Arohi and harsh looks like will team up,and the family rant.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Bilkul nahi rukegi... Shaadi ke chakkar mein he forgot he was angry too 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: priya3_3

Akshara's family rant just won't end,i mean iske paas buddhi hi nhi hai,agar logically bhi dekhe to jb shaadiyan hoti hain to jinse chaos ho skta hai u tend to avoid those people, mtlb abhi tk apni family family krti thi ab abhi ki family family krti hai,it looks like Abhi is just a second fiddle for her,koi mtlb hi nhi hai😂😂😂,vo ldka isse kitna pyar krta hai,mara ja rha hai shaadi krne ko isse,iske liye sbse ld liya,jail chla gya,lekin ye to aise dikhati hai ki theek hai na ok chlo kr lungi shaadi......abhi ko ye samajhna hi nhi chahti,theek hai family important hoti hai pr aadmi situation ke hisaab se chalta hai,harsh shaadi nhi chahta,abhi harsh ko nhi chahta lekin in madam ko samajh nhi aata....... don't be surprised if akshara ye keh de ki shaadi TB hi hogi jb usme harsh hoga......... Abhi to Ghar ki murgi hai.....daal baraabar......abhi' love>>>>>>>>>> akshara's love........

Hi 🤗

I just understand basic hindi but I think I understand the above.😊

Though I am also tired of her family rant, it is something very important and intrinsic to her and for some reason she is coming across as a bully which is intolerable to me...I just don't like that hard look that comes over her face when she doesn't get her way. There are so many ways to explain what is important you to I am confused why on earth are the writers not showing Abhira going out for coffee or sitting in a park and talking their heart out now?!

Then I remembered what I said yesterday to Nandini, Meher, Hope and etc...Abhira will have an almighty row about this. Abhi is already fed up and when she insists on inviting his father, he may cave in to keep her happy (notice the pattern of always making her happy!) but boy oh boy he will not be happy with her. Discontent is already in him and the more she rants on about family the more cracks will appear. But I also think he needs to mention why he is so unhappy with his dad. Knowing Akshu, she will try to mend that relationship but it will get worse. I have a feeling she will play another game this time to get Harsh and Abhi together.

It is important to have your parents at the wedding unless you are no contact with them. I can understand Manjari's situation but I do blame her as well - she had years to help mend this or make it clear to one or the other that she will not be in the middle but yet she is. But yes in real life you need to walk away from people who are not happy for you or you don't want them in your happy day. A real life couple would respect a partner's decision but not here.

Every sign is pointing towards either the marriage track halting - the Goenka's are happily (stupidly) making plans for Abhira and Kaisha but not one of them thought to include the Birla Adults (who amongst us will sit quietly while others make plans for our kids?! ) - Abhi is fed up with Akshu giving priority to the world but not him or their relationship as he craves....sooner or later he will have to stop and think and I think it's going to break his heart (and ours).

I hope it doesn't happen like that but certainly a crisis for Abhira is on it's way. Akshu needs to learn the lesson family does not equate to the love that is between a man and a woman. That is different and need to be carefully nurtured like you would a plant. If not it will wither and die, or start developing rot.😊

Originally posted by: pbv3434

abhi is no nonsense person bt when it comes to manjari n akshu I don’t knw he just doesn’t answer them back..woh easily maaf kar deta hai.😭jisse woh pyar karta hai uske liye he will go through anything bt the feeling is not reciprocated from manju n akshu..Offcource they love him bt his love for ak n his mom is into another level.😳he will always be second for both of them..manjari ke liye harsh n ak ke liye it’s always her family first Thn every body else..😭

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Hi 🤗

I just understand basic hindi but I think I understand the above.😊

Though I am also tired of her family rant, it is something very important and intrinsic to her and for some reason she is coming across as a bully which is intolerable to me...I just don't like that hard look that comes over her face when she doesn't get her way. There are so many ways to explain what is important you to I am confused why on earth are the writers not showing Abhira going out for coffee or sitting in a park and talking their heart out now?!

