Leaving aside ITV fiction let me narrate a real story:
There's this middle class family of 3 sisters the eldest was somewhat obese but decent looking, balanced in nature, gharelu types taking care of behnein since childhood, the middle one looks gorgeous, chirpy obviously lots of guys running after her and carries the attitude on her sleeves, the youngest is witty, hardworking determinate and humorous of all.
A guy happens to knock on theirđŞ door once for an allianceđ¤ for the elder one, but the guy decides to marry the chirpy younger one in the first sight, he doesnt get along well with his dad due to their temperamental mismatch.
The girl's parents due to their late marriage and not having any sons to look after their children wanted to see their daughters married soon, hence readily agrees for the alliance.
The younger girl declines the proposal because she's brilliant in studies and is doing well professionally even while doing regular studies at a young age of 19. She unwillingly visits the guys home due to her parents pressure, gives acquiescence to the proposal due to family circumstances.
Suddenly the guy gets convinced by his family members to marry the elder one as she's more mature and gharelu(idhar udhar JIJAđ´â ď¸)
Meanwhile the girls mother unaware of the developments(Kaand Mathaâ ď¸) from the guys side starts dreaming about her younger daughter wedding and she cant keep anything to herself, so she tells everybody in their neighbourhood đ˘ about the alliance to the younger one and the marriage in the offing.
Finally the guy and his family comeback asking for the elder girlđ to which the elder girl and family readily accepts and marriage preparations begin and the younger one gets mocked𤪠by people in the neighbourhood for the switching of roles from biwi to saali.
The girls shared a good bond despite the elder one having jealousy issues since childhood with her own siblings.
After marriage the girls continue being sisters, but their relation was not like before, the elder one insecure about her husband's affection tries to badmouth her sister in front of the husband, jija having grudge against the kattha angoor saali is disrespectful to her, taunting her in each visit to the mayka, calling the girl unfit for marriage and can never live at her in-laws even for few months. The younger one could never entertain her idhar udhar jija and his intolerable taunts. Making their each festive visit an eternal hell to her.
Thereafter the girl decides to accept koi bhi to escape this torture, but had to have a heartbreakđ due to rishta breaking before engagement đ and gets mocked by these peopleđ proving them â ď¸ about the girl not being a marriage material.
The elder one and jija were successful at being jodibreakers for all matches to the girl through them.
At the age of 20 it felt eternal suffering to the girl but then came her prince charming flying đŠfrom đ, he looked at the girl's pic while đand started praying lord Shivađ đą for 90 days wanting an immediate marriage and arrived in India to get married within 10 days.
When god disposes nobody can change it, hence the girl's parents get the alliance fixed to the groom and reveals this to jija and elder sister only after the engagement because everything has been decided within hours(jhat manginiđphat byaahđŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨)
The elder sister and jija were unhappy with the parents for the late intimation and marriage to the sister without their consent.
Their heartburn had no bounds when they have seen that the girl is betrothed into an affluent family and she will be flying far away from them.
Despite all this the sisters bond continues because blood relations cannot be discontinued.
The younger one is born with her own set of flaws and thanks to the circumstances before marriage, she could see the bright side of people in her future and the challenge of her jija enabled her to remain patient during the initial glitches in her marital life.
Bottomline: Life happens in many colors and dont expect everything in black and white. Ooparwala has a very colourful creation so let's enjoy it.
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