Tweeples are saying some black and white marna marne dialogue by that a*hole

Originally posted by: Shaome

Tweeples are saying some black and white marna marne dialogue by that a*hole

Matlab?

This was the dialogue today par samjhi nahi main

Originally posted by: Moor278

Matlab?

This was the dialogue today par samjhi nahi main

I have not watched the episode though...

However black and white dialogue probably they have picked from forums.. Or it's just a coincidence.. I have mentioned it in my analysis many times about Sai.. She is naive and idealist who doesn't see the thin line between black and white that's why she is oblivious to his love.. 😆

Where are those other things we have said about domestic abuses..

I have a different opinion. I always thought Sai and Virat didnt understand each others love because they didnt understand each others pain.

Virat had took off the option of love between them before marriage..’I will only take your responsibility’ and ‘I will never be your husband’. Virat said this for the first time when Sai brought up Pakhi’s name and second time when Patralekha came to their wedding. But by the time he is clear Patralekha is not in his heart, Sai had taken Virat loves Patralekha as truth. Thats why she never understood Virat’s action towards her as love. She definitely had feeling for him but never named it as love. Family always tried to make her understand Virat’ love for her but she always denied. After Virat cleared his equation with Patralekha, DIG’s word made her realize Virat’s love for her. She realized Virat’s intention for the anniversary surprise and and her reaction on it was wrong and hurt him.

Shruti track brought back Sai’s pain of being made the third person in their marriage and Virat’s pain of being linked to a third person being a married man. Also vaada and zimmedari made a comeback. Sai said ‘I am not dusri’ during her outburst after throwing his phone. She said ‘there was Pakhi didi before her and now Shruti, her being there doesnt make a difference to him’ while packing before leaving CN. He become hurt whenever ‘rishta’ is used between him and Shruti because it is questioning his character.

Sai said at the cafe after Virat asked her to leave his ward that she linked him with another woman. She has realised she made the same mistake again. Thats why she is really apologetic this time. Because she had not yet apologized for what happened on anniversary and she did it again with Shruti. Sai actually brought back Patralekha, triangle and locking her in room, to which Virat answered back with not forgetting her harkat and ilzam. What happened during anniversary is still in both people’s mind. The accusations put on him by Sai with Shruti only added on what she did during anniversary with Patralekha. Thats why he is more ‘angry’ at Sai than the family. But it was actually Virat who brought the third person in, before it was Patralekha as ‘best friend’ and then Shruti as ‘wife’.

Sai said today that she believes Virat will break the wall between them. Until Virat realizes his mistake, he will not be ready to listen to Sai. Without realizing Sai’s pain he will not realize Sai’s love for him. And Patralekha will be the cause here. Sai once said that Patralekha’s actions will bring Sai and Virat closer. Maybe we will get back our Sairat😊. This is how I understand them. Maybe my khayali pulao🤣.

Virat has been the one to not only bring up the third person but also to not clarify, allow that 3rd person full interference in his life/marriage. Pp has license to do whatever the f she wants and same with Shruti too. In the beginning he pretended to be like- oh you dont need to get involved, but ultimately he gave her all his sensitive info and feelings about Sai and his marriage. He is the one who makes her believe the marriage isnt real. Everytime they are at the cusp of getting closer he does something to shatter her. She literally begged him for a clarification but he did not tell her who Shruti was. She put her fears in front of him. She told him she wanted to be his priority and did not like how he was distancing himself and he just ignored it. He proves her fears/insecurities right by his actions. He was always let off with a simple apology n tears. Even in her anger Sai has maintained a decorum. But V and his family cross all limits. Kisi ko khaana/paani na dena, room mein band karna, manhoos bulana....what is this behavior?! Its pathetic how they are utterly cruel to her.

If Sai were at their level of crassness she could easily have reminded V that he should be dead but he isnt thanks to her father. She could have reminded him of all the times she has forgiven him. But she acknowledges her mistakes- her only mistake imo is that she could have shown more patience waiting for Virats sahi wakt but eventually if the truth of him registered in the hospital as husband/baby daddy happened and he didn't clarify she would have had to give up and leave. So really in the grand scheme of things she has done no wrong. The entire time she spoke to him after all this kaand happenened, she never used an ill word for his character or Shrutis. She just accepted that he fell in love with someone that wasnt her. Her only grouse was that she was kept in the dark and hence made to feel cheated in the marriage. All she wanted was honesty and transparency from him. And she is mainly guilty now because she is constantly being fed the notion that its all her fault and also Virat ended up critically ill. If a person is constantly targeted they will find themselves cornered into actually believing what is said. Here everyone holds her responsible so she has started believing it. Thats why she doesn't justify or say- i also had the same info you guys did. Its not like she fed them wrong info and manipulated them into disiwning him etc. (I am hoping at some point she does raise these logical points in a breakdown)

And she is exerting her wife haq only because theres no other way for her to justify being near him to apologize. If she said dost/mirchi she cant live in CN. Plus right before all this happened she had realized that she was starting to develop feelings and get attached to her husband, she has realized this shruti kaand did make her insecure and hurt as a wife just like pp does, and she is hopeful that V will also return her affections because he claims pp is past and Shruti was his friends wife. She doesn't know how Shruti has also confessed love and ended up a little too emotionally bonded with V to the point of giving him a kiss before leaving. She is latching on to the only person she has as family. The only friend , the only confidante she had after her father. She literally has no one else and its tough for her to realize how shes getting trapped in an abusive cycle. She is legally and emotionally only bound to one person- Virat.

