Ye na thi hamari Qismat |Ary|~ Hira M, Noor H, Muneeb B - Page 36

Originally posted by: Roroo

does ur cousins work or do something else for husbands to do all?? 🤣

They are well balanced Alhumdulilah .. my cousins have jobs too

Yasir is worst man, he wanted a lively girl and now want her to change. Such a realistic jerk. Society is filled with jerk like him.

For the first time, I agreed with alishba and disagreed with Munteha. She seems so so preachy. Not to mention dumb. Who gave such a high paying job? The girl has zero common sense. How can someone be so blind to others' actions and intentions. I know when we are young, we feel the entire world is good and people have no bad intentions but COME ON! How can you not question the people around you. You don't need to be a badtameez but there's no harm in being a little cautious. And that too when your own sister warned you that someone is plotting against them. Uff. The idiot.

Bus khidmat and sabr. Khidmat and sabr. Ffs if you have to lose your self respect to get someone to behave decently with you and treat you like a human being rather than a robot, they don't love you! The moment you stop doing those things, they'll go back to treating you like trash.

You know what, I hope Ayaan treats her badly. If for nothing else, then to give Saint munteha the wake up call she sorely needs.

Originally posted by: Hayat97

For the first time, I agreed with alishba and disagreed with Munteha. She seems so so preachy. Not to mention dumb. Who gave such a high paying job? The girl has zero common sense. How can someone be so blind to others' actions and intentions. I know when we are young, we feel the entire world is good and people have no bad intentions but COME ON! How can you not question the people around you. You don't need to be a badtameez but there's no harm in being a little cautious. And that too when your own sister warned you that someone is plotting against them. Uff. The idiot.

Bus khidmat and sabr. Khidmat and sabr. Ffs if you have to lose your self respect to get someone to behave decently with you and treat you like a human being rather than a robot, they don't love you! The moment you stop doing those things, they'll go back to treating you like trash.

You know what, I hope Ayaan treats her badly. If for nothing else, then to give Saint munteha the wake up call she sorely needs.

Your wish came true lol..it was given that Sania and Mano will trap her .. and Muntaha probably still has the letter the guy wrote for Sania .. so she is going to get trapped even more..but the guy does come out to say he was there for Sania (the scene is in Muneeb's youtube video)..and i guess that is when Muntaha will leave Ayan ..they were wearing the same outfits from the OST clip

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

Yasir is worst man, he wanted a lively girl and now want her to change. Such a realistic jerk. Society is filled with jerk like him.

He is a jerk a for sure ... But Alishba is not lively ..she is straight up batameez who has not sense of respect for others ...they met only once and he judged her too quickly ..guess he went for the outer beauty

Its good that she speaks up for herself but there is a way of putting your point across ..not only that she is selfish and sees no fault in herself

Even after being robbed and losing her child she still has not mended her ways

I wonder what it will take for her to come back down to earth?!

I don't think I have ever seen a show like this where 75% of the entire episode's conversations revolve around cooking and house chores....my goodness!

Today I learned a concept called Toxic positivity

It is defined as the excessive and ineffective overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state across all situations. The process of toxic positivity results in the denial, minimization, and invalidation of the authentic human emotional experience.

Just like anything done in excess, when positivity is used to cover up or silence the human experience, it becomes toxic. By disallowing the existence of certain feelings, we fall into a state of denial and repressed emotions. The truth is, humans are flawed. We get jealous, angry, resentful, and greedy. Sometimes life can just flat out suck. By pretending that we are “positive vibes all day,” we deny the validity of a genuine human experience.

I often wonder if women like Munteha are actually toxic in their own way??

in a way, it’s also our culture which associates “shame” to confrontational behavior. Even in the show we often hear, “isse sharm nahi aati?”

To force a positive outlook on pain is to encourage a person to keep silent about their struggles.

Most of us don’t want to be seen as a drag or “bad,” so when the choice is between A) be brave and honest or B) pretend like everything is going great, we might be tempted to adopt the latter.

The energy source of shame is silence, secrecy, and judgment. In other words, where there is hiding, secrets, and denial, shame is usually in the driver’s seat.

Shame is crippling to the human spirit and one of the most uncomfortable feelings we can feel. Often, we don’t even know that we are feeling shame.

Anyways I was thinking a lot about what I read, and was wondering about tv shows actually often show “nice and good girl” under this garb,

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

He is a jerk a for sure ... But Alishba is not lively ..she is straight up batameez who has not sense of respect for others ...they met only once and he judged her too quickly ..guess he went for the outer beauty

Its good that she speaks up for herself but there is a way of putting your point across ..not only that she is selfish and sees no fault in herself

Even after being robbed and losing her child she still has not mended her ways

I wonder what it will take for her to come back down to earth?!

She is trying now, at least she tried on today's episode. But Yasir still complaining about house chores.

She is badtameez but her sasural needs a badtameez bahuu too.

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

She is trying now, at least she tried on today's episode. But Yasir still complaining about house chores.

She is badtameez but her sasural needs a badtameez bahuu too.

No one needs a batameez person in their life because that will only make things worse ..one just need to take a stand in a right way

I dont think Yasir wants her to change but him and her in laws do want her to be more responsible ..she is a stay at home wife ...how difficult is it to cook when you have every thing else being provided to you ..what does she do all day in her bedroom? Doesnt she get bored lol ..she doesnt seem to have any friends either ..

i honestly i dnt think her in laws are that bad (except for the phupoo) ..i feel if Alishba learns to give them some respect then it will be alot easier in the house ...the mum in law can be bit over but she is still better then Ayan's mum and the father in law does balance it out too

Originally posted by: columbia

Today I learned a concept called Toxic positivity

It is defined as the excessive and ineffective overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state across all situations. The process of toxic positivity results in the denial, minimization, and invalidation of the authentic human emotional experience.

Just like anything done in excess, when positivity is used to cover up or silence the human experience, it becomes toxic. By disallowing the existence of certain feelings, we fall into a state of denial and repressed emotions. The truth is, humans are flawed. We get jealous, angry, resentful, and greedy. Sometimes life can just flat out suck. By pretending that we are “positive vibes all day,” we deny the validity of a genuine human experience.

I often wonder if women like Munteha are actually toxic in their own way??

in a way, it’s also our culture which associates “shame” to confrontational behavior. Even in the show we often hear, “isse sharm nahi aati?”

To force a positive outlook on pain is to encourage a person to keep silent about their struggles.

Most of us don’t want to be seen as a drag or “bad,” so when the choice is between A) be brave and honest or B) pretend like everything is going great, we might be tempted to adopt the latter.

The energy source of shame is silence, secrecy, and judgment. In other words, where there is hiding, secrets, and denial, shame is usually in the driver’s seat.

Shame is crippling to the human spirit and one of the most uncomfortable feelings we can feel. Often, we don’t even know that we are feeling shame.

Anyways I was thinking a lot about what I read, and was wondering about tv shows actually often show “nice and good girl” under this garb,

Muntaha is unreal ... I have seen no one suffer the way she does and not even complain about it to anyone ..not even her mum ..like we usually see such characters crying ..praying to God at some point ..like they have some way of venting it out...Muntaha has does none of that i think

I have seen alot of Muntaha's in real life but no one has reacted the way she does

Muntaha is brave enough to take a stand for her self ..and she does so for people who dont hold any value to her (like Sania)..

She should have taken a stand for herself when Ayan accused her initially