Harshvardhan birla is a good father

I feel harsh is a good father...harshvardhan is trash to other people and he is very egoistic and practical..

But deep down he has heart that is full of love for abhimanyu..harsh really loves abhimanyu even MORE THAN manjari

Manjari's love is conditional and selfish..she emotionally manipulates abhimanyu according to her wishes

I feel sad that abhimanyu idolize his mother but insults his father..

Harsh deserves abhimanyu's love more than manjari..harsh is strict but the way he understands abhimanyu is really commendable..

I hope in future abhimanyu will love harsh more than manjari..

Harsh only needs to respect women and throw away his ego that's all..other than that harshvardhan birla is sensible and sorted person.

I think whatever happened between harsh and manjari is an issue of the past, abhi should move on from it Nd if he starts accepts his father and in return abhimanyu asks him to respect his mom more, problem is solved.

He is no doubt a good father, bears abhimanyu's all tantrums, has somehwat accepted akshara too and on akshara's insistence will come to function too which proves he isn't bad... Am sure he will be a living dad to akshara in future as she is devoid of dad's love..he will truly appreciate akshara for her gesture of uniting abhi n harsh ..

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I feel harsh is a good father...harshvardhan is trash to other people and he is very egoistic and practical..

But deep down he has heart that is full of love for abhimanyu..harsh really loves abhimanyu even MORE THAN manjari

Manjari's love is conditional and selfish..she emotionally manipulates abhimanyu according to her wishes

I feel sad that abhimanyu idolize his mother but insults his father..

Harsh deserves abhimanyu's love more than manjari..harsh is strict but the way he understands abhimanyu is really commendable..

I hope in future abhimanyu will love harsh more than manjari..

Harsh only needs to respect women and throw away his ego that's all..other than that harshvardhan birla is sensible and sorted person.

I am completely with your words and believe me I would love to see future where Abhi has most respect for his father than any one else (may be due to Akshu)....

Ego makes you do which personally you would never want to do..............if some one understand that Egoist person, then they know what harm may happen..........Here Manjri is that person........had Manjri gone for Abhi.............it would have reverse effect on Harsh..........his ego would have been hurt more...........and in that if Tilak would have happened it would have bad atmosphere...........but no since he indirectly told Manjri to go .........means let Tilak happen and he has accepted ABHIRA (like it or no)...........And this would have satisfied his little ego that he gave away permission to Abhi's Mom for Tilak.............I hope you understand from where I am coming.............Male ego is very very high dear...........and in that many can be hurt...........so if you just be by side ..........even when you know that he is wrong...........half ego is gone....................But for sure felt extremely bad for Abhi.................

One thing I did not understand what Akshu has done wrong to Harsh that he dislikes her so much............If he really loves his son then he should be happy that she saved his son..........That was the point when still he chose Aarohi over Akshara..........His character cannot be justified whatever self talk that he loves Abhi (what they tried to show today) and with that he said that Akshu came in between son & father...............when son & father were together at first place and what did she do to him.........................Totally unredeemable character after his support to Aarohi for Marriage even after knowing truth

This is an amazing post! I was just thinking about this after I watched the episode. Manjari will always choose Harsh over Abhi, but Harsh will always choose Abhi above all else. He has a twisted way of showing it, but the center of Harsh's universe is Abhi. This ego and the way he treats Manjari, and now Akshu, gets in the way of his relationship with his son, and his biggest problem is not seeing how his actions and words towards the 2 most people in Abhi's live affect his relationship with his son. He will arrive to the tilak now too because Akshu will bring him, but even if he himself was not going, he made sure that Abhi still got what gave him happiness. He made sure that Manjari went, because he knew that Abhi would not go without him.

Actually, Harsh and Abhi give me BIG 2 States feels. Their dynamic is very similar to the father-son dynamic there.... I am waiting for that type of moment in the shaadi where Harsh comes and the two hug for the first time in so long.... and Harsh might be the one to save the rishta in one way or another after some huge problem arises between the families once again or something, proving just how much he loves his son!!

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I feel harsh is a good father...harshvardhan is trash to other people and he is very egoistic and practical..

But deep down he has heart that is full of love for abhimanyu..harsh really loves abhimanyu even MORE THAN manjari

Manjari's love is conditional and selfish..she emotionally manipulates abhimanyu according to her wishes

I feel sad that abhimanyu idolize his mother but insults his father..

Harsh deserves abhimanyu's love more than manjari..harsh is strict but the way he understands abhimanyu is really commendable..

I hope in future abhimanyu will love harsh more than manjari..

Harsh only needs to respect women and throw away his ego that's all..other than that harshvardhan birla is sensible and sorted person.

The past between Manjiri and Harsh is not known. But manjiri panicking nature might have flared up tensions, there's not much love and concern between the couple.

The problem I can see with Abhi is, his parents behaviour adversely impacted his mental wellbeing and he definitely has anger management issues.

Manjiri failed to ensure her son addresses his dad/her husband with respect which is unacceptable.

Harshvardhan character needs to be dissected deep for us to know the root cause of his emotional challenges.

