Negativity in the forum! - Page 6

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

Okay but the writing is bad cause it’s ITV. Good shows don’t last on itv so they have to pull stunts like this.I’m acc surprised the forum is so negative rn cause I expected the new shivin music video to make everyone happy

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

Was great to see this post as yes it would be so good to have proper discussion in a positive environment. Especially at the moment where I see the term ‘noodles’ being used and comments regarding lipstick shade. Please can someone help me understand what this is all about? Is the actress not worthy of doing her job compared to the other actresses who don’t have curly hair etc? I have curly hair and wear similar lipstick shades so according to people who make these comments am I not allowed in the country?? Is that what people would call me when I next visit?

So whilst there is a lot of negativity towards the characters/actors, it’s comments like this that reflect people’s attitudes to anyone who looks different that creates an environment I find offensive hence I infrequently come on here let alone comment otherwise I’d be happy to spread happiness and positivity☺️.

You've written everything from heart ❤ it's so true.

Unfortunately , mostly everyone here is unable to balance between constructive criticism and trolling. Some of us want the writers to take notice of certain things that's why they take time in writing their complaints..if they love the show they can also complain ... But there r a few who just troll endlessly ..just ignore...there will never be a time when there will be positive environment ..when the show started, it was one of the rare shows sans negativity ..even there some viewers found things problematic..like why was naitik throwing tantrums , why does akshara keeps crying , why are the family conservative , so on and so forth ...

What's meant for entertainment is a medium to vent our frustrations that's it .reel and real..hence the negativity .

This post btw is a sarcastic one . Bec some of the fans were complaining abt the story etc ..

Anyways..I agree that we shouldn't comment on the physical features like hair , skin tone etc..even the make up , dresses bec they keep experimenting with looks and make up ..how does it matter what akshu wears ?

Originally posted by: _charu_

You've written everything from heart ❤ it's so true.

Unfortunately , mostly everyone here is unable to balance between constructive criticism and trolling. Some of us want the writers to take notice of certain things that's why they take time in writing their complaints..if they love the show they can also complain ... But there r a few who just troll endlessly ..just ignore...there will never be a time when there will be positive environment ..when the show started, it was one of the rare shows sans negativity ..even there some viewers found things problematic..like why was naitik throwing tantrums , why does akshara keeps crying , why are the family conservative , so on and so forth ...

What's meant for entertainment is a medium to vent our frustrations that's it .reel and real..hence the negativity .

This post btw is a sarcastic one . Bec some of the fans were complaining abt the story etc ..

Anyways..I agree that we shouldn't comment on the physical features like hair , skin tone etc..even the make up , dresses bec they keep experimenting with looks and make up ..how does it matter what akshu wears ?

As I’ve been away from the forum for some time and only skimming posts of interest I guess I’d forgotten what it’s like and hence missed the sarcasm. Thank you for highlighting that to me☺️.

I do ignore most of the negativity but seeing comments on looks really irritated me today hence I wrote what I felt. Exactly why does it matter what they wear, how they sound or even why they were not given braces to wear!! This being the last crazy comment I saw!

You are right, people do not know difference between constructive criticism and trolling nor what is real versus reel. It’s so easy to hide behind the keyboard and pass judgement but no one sees the impact of those written words.

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

As I’ve been away from the forum for some time and only skimming posts of interest I guess I’d forgotten what it’s like and hence missed the sarcasm. Thank you for highlighting that to me☺️.

I do ignore most of the negativity but seeing comments on looks really irritated me today hence I wrote what I felt. Exactly why does it matter what they wear, how they sound or even why they were not given braces to wear!! This being the last crazy comment I saw!

You are right, people do not know difference between constructive criticism and trolling nor what is real versus reel. It’s so easy to hide behind the keyboard and pass judgement but no one sees the impact of those written words.

I am noticing it too. I ignore those posts and rarely comment as i personally believe no one has rights to call some with those names just because of their looks. Everyone are born differently even i wear specs but i definitely dont want to be called as chasmish 🙂 I completely agree people should think before using those names. And don't take these posts to heart as some people do not do it intentionally or they realize after posting it.🙂 I love curly hairs ❤❣

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I am noticing it too. I ignore those posts and rarely comment as i personally believe no one has rights to call some with those names just because of their looks. Everyone are born differently even i wear specs but i definitely dont want to be called as chasmish 🙂 I completely agree people should think before using those names. And don't take these posts to heart as some people do not do it intentionally or they realize after posting it.🙂 I love curly hairs ❤❣

Thank you💖

I wear glasses too, goes really well with my curly hair and dark lippy👩🏻‍🦱😉

We are all beautiful👸🏻

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

Thank you💖

I wear glasses too, goes really well with my curly hair and dark lippy👩🏻‍🦱😉

We are all beautiful👸🏻

I have curly hair too but this actress is wearing a bad wig…we are making fun of her bad wig. If it was natural hair it would have been different. Drashti Dhami has a head full of gorgeous curls that everyone loves….but this actress is stylist badly

This forum has lots of Abhira fans and I personally adore Pranali and love Akshu yet we make fun of Akshu’s bad styling too. Not everything is a personal attack

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Tum log bahut negativity phaila rahe ho. This message is for you two especially 😡

@MimiLulu, just because you keep writing an FF, you are not excused from the hate you spread against Akshu's clothes

MERI BETI MERI MARZI

We expected so much from the show and none of them are met. The forum is one place where we let out our frustrations.😆

Being part of the forum doesn’t mean that I love the show, it means that I watched the show and have an opinion about it that I want to share with other viewers

Originally posted by: Monstuholic

We expected so much from the show and none of them are met. The forum is one place where we let out our frustrations.😆

Being part of the forum doesn’t mean that I love the show, it means that I watched the show and have an opinion about it that I want to share with other viewers

That is the whole point of this thread. Now, for people who didn't understand what I meant. When some of us criticised Abhimanyu's character, there was so much drama on forum. People cried negativity on a daily basis, reported some of us unnecessarily and expected us to shut up about our opinions. There were attention seeking, victim card playing threads all over. Not that I care.

So, the purpose of this thread is to act as a mirror to the double standards.