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Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

Thank u for understanding🙏🙏🙏i saw a music video.i was so happy that the girl fathers allow her to pursue her dream instead of getting married.she travels with a stranger guy(so strangeno stupidity),he helps her in fullfilling her wishes of travelling to many places and they end up uniting in bed🤢what the hell! why cant they show good and respectful relationship among the opposite genders

why to force romance/sex in a story?😡

and what maan has to do with this? - nothing!

how i wish anupama knew how much anuj loves her but they end up as good friends! there is more place for respect in their relationsjip!

Originally posted by: Kras1

abe ali ko tag to karde

chal tere behalf par main kar deti hu

and ali maine kuch nahi demand kiya ye birthday girl ki demand h😳

Are li ko bhi tag kr rhi thi frnd ka call aya.. Utne me.. 🤣🤣🤣

Chal bta.. Kya chahiye party.... Chal aja mere ghar tujhe jo psnd hai wo banake khilati hu.. ❤❤

Originally posted by: QueeN456

Are li ko bhi tag kr rhi thi frnd ka call aya.. Utne me.. 🤣🤣🤣

Chal bta.. Kya chahiye party.... Chal aja mere ghar tujhe jo psnd hai wo banake khilati hu.. ❤❤

Originally posted by: Kras1

i respect your take dear and you are right ye sabki alag choice h ki wo 2nd chance dena chahte h life mein is relation ko ya nahi

but yaha jo baat sabko trigger ki that was when you mentioned anu's age and all because life mein ye rishta dobara chahiye ya nahi isse age ka koi matter nahi h

baki yes anu's actions are not praiseworthy

she is getting more and more regressive day by day

you know many were ok with that man having extra affair but not ok when she stayed with her male collegue house during the issue.everyone blamed her for his extra marital affair! sick society! agar meraey saath bhi kal aisaey hi hoga tho sab mujaey dosh dengaey ki mein galath thi isliyae mera husband doosraey aurat kaey peechaey gaya.

here everyone is supporting anuj? why? because we know he is a gentleman! but how many woman out there can know the complete fact about their future partner? what is the surety that he wont point out about failed 1st marriage? how can we be sure, that 2nd marriage will be successful.

i have seen all scenarios -

1. a single guy marrying a widower/divorcee - the widower will be supressed or the marriage ends in divorce.

2. a divorcee marrying another divorcee,marriage ends in divorce again and the blame falls on the girl.

3. love /arranged marriage ending in divorce.

4.a young widow getting forced to get married to a 45 plus yr old man within one month of marriage by her own family! why because she is struggling with a small child!

5. a young male widower marrying a single handicapped girl because he wanted a care taker for his child ! but blaming later the girl for not doing any work at home due to her physical conditions!

marriage is an emotional roller coaster ride,divorce and separation can bring havoc in the person's life,male turn them mentally weak!

anupama ko chodo,take a common girl who is in her mid 40's.she finds love in her life they get married! socho after marriage she may fall ill due to various woman's issue like menopause,unable to conceive or mayfall sick due to some deadly disease. what is the surety,the guy will take care of her?

so best option to stay single!

Originally posted by: Kras1

https://twitter.com/Feminist_Radha/status/1501448271486939136?s=20&t=4cIsRcOHXrmxDR1O10bxQA

Now I’ll be left confused as to whether to muse or ruminate 🤔 😂

Originally posted by: Arshi67

Now I’ll be left confused as to whether to muse or ruminate 🤔 😂

You can do both! 🤣

You can even write on them!

Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

Anu’s feelings were all over. They didn’t show much about how her feelings for Anuj changed . Gau n Rups have the potential to showcase the chemistry.

And If you won’t mind can you please tell me about the music video. I would love to watch the same

https://youtu.be/dLEtORcB2QY

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

let me clear u one thing,i dont have any regressive thought.i told everyone clearly,i dont belive in marriage 2nd time,but doesnt mean,others should not opt for 2nd marriage! its their personal choice.not all women have the mindset to get married for 2nd time if the first was abusive one. for me moving on is not getting into another relationship! if i was in anupa,a place and met a person like anuj,i will say thank you for loving me selflessly,let us be either friends or separate forever.i would have by now filed a case against ex husband for snatching the properties and will show my gratitude by returning his properties! i would have disowned the family for supporting vanraj!

i will better live alone ah!

I respect your opinion on the 2nd marriage track really. And agreed it is difficult to get married again if abuse is all that you've known/seen/felt

If you see here, Anu has repeated her fears multiple times. She has maintained the same statement of not being ready because of how trust was broken and she accepted and respected his love. She wanted to focus on her career and she was pretty clear in her stance on this.

She did not decide to fall in love with him. It happened. Slowly and steadily. She realised how she felt when she was around him. And I think that is pretty natural right? None of us decide ki aaj hum isse pyaar karenge.

Why should she separate? Just because her trust was broken? She was cordial with him and that's good enough right?

On the filing case bit, she could've as his friend but on what basis? Did she have all cards with her? Was the one being betrayed (Mukku) with her? There was no solid track to that - they could've built one but would that serve any purpose? So I feel maybe you are drifting away from the story/track that Anupama is all about

On disowning the family, always easier said than done. She can disown her ex husband but her kids are still there. As a mother, is that even remotely possible to break all ties? I don't think so. Yes, she should draw boundaries, keep her self respect/dignity first but cutting all ties off is a little too much no?

Whether she chooses to get married or not that's her thing - whether it is better off or no, that's an individual's perception/choice.

Just like how we go to a restaurant to dine or call in food and give them our feedback if the food is good or not because that is our thing as a customer. And then we can choose to go back to the same place or no.

Similarly, as audience, we give our feedback to the makers on what is looking right or what isn't. Because we represent a certain section of the society too.

I think we can cordially agree to disagree on our opinions and no negativity please😊

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

i age shamed anupama in the show not rupali in reality!

Sorry but even age shaming Anu’s character doesn’t sound too good ... I mean I understand you have an opinion on some parts of the story , heck even lot of us have trolled Anu for her endless Bhashans and her inability to break away from Shahs and OTT dances etc , ...but saying that in the show just because she is a 45 year old , she should not have the love of a very very decent man who loves her deeply and concentrate only on career etc doesn’t make sense ... How is age shaming her different from Varnraj taunting that you look like 50 at age of 40 or rest of the people saying that just because you are mother or you are a certain age you don’t deserve to be loved or give love a second chance ...

This is exactly the kind of thinking that the show is trying to break and to their credit they have done a decent job till now by ITV standards ... Of course storytelling needs to improve a lot !!

Originally posted by: Kras1

aur aapka ghar kaha h madam

India Maharashtra k kisi kone me.. 🤣🤣🤣