Harshvardhan birla is a good father - Page 2

Well, I wouldn't say so far that he is a good father. There must be a reason why Abhimanyu hates him so much and doesn't want to call him his father and keeps calling him sir all the time. However, no matter how bad he is, he is still there for his son; and despite poor and lack of communication skills between son and father it is obvious that he loves his son and perhaps to the level of possessive and obsessive towards his son.

I would say though that Harsh and Abhi have complicated relationship and they have their own reasons to act the way they are acting right now. And both are egotistical and proud to even admit that they both have mistakes and do not want to own up to that mistakes. They both think they are right and have nothing to apologise to and they were wronged. Harsh thinks that Manjadi and Akshara are trying to separate him and his son and try to create differences between the two of them. Abhimanyu thinks that whatever Harsh did and continue to do to him are wrong and that he has the right to revenge and do whatever he wants to him and hurts him based on that.

Pooja - love this post.

Harsh came for Abhi today - he thawed slightly to attend the Tilak but he still has venom inside of him - but I’m happy he is thawing.

Manjari’s role in Harsh’s marriage of convenience is to be a mom to Abhi. While she dotes on Harsh, he dotes on Abhi. But Abhi thinks the sun rises and sets on his mom. And kahin na kahin Harsh is jealous of the place Manjari has in Abhi’s heart.

We cannot dismiss the fact that Harsh is verbally and emotionally abusive to Manjari. So much so that she has lost all self confidence and self esteem because of his constant abuse - she falters, is clumsy and confused.

You said it best Pooja Harsh is a loving father AND an abusive husband at the same time.

So while we celebrate Harsh’s slight thawing today, it is only the tip of the iceberg- there is a lot more down there to resolve.
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Originally posted by: tptwi

This is an amazing post! I was just thinking about this after I watched the episode. Manjari will always choose Harsh over Abhi, but Harsh will always choose Abhi above all else. He has a twisted way of showing it, but the center of Harsh's universe is Abhi. This ego and the way he treats Manjari, and now Akshu, gets in the way of his relationship with his son, and his biggest problem is not seeing how his actions and words towards the 2 most people in Abhi's live affect his relationship with his son. He will arrive to the tilak now too because Akshu will bring him, but even if he himself was not going, he made sure that Abhi still got what gave him happiness. He made sure that Manjari went, because he knew that Abhi would not go without him.

Actually, Harsh and Abhi give me BIG 2 States feels. Their dynamic is very similar to the father-son dynamic there.... I am waiting for that type of moment in the shaadi where Harsh comes and the two hug for the first time in so long.... and Harsh might be the one to save the rishta in one way or another after some huge problem arises between the families once again or something, proving just how much he loves his son!!

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Pooja - love this post.

Harsh came for Abhi today - he thawed slightly to attend the Tilak but he still has venom inside of him - but I’m happy he is thawing.

Manjari’s role in Harsh’s marriage of convenience is to be a mom to Abhi. While she dotes on Harsh, he dotes on Abhi. But Abhi thinks the sun rises and sets on his mom. And kahin na kahin Harsh is jealous of the place Manjari has in Abhi’s heart.

We cannot dismiss the fact that Harsh is verbally and emotionally abusive to Manjari. So much so that she has lost all self confidence and self esteem because of his constant abuse - she falters, is clumsy and confused.

You said it best Pooja Harsh is a living father AND an abusive husband.

So while we celebrate Harsh’s slight thawing today, it is only the tip of the iceberg- there is a lot more down there to resolve.
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Originally posted by: borntorule12

I think whatever happened between harsh and manjari is an issue of the past, abhi should move on from it Nd if he starts accepts his father and in return abhimanyu asks him to respect his mom more, problem is solved.

He is no doubt a good father, bears abhimanyu's all tantrums, has somehwat accepted akshara too and on akshara's insistence will come to function too which proves he isn't bad... Am sure he will be a living dad to akshara in future as she is devoid of dad's love..he will truly appreciate akshara for her gesture of uniting abhi n harsh ..