Has Kairav taken the right decision? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Winnertakesital

🙂 The precap is misleading. I won't blame Akshara. Abhimanyu has the capacity to smash Kairav's face.

Doctors are also hot tempered. Agreed. I anticipated Abhimanyu to pounce on Kairav near the lake. He was well behaved minus Akshara.

There can be various reasons for his outburst in Birla house.

He knows that Kairav does love his sister.The one sided confession is playing on his mind.

Or

Mr. Manish Goenka insulted him.

Coming to Kairav's decision. I find it weird.

He is in love but cannot continue.

I mean Kairav is not thinking about Anisha's state of mind.

@ bold that’s why I said “if” akshara is supporting Kairav …coz that would mean she supports Abhimanyu leaving her as well…she cannot have it both ways

Can we know that? I mean I can see justification in his decision. It's upto him to decide who he wants or doesn't want to have in his life, right? Whatever his reasons are, he can't be forced right? And why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn't prioritize you and drop you so fast.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Can we know that? I mean I can see justification in his decision. It's upto him to decide who he wants or doesn't want to have in his life, right? Whatever his reasons are, he can't be forced right? And why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn't prioritize you and drop you so fast.

Anisha has the right to know why he is justified.

Kairav can cite her behavioural issues for the breakup. But no, "The man who knew too much" is okay with everything. He wants to dissociate himself from this so call self inflicted pain.

Why can't he come clean from top to bottom.

I have a different take.

Anisha definitely has a right to know why Kairav is breaking up. We don’t know how close they were in the relationship.

I would like to give benefit of doubt to Kairav.

Goenka kids are brought up in a very different environment compared to Birla kids. For Goenka kids family is everything. For Birla kids they never had family love, never celebrated any festival with family , parents were never there - so they don’t know the importance of family. Hence they don’t prioritize family. Not their fault - they were brought up like this.

Kairav broke up with his girlfriend. We all have had break ups - at least I did. It’s okay as it was his wish. Doesn’t make him bad for not standing up for his love against his family. He prioritized his family over love. Everyone has priorities. Some break up for career.

Anisha is suicidal. Which is bad but again, how is Kairav responsible for that? And why is she so desperate in being with a guy who he doesn’t want to be with.

I find anisha impulsive. Break up hua toh multiple suicide attempts karo. She should have had some patience.

Both Birla siblings need to learn what patience is.

Look Anisha knows everything about kairav even his family. He is honest with her.

But kairav come to know she is Birla recently means their are so many things she didn't told him. How can he trusts her now

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I have a different take.

Anisha definitely has a right to know why Kairav is breaking up. We don’t know how close they were in the relationship.

I would like to give benefit of doubt to Kairav.

Goenka kids are brought up in a very different environment compared to Birla kids. For Goenka kids family is everything. For Birla kids they never had family love, never celebrated any festival with family , parents were never there - so they don’t know the importance of family. Hence they don’t prioritize family. Not their fault - they were brought up like this.

Kairav broke up with his girlfriend. We all have had break ups - at least I did. It’s okay as it was his wish. Doesn’t make him bad for not standing up for his love against his family. He prioritized his family over love. Everyone has priorities. Some break up for career.

Anisha is suicidal. Which is bad but again, how is Kairav responsible for that? And why is she so desperate in being with a guy who he doesn’t want to be with.

I find anisha impulsive. Break up hua toh multiple suicide attempts karo. She should have had some patience.

Both Birla siblings need to learn what patience is.

My question is why he wasn't bothered earlier. Kairav emphasized on the word ziddi. He does know Anisha inside out. Why he backed out after her full name came into picture.

Abhimanyu fell in love with Akshara

Aaroh wanted Abhimanyu to fulfill her ambitions.

Where does Anisha fit? she fell in love with out any prejudice.

Originally posted by: Winnertakesital

My question is why he wasn't bothered earlier. Kairav emphasized on the word ziddi. He does know Anisha inside out. Why he backed out after her full name came into picture. - the answer is in the question. He backed out after he came to know she is Birla. There are enough complications already and he didn’t want to add more to existing complications for his grandparents. He is a person who took on responsibilities and wants to settle Akshu and Aarohi. He going against family and adding more fuel to the existing fire is out of his character. He tries to resolve conflicts not add. That’s how Kairav is shown to be. Anisha is stubborn hence he didn’t share the details but I think she has a right to know.

Abhimanyu fell in love with Akshara

Aaroh wanted Abhimanyu to fulfill her ambitions.

Where does Anisha fit? she fell in love with out any prejudice. - yes, but maybe she didn’t tell him she is Birla beforehand. We don’t know what was shared , what wasn’t and how close they were in a relationship. Hence benefit of doubt.

I think she wants Kairav to fight for his and Anisha love like she did with Abhi. However, I think she is trying to understand that Kairav has a lot on his plate and she believes that Kairav put a lot of thoughts before breaking up with Anisha. That's why she is trying to understand why her brother is doing what he is doing and did not judge him straightaway for breaking up with Anisha the way he broke up with him.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I think she wants Kairav to fight for his and Anisha love like she did with Abhi. However, I think she is trying to understand that Kairav has a lot on his plate and she believes that Kairav put a lot of thoughts before breaking up with Anisha. That's why she is trying to understand why her brother is doing what he is doing and did not judge him straightaway for breaking up with Anisha the way he broke up with him.

if she truly wants Kairav to fight for his love more power to her I say…it might be just me but I don’t agree that Kairav has a lot on his plate…actually abhi n akshara had way more on their plates n akshara made a similar decision previously n she saw how terribly wrong she was in denying her love in the name of family…it actually ended up messing the situation even more…