Then I remembered what I said yesterday to Nandini, Meher, Hope and etc...Abhira will have an almighty row about this. Abhi is already fed up and when she insists on inviting his father, he may cave in to keep her happy (notice the pattern of always making her happy!) but boy oh boy he will not be happy with her. Discontent is already in him and the more she rants on about family the more cracks will appear. But I also think he needs to mention why he is so unhappy with his dad. Knowing Akshu, she will try to mend that relationship but it will get worse. I have a feeling she will play another game this time to get Harsh and Abhi together.

It is important to have your parents at the wedding unless you are no contact with them. I can understand Manjari's situation but I do blame her as well - she had years to help mend this or make it clear to one or the other that she will not be in the middle but yet she is. But yes in real life you need to walk away from people who are not happy for you or you don't want them in your happy day. A real life couple would respect a partner's decision but not here.

Every sign is pointing towards either the marriage track halting - the Goenka's are happily (stupidly) making plans for Abhira and Kaisha but not one of them thought to include the Birla Adults (who amongst us will sit quietly while others make plans for our kids?! ) - Abhi is fed up with Akshu giving priority to the world but not him or their relationship as he craves....sooner or later he will have to stop and think and I think it's going to break his heart (and ours).

I hope it doesn't happen like that but certainly a crisis for Abhira is on it's way. Akshu needs to learn the lesson family does not equate to the love that is between a man and a woman. That is different and need to be carefully nurtured like you would a plant. If not it will wither and die, or start developing rot.😊

Originally posted by: Padm1

exactly i just want him to leave all this shit and go some where tab jaake inlogon ko Abhi ka value samaj me aayega bada aaya Rog jamane wale😠

Originally posted by: priya3_3

thank God there is someone who thinks exactly like me,i feel at this moment at this time abhira's marriage is not possible at all, although they r shown to be going for abhira's marriage but i think family rant, abhi's insecurities combined with his anger and akshara always having him at the gun point,ye hoga TB hi shaadi hogi,vo hoga TB hi shaadi hogi will eventually lead to their falling off, it's like use bohot farq nhi padta hai,abhi maan gaya to theek nhi to nhi phir....... akshara needs a lesson that love is beyond everything and every limit,like abhi's love for her which is limitless, family is important but a barrier needs to be there,she doesn't yet love abhi with all her 💓 and soul cause if she did she wouldn't be blaming her love (which is abhi) for every mishap or any unpleasant event that happens and i think abhi is aware of the fact and that's why he is eager to marry her as soon as possible cause he think she might leave her anytime for her family..........mujhe to kbhi-kbhi lgta hai isko bahana chahiye rishtey se nikalne ka AARU BADE PAPA,HARSH MANJARI,AMERICA NOTH KOREA , UKRAINE RUSSIA mtlb duniya bhar ki bakaiti......bs kbhi ye nhi sochti ki abhi ko kaisa lgega jb baar baar tum usko shaadi pe dhamki de rhi ho........i think abhi ka gussa phutega zarur aur abhira ki shaadi abhi tootegi zaroor phir chahe kuchh hi samay ke liye kyun na ho

I will be extremely disbelieving if they continue with this shaadi track without at least both Abhira being marginally happy with one another. If they continue going ahead like this, Abhi will blow up - he will get emotional and say once again our love doesn't matter when compared to family and this time he will be justified. (Lol, love you reference to the current events!😆)...but he has a right to if Akshu doesn't pause in her family rant and start listening to him and his own needs/wants.

Since Goenka's said yes to the rishtaa, we had not seen Abhira alone to celebrate this win. They should be happy, yelling and talking their hearts off. Nope straight away more tension. Given how the Birla's had been totally ignored it made sense but in the next few episodes I do want Abira to talk otherwise we are heading for a bust up between them two. Something has to break somewhere or something has to happen to show Akshu where Abhi resides in her heart.

At the moment she equates family and love as being the same. She needs to see it is different.

All this makes me believe we are in for a crisis, a huge conflict and this time maybe Abhi and Akshu will be on opposite sides.

I don't want Abhi to cave in anymore to Akshu. Enough is enough, she needs to listen to him and try to understand where he is coming from. This is a mark of a good loving partner.