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Posted: 4 years ago

I don’t if anyone have notice it or it’s just me overthinking. But whenever couple have something personal event or show coming where they can their personal chemistry or present themselves as couple in front of world. In there main show they tend to drag the track to show less of Sairat so couple can get limelight not the reel Jodi.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Remarriage not so soon but Virat going against the family is what I want to see. Also, one episode on Patralekha insult would be a cherry on the cake.

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Posted: 4 years ago

One full week of PP beizzati... with one kaand per episode would give me immense pleasure ☺️😉

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Posted: 4 years ago

Sai should not fall for Virat's trap.. They actually have nothing in this relationship.. This is the fifth time they are injured ...Virat is the new age mcp.. She strong and thought provoking young lady... I'm not saying Virat doesn't love her but he is not the right partner for her.. Now family also have nullified their marriage.. Thru deserve girls like Pakhi or shruti who can be with multiple men at times..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Coincidence seems such lame joke. The incidents are too many to categorise under coincidence. The point on coincidence vs strategy is so much in the face that anyone who sees it can figure out the whole damn play out to satisfy the publicity hunger

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Posted: 4 years ago

Itne saare comments/discussion dekhne ke baad... curiosity took better of me and I watched the promo for new show.

My two cents


The promo dialogues look deliberately cropped to create buzz.

NBA (Neil and Aish) do not take Ayesha's name but it points to that and this is precisely what they (channel) want. To create buzz, to create an impression of them (NBA) being trolled/hurt and rile up fans. This will drive up the TRPs and revenue for the channel.


Later down the line, neither NBA will take her name but it will be hinted amply. At some point, the channel may even ask Ayesha to make an ambiguous statement to drive up NBA ratings in the show. Ayesha's fans who had ignored the show will watch it to defend her and it will help the shows ratings. She might have to do it as part of contract or whatever (I am not sure)

Offscreen, everyone would be in cahoots of what is to be said.


Reality shows except talent reality shows generally work like this. It is my opinion that they are heavily scripted.

Controversy sells and therefore that will be created in heaps, unless there is another couple who might use the same tactic.


There is seriously no point in getting affected by all this and I request you all to ignore and not fight among each other.

It is not going to affect anyone except our own sanity. Certainly not the ones we are fighting for.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Coincidence seems such lame joke. The incidents are too many to categorise under coincidence. The point on coincidence vs strategy is so much in the face that anyone who sees it can figure out the whole damn play out to satisfy the publicity hunger


EXACTLY!!! I don’t believe it either... they just give away themselves in their desperation. Like they say na success goes to your head same has happened with them and they are pathetic

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Itne saare comments/discussion dekhne ke baad... curiosity took better of me and I watched the promo for new show.

My two cents


The promo dialogues look deliberately cropped to create buzz.

NBA (Neil and Aish) do not take Ayesha's name but it points to that and this is precisely what they (channel) want. To create buzz, to create an impression of them (NBA) being trolled/hurt and rile up fans. This will drive up the TRPs and revenue for the channel.


Later down the line, neither NBA will take her name but it will be hinted amply. At some point, the channel may even ask Ayesha to make an ambiguous statement to drive up NBA ratings in the show. Ayesha's fans who had ignored the show will watch it to defend her and it will help the shows ratings. She might have to do it as part of contract or whatever (I am not sure)

Offscreen, everyone would be in cahoots of what is to be said.


Reality shows except talent reality shows generally work like this. It is my opinion that they are heavily scripted.

Controversy sells and therefore that will be created in heaps, unless there is another couple who might use the same tactic.


There is seriously no point in getting affected by all this and I request you all to ignore and not fight among each other.

