Negativity in the forum! - Page 7

Oh, God! It feels like this thread has been taken over by Gen Zs! 🙄

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

That is the whole point of this thread. Now, for people who didn't understand what I meant. When some of us criticised Abhimanyu's character, there was so much drama on forum. People cried negativity on a daily basis, reported some of us unnecessarily and expected us to shut up about our opinions. There were attention seeking, victim card playing threads all over. Not that I care.

So, the purpose of this thread is to act as a mirror to the double standards.

There were threads about mental health being deteriorated because random strangers on internet expressed disagreements about a stupid character on a shoddily written ITV. In this case Abhimanyu Birla and YRKKH.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

That is the whole point of this thread. Now, for people who didn't understand what I meant. When some of us criticised Abhimanyu's character, there was so much drama on forum. People cried negativity on a daily basis, reported some of us unnecessarily and expected us to shut up about our opinions. There were attention seeking, victim card playing threads all over. Not that I care.

So, the purpose of this thread is to act as a mirror to the double standards.

I stopped interrupting people as i felt my peace lies in ignoring posts than trying to put my point and those who has reported those posts i definitely feel there should be reason for reports and mods are not dumb to just give warning they might have seen something and read something. There are so many negative posts how many you have seen getting reported? Only some?as i have seen 1 or two posts recently getting reported.. I feel people should analyze why its getting reported than just pointing fingers at each other may be?

Why do you have to call people as attention seekers just because they made seperate thread to put their points.( i am sorry i am not a frequent visitors of IF so i don't know which posts you felt like attention seeking posts) Is it not your biased opinion that their threads are like playing victim cards but the threads which actually bashing actors and characters for small reasons are great threads.

I really appreciate that you make posts to prove your point. But i really feel its biased.

No offence just my pov which i noticed. And i apologize in advance if i said something wrong but i really did not liked the line that you said about attention seeking and victim card threads.

Peace!!! This is my last comment. Thank you!

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

There were threads about mental health being deteriorated because random strangers on internet expressed disagreements about a stupid character on a shoddily written ITV. In this case Abhimanyu Birla and YRKKH.

Yeh kya baat huyi yaar…. If you dislike someone and the other person likes and both of them have expressed their sentiments, then just agree to disagree and leave it at that

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

to be honest people have left forums due to all negativity during abhi's time. I am one of them. I dont want to get into any argument nor want to spoil my mood. So i only visit forums to read the posts ffs and to respond people who has tagged me. I do not understand the purpose of this post are you saying that people are not stopping anisha bashers so you have a problem with that 😆

I stopped interrupting people as i felt my peace lies in ignoring posts than trying to put my point and those who has reported those posts i definitely feel there should be reason for reports and mods are not dumb to just give warning they might have seen something and read something. There are so many negative posts how many you have seen getting reported? Only some?as i have seen 1 or two posts recently getting reported.. I feel people should analyze why its getting reported than just pointing fingers at each other may be?

Why do you have to call people as attention seekers just because they made seperate thread to put their points.( i am sorry i am not a frequent visitors of IF so i don't know which posts you felt like attention seeking posts) Is it not your biased opinion that their threads are like playing victim cards but the threads which actually bashing actors and characters for small reasons are great threads.

I really appreciate that you make posts to prove your point. But i really feel its biased.

No offence just my pov which i noticed. And i apologize in advance if i said something wrong but i really did not liked the line that you said about attention seeking and victim card threads.

Peace!!! This is my last comment. Thank you!

Okay. I will explain what I meant. First of all the point I am trying to make is everyone should have the freedom to say whatever they want about the characters and the show. My major argument.

I know people got reported and recieved warning for posting gifs. It is a fact.

Now I didn't call people attention seekers or playing victim cards because they had a difference of opinion. I meant about those who kept making posts about people who put out a disagreeing opinion or who disliked Abhimanyu, as harassers and supporters of abusers like Aarohi etc. We were even accused of waging wars just because we had a differing opinion. That was the point. I hope you understand. 😊

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Originally posted by: aishapl013

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Yaar, yeh tum kya kar rahe ho yaahan pe? Go save your Kairav from the noodles that you consider as a huge threat, no?

This reminds me, Bollywood forum pe there are a lot of people like this. They just want to fight.

last week, when I said, “let’s just agree to disagree” I got the reply, “but I don’t want to”

Originally posted by: Monstuholic

This reminds me, Bollywood forum pe there are a lot of people like this. They just want to fight.

last week, when I said, “let’s just agree to disagree” I got the reply, “but I don’t want to”

And also weird is this amazing cognitive dissonance I have witnessed here. I can only talk about this space because I haven't been part of any other forum. Everyone easily point their hands at Aarohi and now Anisha. But never at Abhimanyu. The way I see it, the core of Aarohi, Abhimanyu and Anisha are very similar. And Anisha and Abhimanyu are literally same and keep dissing Anisha but talking against Abhimanyu is unacceptable.

Anisha is being called delusional and a psycho for forcing her relationship with Kairav after he broke up with her. When Abhimanyu forced his relationship with Akshara and we called it out, it was a major issue. And everyone was like but Akshara loves him, here Kairav also says he loves Anisha. So how is only Anisha the psycho?