Its sad to see her get manipulated and trapped because she has no one else to call her own and is also too young- so not financially, emotionally independent.

Originally posted by: hiddenpurple

I have a different opinion. I always thought Sai and Virat didnt understand each others love because they didnt understand each others pain.

Virat had took off the option of love between them before marriage..’I will only take your responsibility’ and ‘I will never be your husband’. Virat said this for the first time when Sai brought up Pakhi’s name and second time when Patralekha came to their wedding. But by the time he is clear Patralekha is not in his heart, Sai had taken Virat loves Patralekha as truth. Thats why she never understood Virat’s action towards her as love. She definitely had feeling for him but never named it as love. Family always tried to make her understand Virat’ love for her but she always denied. After Virat cleared his equation with Patralekha, DIG’s word made her realize Virat’s love for her. She realized Virat’s intention for the anniversary surprise and and her reaction on it was wrong and hurt him.

Shruti track brought back Sai’s pain of being made the third person in their marriage and Virat’s pain of being linked to a third person being a married man. Also vaada and zimmedari made a comeback. Sai said ‘I am not dusri’ during her outburst after throwing his phone. She said ‘there was Pakhi didi before her and now Shruti, her being there doesnt make a difference to him’ while packing before leaving CN. He become hurt whenever ‘rishta’ is used between him and Shruti because it is questioning his character.

Sai said at the cafe after Virat asked her to leave his ward that she linked him with another woman. She has realised she made the same mistake again. Thats why she is really apologetic this time. Because she had not yet apologized for what happened on anniversary and she did it again with Shruti. Sai actually brought back Patralekha, triangle and locking her in room, to which Virat answered back with not forgetting her harkat and ilzam. What happened during anniversary is still in both people’s mind. The accusations put on him by Sai with Shruti only added on what she did during anniversary with Patralekha. Thats why he is more ‘angry’ at Sai than the family. But it was actually Virat who brought the third person in, before it was Patralekha as ‘best friend’ and then Shruti as ‘wife’.

Sai said today that she believes Virat will break the wall between them. Until Virat realizes his mistake, he will not be ready to listen to Sai. Without realizing Sai’s pain he will not realize Sai’s love for him. And Patralekha will be the cause here. Sai once said that Patralekha’s actions will bring Sai and Virat closer. Maybe we will get back our Sairat😊. This is how I understand them. Maybe my khayali pulao🤣.

You are right..

What I meant by black and white is that she hadn't seen the world beyond Aaba..Then it would have been easy for Her to understand both P and Virat.. Probably Pakhi would have been clean bowled by now only she knew how to use some tricks..

She thinks either people are good or can be bad.. Now that the masks have been fallen off from the people whom she thought her family finally she will get a clearer view of human psychology.. Next is Vitat..hope she sees virat is not the right person for her..

On that contrary Virat did put effort pre anniversary... See everyone has a past..But people tend to accept their partners knowing everything.. Sai did not able to see that if she hadn't eat then virat would sterve even in anger..i think PD lunch kaand, then devar -bhabi bhanda phod .. Though I have always doubted his "LOVE"

Sai and Virat understand each other pain but one has to be in mortal peril 😆especially virat.. He gives in a lot whenever he is in good terms with his wife..

Vida is not perfect but unfortunately these days his character comes across borderline abusive..

Black and white reffered as her innocence not as her lack of judgement about people.. But makers used that line to taunt her.. It's not her flaw but honesty ..

She is apologetic because only if She trusted him probably he might not have to leave the family.. And she saw him dying to save her life.. She still had not paid any heed to saada's words..

All the pain of Virat is actually caused by him and his immoral decision making.. Look he has everything in the world.. A family, a beautiful wife still none is his.. Such a pity

Originally posted by: Shaome

You are right..

What I meant by black and white is that she hadn't seen the world beyond Aaba..Then it would have been easy for Her to understand both P and Virat.. Probably Pakhi would have been clean bowled by now only she knew how to use some tricks..

She thinks either people are good or can be bad.. Now that the masks have been fallen off from the people whom she thought her family finally she will get a clearer view of human psychology.. Next is Vitat..hope she sees virat is not the right person for her..

On that contrary Virat did put effort pre anniversary... See everyone has a past..But people tend to accept their partners knowing everything.. Sai did not able to see that if she hadn't eat then virat would sterve even in anger..i think PD lunch kaand, then devar -bhabi bhanda phod .. Though I have always doubted his "LOVE"

Sai and Virat understand each other pain but one has to be in mortal peril 😆especially virat.. He gives in a lot whenever he is in good terms with his wife..