It is not going to affect anyone except our own sanity. Certainly not the ones we are fighting for.

it is scripted... one of the contestants posted a reel with the script in it... so imagine they opened their own secret before anything started only. Even the troll bit is being used to garner sympathy and negative hype... Aishwarya must’ve been paid for all the negative hit no body does all this for free. She doesn’t give two fs what people will say she gets money and so does her better half. Anything for fame and money you see


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Posted: 4 years ago

Actually i think that Virat only says he loves her but i dont see it as "true love" just yet. It needs more time. Yes he cares for her well being, feels responsible for her education, her security. He has a crush on her because shes an attractive lady and hes a young hormomal guy. He feels possessive of her because he is used to being the center of her attention and sharing that attention with others makes him uncomfortable. Those are all definitely stepping stones to love. But hes not fully "in love". Hes on the way. But if he genuinely loved her - he would give her the benefit of doubt, he'd never put anything else- especially a stranger or a criminal above their relationship, he would see her insecurities and never allow pp to say anything between them, he'd probably have at least thought of moving out with her alone even if he didn't act on it.... He has convinced himself he loves Sai because thats acceptable- afterall shes his wife and she's a good person at her core.

He has a big soft corner for Sai and his relationship with her has a label- marriage. She is also his room mate. So she is the only woman he has seen at such intimate quarters on a daily basis and he sees her goodness , impressed by her strength, her fortitude and is habituated to her presence, her gussa, her stubbornness, their nok jhok, her mannerisms. They have found a sync in their general outlooks to life and he is also indebted to her for fixing things for his family or taking a stand for people in the family in a way that he wanted to but couldn't do because of conditioning, expectations and his non confrontational attitude.

But he also has a soft corner for pp, shruti.

I genuinely believe that if Sai didn't exist at all and Sam was missing , Virat would NOT have been able to hold back from being in a relationship with pp. He would have tried to- yes but he'd have failed and eventually given in. I say that because of the way the makers show the amount of pull/hold pp has on him. She knows exactly what to say to get a desired reaction out of him and he doesn't disappoint. Even when he knows she has no good intentions for him-Sai, he has given her a long rope, he has given her benefit of doubt, has several times allowed her to manipulate him or sided with her to project anger and frustration on Sai and its very recent that he has snapped himself out of falling for pp's manipulation because she had really crossed the line and there IS A Sai in his life. But if there was no Sai and Sam was MIA , in the 1 year I dont think Virat would have respected his boundaries with pp..

Similarly if there was no Sai but Sam was always around, he would definitely have stayed in his limits with pp. Because he does love his brother. And with Sam around theres less room for him to allow pp to manipulate him. Also without Sai, if it was just him with Sam-PP, he may have been too heartbroken seeing them together and just left taking a transfer or something.

And if Shruti had come into his life when there was no Sai but Sam-PP were married and Sada was thought to be dead, he'd have definitely got together with Shruti. He may have out of guilt gone ahead and married her to give her/her unborn child a good secure future instead of doing it just on paper and probably then gone on to feel more for her and eventually labelled it as "love".

The difference in his soft corner for Sai vs PP/Shruti is impacted largely by societal norms and acceptability and the way we perceive morals and ethics in a conservative indian society. He wont have a physical relationship with Shruti or PP because they are married to his brother and bff and because he himself is also married. But in the absence of their husbands he does allow himself to get emotionally close to them in a non-platonic way and struggles to maintain boundaries. But if he was not married to Sai at all and eithet of these two women were available without their husbands being physically around- i think he would have got together with them in due course of time. First emotionally and then physically.

So Virat says he loves Sai but he isnt quite there yet for real. Hes on the way to being in love but they still have some more growing to do in the relationship. It needs more time and work. Its only when he is able to prioritize her and their marriage over everything else- even when he is mad at her or upset at her, the day he becomes a better version of himself and Sai becomes a better version of herself- thats the day I'll believe they are truly in love.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Nja91

Actually i think that Virat only says he loves her but i dont see it as "true love" just yet. It needs more time. Yes he cares for her well being, feels responsible for her education, her security. He has a crush on her because shes an attractive lady and hes a young hormomal guy. He feels possessive of her because he is used to being the center of her attention and sharing that attention with others makes him uncomfortable. Those are all definitely stepping stones to love. But hes not fully "in love". Hes on the way. But if he genuinely loved her - he would give her the benefit of doubt, he'd never put anything else- especially a stranger or a criminal above their relationship, he would see her insecurities and never allow pp to say anything between them, he'd probably have at least thought of moving out with her alone even if he didn't act on it.... He has convinced himself he loves Sai because thats acceptable- afterall shes his wife and she's a good person at her core.

