We keep getting played.

We need to stop getting played.

many of us who try to stray clear of offscreen nautanki can get ultimately provoked if we see comments/post that keep targeting the actor who genuinely works super hard, holds the show together and sets an example for mature and difnified offscreen conduct. So after multiple needling attempts we all fall for it. And the pages that should get ZERO comments , we all give it like 10-12 pages of discussion and more....

The content of most of it maybe to air our grievances, speak facts, show the mirror- but its NO use. Because the views, the publicity have happened.

And the bias or strategy is obvious. These pages dont get shut down until after the desired objective of number of eyeballs has been accomplished. Uske baad the topic will go silent, get closed. Select people may get "warnings" too- although the internet is a free space.

I am guilty of falling into the trap repeatedly. But I'm gonna try hard not to. If i cant control myself from speaking out, I'll create a special thread or go to some other generic thread to vent there but not post on the same thread. but I'll do my best not to react. Coz thats the most effective thing we can do. It'll be super hard but it'll be the perfect reaction. Because by getting played we are unknowingly giving hype where its undeserved.

Karma will get those who behave like hypocrites eventually. So lets just enjoy the show when that happens.

I agree... it’s so frustrating tbh... when you know it’s a game and you cannot stop it. We really need to ignore them high time. It’s getting out of hand today. Been more than a year and honestly it’s damn frustrating to see all this.

I relate to you. But in our bid to speak the facts and call out the BS- we just get played. Over and over again. If we fought our impulse to react - especially on the same thread where they are trying to create a buzz we will be able to give an even stronger response. We need to not get trapped into giving views and publicity unwittingly to those who dont deserve it.

For example right now, the content of two threads is very similar in terms of praising Ayesha's hardwork and growth, off screen conduct. But one of them is titled with Ayesha's name and has like 5 replies. Whereas the other has like more than 10 pages of replies. But the title will make it seem like the forum is excited about that topic and wants more of that. But aisa nahi hai. We know that. So we need to be smart.

This is what I have been keep telling guys that we are being played..

Don't give them and their articles a damn but still people would post under their article spew sh**..Its not hard to understand they want our reaction to get more visibility..

Saw some fake ids are created demean Ayesha on twitter... This sm is full of fakeness ..Because of our reaction these two are getting maximum visibility..

Totally agree and this is just a start.

They (channel) will keep on doing this. They will purposely create controversies with Ayesha's name so that her genuine fans who do not watch the show will watch it only to defend her.

Not mentioning Neil Aish fans because they will anyway watch it.

The dialogues would be cropped, mis quoted and what not. Articles with ambiguous quotes, mentions would be spewed out on regular basis.

It's all a script and off the show everything would be hunky Dory.

It's a request to not get riled up and be civil to each other. It's nothing but a game for money. For channel, for contestants and for everyone involved.

Best policy would be to not react.

I am guilty of doing the same after reading so many comments but I will refrain henceforth.

Peace out ✌🏼✌🏼

I have absolutely ignored all the articles or even threads that are titled for those articles to promote negative publicity. I don’t even click on that topic to even give a ‘view’ count!

I am still on a stunned state that this forum is for Ghum show so why are people even posting and playing games for the other show. IF rules are all squashed all of a sudden!

Anyways steer clear and I only come to post praise for Ayesha for the past week or so! Truth/fact that she is doing well doesn’t need to be explained again and again!
I suggest that people who are here for Ayesha, keep praising her and just refrain and ignore all the other noise! Even if you don’t want to praise Ayesha and want to praise other actors of the show - Kishori mam, Shailesh sir, Etc do that the world doesn’t revolve around those who are needing negative stunts under positivity tag! 😉

It’s so obvious. So I refrained from commenting on that particular post. Even here there are those selected 3-4 accounts that wake up everytime Laila Majnu are upto some major new clownery. Otherwise you won’t them around commenting or interacting!

Its completely unecessary for every IF article about clownery to be made into a topic of its own. But its allowed to happen and I still fall for the trap because main bewakuf hoon and also sometimes i go to the thread after identifying the name of the last person who commented as someone whose posts i want to read. But I'm mad at myself. I'm gonna be smarter.