Vida is not perfect but unfortunately these days his character comes across borderline abusive..

Black and white reffered as her innocence not as her lack of judgement about people.. But makers used that line to taunt her.. It's not her flaw but honesty ..

She is apologetic because only if She trusted him probably he might not have to leave the family.. And she saw him dying to save her life.. She still had not paid any heed to saada's words..

All the pain of Virat is actually caused by him and his immoral decision making.. Look he has everything in the world.. A family, a beautiful wife still none is his.. Such a pity

Virat till date refuses to acknowledge infront of Sai that he did have a thing with Pakhi & promised her lifelong commitment of loving her ONLY. everytime it's been brought up he makes faces as if Sai is cooking up some imaginary stories, makes her look like a liar i.e. vaada revelation track.

When Virat is in love & all good with Sai, he shows sign of love, sweetest with Sai but whenever something goes wrong he goes into dark side. That makes him a bad person over-all. Like currently he's on darker side losing basic humanity for Sai.

Agreed. Virat allowing Patralekha to interfere is what made her feel like the third person.

Sai has accepted the marriage when Virat was shot but the confrontation on Harini’s birthday brought her back to the reality of their marriage. After that anytime she feels they are getting close, eg her birthday party, her imagination of Aaba, Patralekha gave her the reality check. Thats why she become defensive when Virat gave the ring and mentioned again about a person between them. After Sai’s 2nd accident, when Sai removed her hand seeing Patralekha enter the ward is when he realized why Sai keep linking him with P. He told the truth about what happened at the cafe, although not the whole truth, to clarify his equation with P.

They have realized each other’s feeling on Diwali night. But he came back from mission with another vaada and zimmedari. Sai’s outburst after throwing his phone showed her hurt and he realized the effect of his action on her. But Sai’s speech during her award ceremony hurt him. And when he is hurt he will not see beyond himself. Right now he will not see his own mistake. With Shruti he created the image of him being the good cop and Sai the bad cop. When he was going to rescue Sai he remembered Sai didnt want to see him anymore but not her saying he broke her heart. Thats why I think something will happen that will make him remember the instances Sai showed her hurt to him and gave him chances to clarify.

Even after having her heart broken she didnt told anyone else except family about Virat’s affair but made the backdated divorce cert to clear him of the cheating tag. She wished him happiness in his life even if it was with Shruti. She remembers only the good things he and the family did for her. Crossing limits then apologizing and doing anything to get apology is trade mark of Chavan’s 🙄. This is where Sai stood out from the Chavan’s.

I think she accepts being guilty to the Chavan’s of Virat’s injury only. Because she thought Virat would not have been injured if he didnt try to rescue her. The landmine was meant to hurt her. I dont think she feels guilty of breaking Virat and his family’s relationship. She said to P that she was right to leave Virat at that time. Virat also said that its the family distrust on him that made them throw him out, not words by some girl.

I think Sai is fighting for their marriage because she knows Virat loves her and is only angry at her. Virat is behaving just like after anniversary but has now given up on her.

I really hope the third angle will be addressed this time🤞🏼. Now not only Virat but the whole family is treating Sai badly, this needs to be addressed too🤞🏼.

I like your optimism that something will happen that makes V recall all her hurt, the chances she gave him to clarify, and how much it killed her to walk away/end their relationship. And how she truly saw no option. This should happen. I want to see that as a viewer. BUT I'm not confident it will happen. They gloss over Sai's pain in Sairat conversations. Virat just wants to look past it always.

I dunno if Sai genuinely is confident in Virats love/feelings for her or she is just hoping for the best because she is definitely attached to him and is on the cusp of acknowledging her feelings. She knows he is the most important person in her world because hes the only one that hers and losing him destroyed her entirely even before the revelation of truth. I think her focus right now is only forgiveness and trying to get back to the way things were before the kaand- spouses cum friends cum confidantes. The reason right now shes fighting for the "marriage" is also because thats the legal and unquestionable thread that binds them in a relationship . If its just "guardianship", "friendship" thats too abstract. That won't let her live with him. This tag of marriage- being his legally wedded wife gives her the ability to live in CN and in his room no matter what Chavannis n Virat himself say to her. But really her primary objective is to just get him to forgive her because she has been led into believing that things would somehow be better or ok if she had been patient, if she "trusted" him (it was impossible to, but!) And if she didnt leave..and also somehow if she hadnt been kidnapped and he didn't get injured trying to save her. But all this is NOT true. Virar created this mess, not Sai.

After forgiveness whenever that happens, there should be a discussion of what Sai went through , why it affected her so much and how he feels about that and that cannot happen without atleast an acknowledgement of more than just zimmedari/friendship type feelings.

But i dunno if makers will do justice or do some mish-mash and hurried reconciliation before another kaand.