He has a big soft corner for Sai and his relationship with her has a label- marriage. She is also his room mate. So she is the only woman he has seen at such intimate quarters on a daily basis and he sees her goodness , impressed by her strength, her fortitude and is habituated to her presence, her gussa, her stubbornness, their nok jhok, her mannerisms. They have found a sync in their general outlooks to life and he is also indebted to her for fixing things for his family or taking a stand for people in the family in a way that he wanted to but couldn't do because of conditioning, expectations and his non confrontational attitude.

But he also has a soft corner for pp, shruti.

I genuinely believe that if Sai didn't exist at all and Sam was missing , Virat would NOT have been able to hold back from being in a relationship with pp. He would have tried to- yes but he'd have failed and eventually given in. I say that because of the way the makers show the amount of pull/hold pp has on him. She knows exactly what to say to get a desired reaction out of him and he doesn't disappoint. Even when he knows she has no good intentions for him-Sai, he has given her a long rope, he has given her benefit of doubt, has several times allowed her to manipulate him or sided with her to project anger and frustration on Sai and its very recent that he has snapped himself out of falling for pp's manipulation because she had really crossed the line and there IS A Sai in his life. But if there was no Sai and Sam was MIA , in the 1 year I dont think Virat would have respected his boundaries with pp..

Similarly if there was no Sai but Sam was always around, he would definitely have stayed in his limits with pp. Because he does love his brother. And with Sam around theres less room for him to allow pp to manipulate him. Also without Sai, if it was just him with Sam-PP, he may have been too heartbroken seeing them together and just left taking a transfer or something.

And if Shruti had come into his life when there was no Sai but Sam-PP were married and Sada was thought to be dead, he'd have definitely got together with Shruti. He may have out of guilt gone ahead and married her to give her/her unborn child a good secure future instead of doing it just on paper and probably then gone on to feel more for her and eventually labelled it as "love".

The difference in his soft corner for Sai vs PP/Shruti is impacted largely by societal norms and acceptability and the way we perceive morals and ethics in a conservative indian society. He wont have a physical relationship with Shruti or PP because they are married to his brother and bff and because he himself is also married. But in the absence of their husbands he does allow himself to get emotionally close to them in a non-platonic way and struggles to maintain boundaries. But if he was not married to Sai at all and eithet of these two women were available without their husbands being physically around- i think he would have got together with them in due course of time. First emotionally and then physically.

So Virat says he loves Sai but he isnt quite there yet for real. Hes on the way to being in love but they still have some more growing to do in the relationship. It needs more time and work. Its only when he is able to prioritize her and their marriage over everything else- even when he is mad at her or upset at her, the day he becomes a better version of himself and Sai becomes a better version of herself- thats the day I'll believe they are truly in love.

Nice observation.. This is how makers have portrayed his character..

He is the typical man in our society we see around.. Hence SaiRat and love both are overrated..

However I have another they version about this..

Virat does love Sai.. If you notice when Shruti fell he remained unaffected but Sada who got worried for his wife.. The thing is that Sai doesn't satisfy his ego the way these two ladies do.. Sai objects to his values.. She is sharper and demands utmost transparency..he gets kicks from shruti because she puts him in place of god.. Pakhi on the other hand is the delusional clown..however Pakhi doesn't give him that kick because she isn't a beggar like Shruti who will put him in the place of god.. But she is certainly someone who will throw herself to him no matter what.. Those disagreement leads them falling apart each time..

One both Pakhi and Virat are same but not in equilibrium ..Pakhi wants the compassion he has for Sai .Similarly Virat wants to be the center of her attention no matter what comes just like Aaba.. He enjoys being her husband, her guardian and having full control over her all necessities..When Sai took all her bank documents he was hurt.. And then when Sai said that she has no one he got offended because he wants to be her everything..

I agree with you he isn't there yet as her lover.. It will take a lot of times.. Unfortunately Sai's love realisation is the painful where as virat's journey was beautiful ..i so want watch his painful realisation

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