Hi all,
I binge watched Yeh na thi humari kismat after watching a scene of Muneeb & Hira. I love their chemistry, they look so good together. So watching for this couple.
Sharing my thoughts on Ayaan. As i see it, Ayaan is very insecure, his insecurity stems from his comparision to his cousin Yasir who he finds to be better than him in every aspect, financially & possibly in appearance too ( guessing from scene Muntaha praises Ayaan for his looks and he stands surprised and after she leaves looks at himself with some confidence in the mirror).
Ayaan's family too has been in some way dependant on Yasir's father financials and hence he always feels inferior. However, Ayaan does have self respect and just doesnt want to be dependant on the money but he doesnt know where to start, instances in which he demonstrated this were when he tells Muntaha to not wear the clothes she got from Yasir side for their Walimah, also not accepting Dowry on his own accord from Muntaha's father & telling Muntaha to talk to her father take back the funds and also he was very reluctant & felt indebted to Muntaha when she provided them with finances in hard times, he had a sense of 'Ehsaas' that his wife is doing something for him & his family where as Ayaan's mother & sister never showed that too Muntaha. I dont really think Ayaan confessed to Muntaha that he loves her cause of the money, not at all, he changed his attitute towards her before that, it got ruined cause of Mano boyfriend fiasco.
So what exactly is the problem with Ayaan & his attitude with Muntaha? In my opinion its his insecurities & his surroundings. Elaborating on insecurities, time & again we have seen Ayaan verbally comparing himself to Yasir infront of Muntaha & always making it clear that she deserved someone like Yasir. 'Jaisi tum ho na perfect, tumhe Yasir jaisa koi milna tha', says alot. He considers this girl to be way above his leauge and so possesiveness & suspicion automatically creeps in to his nature. He is unable to get over his insecurities. Also initially he always told Muntaha, she is acting to be nice, she is playing a goodness drama, i understand why he felt this way cause he had never seen genuiness around him, his mother, Yasir's mother, phuppo, Sania, Mano, all these women had a flare of drama to them and every act of kindness had a motive, so Muntaha's opression & her selfless retort were all bewildring to him that he just passed it out as drama initially & later went on to respect her & love her for these qualities. All in all, he finds Muntaha tooo good for him & the resultant possesiveness & suspicion and the inconfidence in himself that a girl like Muntaha can actually possibly love him coupled with his impulsivenesa results in his hot & cold behaviour towards Muntaha.
He loves Muntaha but just like his confidence in himself its frail! Hope he realises and overcomes his flaws and strengthens his love. Muntaha does deserve better but I find Ayaan to be good at heart and better than his mother & sister. He is more like his father. I love their couple & want them to be together.
Woh!! Ended up with an essayđ If u read thru this point, a big thank you.
Edited by Krishtigya - 4 years ago
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