Originally posted by: tptwi

This is an amazing post! I was just thinking about this after I watched the episode. Manjari will always choose Harsh over Abhi, but Harsh will always choose Abhi above all else. He has a twisted way of showing it, but the center of Harsh's universe is Abhi. This ego and the way he treats Manjari, and now Akshu, gets in the way of his relationship with his son, and his biggest problem is not seeing how his actions and words towards the 2 most people in Abhi's live affect his relationship with his son. He will arrive to the tilak now too because Akshu will bring him, but even if he himself was not going, he made sure that Abhi still got what gave him happiness. He made sure that Manjari went, because he knew that Abhi would not go without him.

Actually, Harsh and Abhi give me BIG 2 States feels. Their dynamic is very similar to the father-son dynamic there.... I am waiting for that type of moment in the shaadi where Harsh comes and the two hug for the first time in so long.... and Harsh might be the one to save the rishta in one way or another after some huge problem arises between the families once again or something, proving just how much he loves his son!!

Manjari really disappointed me when she refused to attend abhimanyu's tilak even after knowing that abhimanyu will not be able to go without her..manjari knows how hard abhimanyu has worked for this day..marrying akshara has been a long time dream of abhimanyu and manjari knows it very well but still she threw away her son's dreams and happiness to pacify her husband and to prove herself as a good wife..

On the other hand harsh really won me over..he was amazing 👏..despite being hurt and angry with abhimanyu for marrying akshara ..harsh still allowed manjari to go and let this Tilak happen for abhimanyu's happiness..harsh is a manipulative man and he could have used this opportunity to stop abhimanyu from marrying akshara but he didn't..harsh knows that akshara is important for abhimanyu so he'll never try to separate abhira..

Harsh dislikes akshara currently but his love for abhimanyu is much more stronger than his hatred for akshara and goenkas..he doesn't want to snatch abhimanyu's happiness...I'm sure harsh will love and support akshara more than manjari in future..

I'm glad abhimanyu showed his anger and disappointment towards manjari..he thanked harsh but got angry with manjari for leaving him alone at the last moment..it was much needed..in future I think abhimanyu will be more vocal towards manjari's stupidity and will call her out when she does wrong..the progression has started

Harshvardhan birla is going to share an amazing bond with both abhimanyu and akshara in future..and manjari will get sidelined..I'm so looking forward to this..

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

exactly 💯....this is what I meant to say..

Manjari really disappointed me when she refused to attend abhimanyu's tilak even after knowing that abhimanyu will not be able to go without her..manjari knows how hard abhimanyu has worked for this day..marrying akshara has been a long time dream of abhimanyu and manjari knows it very well but still she threw away her son's dreams and happiness to pacify her husband and to prove herself as a good wife..

On the other hand harsh really won me over..he was amazing 👏..despite being hurt and angry with abhimanyu for marrying akshara ..harsh still allowed manjari to go and let this Tilak happen for abhimanyu's happiness..harsh is a manipulative man and he could have used this opportunity to stop abhimanyu from marrying akshara but he didn't..harsh knows that akshara is important for abhimanyu so he'll never try to separate abhira..

Harsh dislikes akshara currently but his love for abhimanyu is much more stronger than his hatred for akshara and goenkas..he doesn't want to snatch abhimanyu's happiness...I'm sure harsh will love and support akshara more than manjari in future..

I'm glad abhimanyu showed his anger and disappointment towards manjari..he thanked harsh but got angry with manjari for leaving him alone at the last moment..it was much needed..in future I think abhimanyu will be more vocal towards manjari's stupidity and will call her out when she does wrong..the progression has started

Harshvardhan birla is going to share an amazing bond with both abhimanyu and akshara in future..and manjari will get sidelined..I'm so looking forward to this..

Also just realized how many typos are in my post...sorry about that 🤣 I just woke up and got too excited to respond to this 😆

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I feel harsh is a good father...harshvardhan is trash to other people and he is very egoistic and practical..

But deep down he has heart that is full of love for abhimanyu..harsh really loves abhimanyu even MORE THAN manjari

Manjari's love is conditional and selfish..she emotionally manipulates abhimanyu according to her wishes

I feel sad that abhimanyu idolize his mother but insults his father..

Harsh deserves abhimanyu's love more than manjari..harsh is strict but the way he understands abhimanyu is really commendable..

I hope in future abhimanyu will love harsh more than manjari..

Harsh only needs to respect women and throw away his ego that's all..other than that harshvardhan birla is sensible and sorted person.

Harsh is a good father and for some reason he is not able to show that. When he does show it, it gets misinterpreted.

I think once their misunderstanding clears up, Abhi will become close to his dad. Harsh is definitely yearning for it. It was heartbreaking, his wish when Abhi was seeking blessing from everyone.

I don't think Manjari's love is conditional or that she is a manipulator...though many us think she has hidden depths😆. She is the peacemaker between father and son and it has become second nature to her. Harsh uses her to get his way with Abhi as he knows Abhi will listen to his mother. I think she portrays lot of mothers of world who bridge the gap between children and their dads.

I think the issue between Abhi and his dad is the way Harsh treats Manjari. Abhi does not like it and I can't blame him. What child will sit quietly when their father speaks to their mother like that? yet I feel there is more...maybe Harsh had an affair?...maybe he never wanted to marry Manjari but Mahima and Anand made him?...it would be nice to know the core of their anger.